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Has anyone here had a parent that died?

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xkcdCleftcel

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I ask because my dad has stage 4 cancer, i don't want him to die because i like him and is one of the only people who doesn't hate me because i'm subhuman. If he does die i don't know how i'm going to cope.
 
hopefully, my father dies as soon as possible so i get some inheritance to make my life easier
my mother could stay
 
Sorry to hear that. My mom died 5 years ago. She was the only person in my life that loved me. i was very attached to her. It was the first death of a family member. It changed me completely, after that i had a feeling that death waits around every corner and that at every moment anyone can die. Its only then when you realize how we take for granted family members by thinking they will always be around. It put me into state of dread and despair. Nothing mattered anymore and everything seemed pointless. I had a feeling that my life ended and im only waiting for my death to come.

Its not easy, its very hard experience filled with regrets, grief, guilt. But it gets easier and life goes on either you like it or not. I would say after 6 months you start going back to your old self and during day you even joke and keep yourself busy. Its hard at night and you get dreams of things you try to push down. I think after 1.5~3 years you completely accept that that person is gone.

Be strong, i dont know what else to tell you. I wish you well.
 
My parents died weeks apart. Moms medical bills ate up inheritance leaving me homeless.

Now living in old 1970 trailer that’s falling apart surrounded by tall grass weed infestation.

I still get the mail tho.
 
Nah but i wouldn't care if they did. They gave me the subhuman genes and with their inheritance i can get a better life
 
My dad passed, but left inheritance to my mom so she has the money and I have no choice but to stay at home for now.
 
I ask because my dad has stage 4 cancer, i don't want him to die because i like him and is one of the only people who doesn't hate me because i'm subhuman. If he does die i don't know how i'm going to cope.
cancer got my dad in june after a year long fight.
 
Sorry to hear that. My mom died 5 years ago. She was the only person in my life that loved me. i was very attached to her. It was the first death of a family member. It changed me completely, after that i had a feeling that death waits around every corner and that at every moment anyone can die. Its only then when you realize how we take for granted family members by thinking they will always be around. It put me into state of dread and despair. Nothing mattered anymore and everything seemed pointless. I had a feeling that my life ended and im only waiting for my death to come.

Its not easy, its very hard experience filled with regrets, grief, guilt. But it gets easier and life goes on either you like it or not. I would say after 6 months you start going back to your old self and during day you even joke and keep yourself busy. Its hard at night and you get dreams of things you try to push down. I think after 1.5~3 years you completely accept that that person is gone.

Be strong, i dont know what else to tell you. I wish you well.
thank you
 
Very sorry for your father hope he rests easy
 
Well i hope everyones parent here get to live forever they are really needed in these tough times.
My Pops is on his way out at his rate of his decline of health :cryfeels::feelscry:
Don't want him to go so early.
 
My mum passed in 2017 I wasn't as upset as I expected to be
In fact I was more upset when a pet died a few months later
I cried a lot when my mum died but only in the immediate few days afterwards
I didn't cry at the funeral
 
My dad died 3 years ago. Felt like he was the only person that at least pretended to give a shit about me. Was a tough loss and still tough dealing with the loss to this day
 
I ask because my dad has stage 4 cancer, i don't want him to die because i like him and is one of the only people who doesn't hate me because i'm subhuman. If he does die i don't know how i'm going to cope.
I know how you feel. My dad also has cancer, but he was kind of a Dick to me. My mom was even more abusive to me than my dad and She drank herself to death. It's okay though they ain't no friends of mine.
 
Thats fucking unfair, my dad is the only thing holding me together even if only financially.

Try to find him better drs or treat him yourself im sorry man :feelscry:
It's not much doctors can do mango, it's just poor genetics :feelsbadman::feelscry:
 
My dad is dead, but not in the grave dead. More like he’s never be in my life he was mostly in prison. Then I finally met him at age 15 and not for long he went back to prison. When he went back I decided he was dead to me.
 
Yes another one of the reasons why I rot here but I don’t like bringing it up since it was relatively recent.
 
I ask because my dad has stage 4 cancer, i don't want him to die because i like him and is one of the only people who doesn't hate me because i'm subhuman. If he does die i don't know how i'm going to cope.
I had none since I was a child
 

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