Has anyone here actually tried and talked to women, approached, online date etc?

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

Has anyone here actually put in the effort and time to actually talk to women, I am NOT trying to sound like some bluepill PUA or some normie faggot from inceltears but has anyone on this board put in the time and effort in actually talking to women outside of their family members or ''co-workers. That means going nightclubbing/bars, tried online dating, speed dating events, tried to get a girlfriend through friends/social circles, meets up etc? If you haven't tested the waters out yet then you shouldn't call yourself an incel.

Yes, chad gets women, its easy for them but the reality for most of us is we have to approach and go out. If you have then, okay kool I won't blame you, you tried your best and nothing came of it but you haven't then I would give it a try until you've totally failed and gotten nothing.

 

[Ignas]

Of course we have. Fakecel if haven't

 

[TheRealChincel]

I’ve approached over 2k times and obviously I’m here, did I test the waters enough?

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

I’ve approached over 2k times and obviously I’m here, did I test the waters enough?

If you have then, okay kool I won't blame you, you tried your best and nothing came of it but you haven't then I would give it a try until you've totally failed and gotten nothing

Of course we have. Fakecel if haven't

I have seen incels admitting they've never approached a single female in their life.

 

[Justdone]

I’m a mentalcel so no! There’s a lot of things running through my head all the time.

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

I’m a mental cel so no!

Well then take meds for your ''disorder'' and get going.

 

[seija]

Trust me, I've tried and the first few women we're disgusted by me and my actions. I'm also an Autistcel and a Mentalcel so it doesn't help those chances.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Yes, I read that, it was a silly response to a silly question. I assume that many guys here have approached but remember that the average guy “falls” into relationships. Most guys will never do cold approaches in their lives and having to do that means that you’re trash anyway.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

I even have a video of some approaches

 

[heroinfather]

cold approaching doesn't fucking work

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I've approached nearly 200 girls and not even managed a date with any of them. Meanwhile normies can get girlfriends without putting in anything close to the effort I have - it 'just happens' as a natural part of life. JFL.

 

[michael2222]

I've approached twice. Got shot down both times.

... remember that the average guy “falls” into relationships. Most guys will never do cold approaches in their lives and having to do that means that you’re trash anyway.

So true

 

[Vermilioncore]

If you never tried approaching women and are at least +3/10 without looksmaxxing then you're a faggot volcel

 

[GetFucked]

In high school only because the foid was giving me strong signals. She stonewalled me immediately and I assumed she was just playing hard to get, even back then I was like I'm not playing mind games with this bitch.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

cold approaching doesn't fucking work

 

[Deleted member 4760]

Of course we have. Fakecel if haven't

tbh.

Through Social Circle
Online
Cold Approaches


Online is the minimum one should do tbh.

 

[GetFucked]

If you never tried approaching women and are at least +3/10 without looksmaxxing then you're a faggot volcel

Some guys are just smart enough to realize the effort is pointless.

 

[A_Broken_Person]

Yep. I have been rejected by everyone I've approached irl and I tried online dating and went through the worst shit.

• edating me as a joke to show all my soppy messages to her friends and laugh at me, then to ghost me and monitor my reaction, then to reveal it was all a ruse and act like I am the bad guy when I go crazy

• another almost sucess in edating that resulted in me getting cucked in a week

• my most embarrassing attempt, when I was 14, not actually a girl at all but a creepy pedo homo larping

So I tried everything and it doesn't work, usually just ends in humiliation

 

[Piquedram]

Yeah. No luck so far.
Best you could hope for as a sub 8 man is friendship. Nothing more.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

Yeah. No luck so far.
Best you could hope for as a sub 8 man is friendship. Nothing more.

Yep. Too bad the "friendship" is shit. I hate my life.......

 

[Deleted member 7438]

I asked everybody I know if they know a chick. No one knows any single women apparently. Tinder made me feel like shit. College was a bust.

 

[kingturtle]

of coure, but foids say no. OP sounds like a filthy soy or chad.

 

[LetTheWorldBurn]

lol some people here i can already tell were being autist if they had to approach over a 100 women.

its not about approaching the largest amount of women and spitting out some incel retarded game on her

as an incel you have to approach women that are strategic for you.

for example if you good in chess approach girls in a chess team or something not fking cheerleaders

most people on this board would get laid before even reaching girl 100 if done right

the only problem is that 1. false accusation 2. finding 100 girls the right niche is hard

I can almost guarantee most guys here approach like if they were Chad or something.

 

[RollD20]

Yes. I have done better online, till they asked what I looked like.

 

[mylifeistrash]

i've spent most of my 20s doing pua bullshit and going to shitty clubs / bars around the USA

if you have to approach, you've already lost. approaching is idiotic as fuck and has a 99.99% failure rate

 

[johnnyb]

i've spent most of my 20s doing pua bullshit and going to shitty clubs / bars around the USA

if you have to approach, you've already lost. approaching is idiotic as fuck and has a 99.99% failure rate

truly delusional copers red pillers are. they need to be beaten

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

Yes I was brutally humiliated now I don't do it thinking about it makes me want to rope

 

[ChinaCurry]

Am mentalcel and ethnic, so no if course I haven't

 

[Sans]

Over 60 of them. I have a list of names of all the girls who have rejected me.

 

[thebuddhacel]

My low self esteem does not permit.

 

[BrendioEEE]

I have approached hundreds of women, not sure if I can say thousands, but I did stop counting at a certain point so who knows, maybe it is in the early 1000's, but yeah none of worked, and I could hold conversations, and make girls laugh, etc. None of that shit matters.

 

[FinnCel]

Almost every day

 

[Deleted member 17599]

Well then take meds for your ''disorder'' and get going.

Ded srs? There is no cure for autism or social anxiety.

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

of coure, but foids say no. OP sounds like a filthy soy or chad.

Far from it, ethnic manlet checking in. Just asking the question

 

[Dionysus]

Of course we have. Fakecel if haven't

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

Ded srs? There is no cure for autism or social anxiety.

OP didn't say what disorder he had, Social anxiety can be curbed short term with meds, and alcohol. Autismcels are fucked I argee.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

cold approaching doesn't fucking work

This. Only Chad can do that. There is no idea to try if you are an autistic mentalcel.

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

cold approaching doesn't fucking work

I mentioned approaching in bars/clubs were its socially acceptable but youre right approaching on the street like a retard doesnt work, warm approaching is the best option if you meet their looks criteria

 

[Blacktarpill]

I have seen incels admitting they've never approached a single female in their life.

For eg: me. Never tried that or tinder or something. I know im gonna fail. And i dont have the confidence to do it.

 

[Noob Cake]

Ded srs? There is no cure for autism or social anxiety.

A line of coke does the trick or any stimulant

 

[CopeToNotRope]

TBH

 

[Hate_my_life]

nightclubbing/bars

No. I dont drink and its pointless.

online dating,

Yup. Failed.

Ironically before going into online dating I used to be on BBM and people would randomly add others etc.
I added numerous foids and even talked to them; then came the face reveal and surprise surprise: they block me.

through friends/social circles,

Yup tried years ago before I went through a second puberty.
Failed.

Hell I've even tried cold approaching few times and that was the worst tbh.

 

[virgin4life]

I am NOT trying to sound like some bluepill PUA or some normie faggot from inceltears

This is exactly what you are sounding like though. You also sound like a female that has just signed up here out of curiosity to find out what we are like. YES I have tried COUNTLESS times to approach women in real life and reactions reached from straight out laughing at me to crying and saying: "I wish I could have a boyfriend with your personality (but who is not fucking ugly)". I DO have female friends and I talk to women a lot in normal life. They are fine with me and like me but also tell me there is no way they could ever be with me if I ask them and if I ask why and tell them to please be honest because otherwise I will never know what is going on they respond: "I am sorry but your looks just don't attrackt me eventhough you have a good personality".

I hope this answers your little question "buddy boyo".

 

[2340922]

https://anchor.fm/uninstall here fellow greycel

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

if you have to approach, you've already lost. approaching is idiotic as fuck and has a 99.99% failure rate

 

[Macrocephalus]

If you have to cold approach you've already lost.
Only Chad can pull off cold approaching

 

[Permafrost]

• my most embarrassing attempt, when I was 14, not actually a girl at all but a creepy pedo homo larping

So I tried everything and it doesn't work, usually just ends in humiliation

Did you try and date a pedophile? Please elab:

To OP's question. I have tried internet dating but it never leads anywhere. I am very cautious to approach even online and the only girls I get in contact with seem to be a mess, borderline, self harm, drug use... I seem to have a problem relating to well adjusted people in general.

IRL I my interaction with females is minimal.

 

[A_Broken_Person]

Did you try and date a pedophile? Please elab:

To OP's question. I have tried internet dating but it never leads anywhere. I am very cautious to approach even online and the only girls I get in contact with seem to be a mess, borderline, self harm, drug use... I seem to have a problem relating to well adjusted people in general.

IRL I my interaction with females is minimal.

No I didn't try, I was catfished

 

[Permafrost]

No I didn't try, I was catfished

I am very sorry for you. I hope you got out of that unscathed.

 

[Insomniac]

Well then take meds for your ''disorder'' and get going.