Serious Has anyone ever wanted to be your friend?

[Allah (Real)]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I've always initiated and seeked others out. It was either that or ostracized. I've lost count of how many times I've been told "you're actually a pretty cool dude" or something like that. I've never had that gravitational pull but I'm very reserved until I decide to reach out or make an effort so that probably has alot to do with it.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

No, not a single time. Even the few friendships I had when I was younger felt more like forced interactions than anything genuine.

 

[Animecel2D]

never

 

[unionistcel]

Very rarely:
Inbetween once and few times.
Friend of friend I’ll initiate 99%

 

[Poopless One]

Had a few but they no longer a part of my life.

 

[cripplecel]

In middle school

Afterwards NOTHING

 

[Allah (Real)]

No, not a single time. Even the few friendships I had when I was younger felt more like forced interactions than anything genuine.

worse is the truecel trait of people refusing you trying to befriend them. like, they don't know anything about you but they just straight up refuse even a potential friendship with you. there is no way to explain this other than blackpill.

 

[glutty]

No, it was always myself who had to initiate them.