Serious Has anyone ever wanted to be your friend?

[Hoor Al-Ayn]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I've always initiated and seeked others out. It was either that or ostracized. I've lost count of how many times I've been told "you're actually a pretty cool dude" or something like that. I've never had that gravitational pull but I'm very reserved until I decide to reach out or make an effort so that probably has alot to do with it.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

No, not a single time. Even the few friendships I had when I was younger felt more like forced interactions than anything genuine.

 

[Animecel2D]

never

 

[anglocelticcel]

Very rarely:
Inbetween once and few times.
Friend of friend I’ll initiate 99%

 

[Poopless One]

Had a few but they no longer a part of my life.

 

[cripplecel]

In middle school

Afterwards NOTHING

 

[Hoor Al-Ayn]

No, not a single time. Even the few friendships I had when I was younger felt more like forced interactions than anything genuine.

worse is the truecel trait of people refusing you trying to befriend them. like, they don't know anything about you but they just straight up refuse even a potential friendship with you. there is no way to explain this other than blackpill.

 

[gluttony]

No, it was always myself who had to initiate them.

 

[Leon98]

No, it was always myself who had to initiate them.

 

[Rapistcel]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

Yes but only as a kid

 

[UglyDumbass]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

a normie tried to pretend to be my friend but i think he was doing it to find reasons to make fun of me. Some others only spoke to me cuz they assumed i had answers for there exams or whatever. Uglies like me always kept to themselves.

 

[PersonalityChad]

Only in elementary school

 

[the kurdish loner]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

No. Atleast not a real friend. Many people just exploit me for their needs then ghost me.

 

[fullofchagrin]

I'm not asking if you've ever made friends, undoubtedly the vast majority of people here have had friends at some point in their life. What I am asking is has anyone ever befriended you? or have you always had to be one to make friends. In other words, have your peers/colleagues ever been the first to say hello to you, or was it you who said hello to them first.

I've had four friends in my whole life in total, all were out of circumstance (we were all ousted or bullied)

 

[SK6208]

Only other irl friend I have is another incel. Everyone else in my life has seen me as a punching bag to be thrown under the bus.

 

[asuraxia]

I remeber trying so hard to be friends with some kid from my school when I was a kid and he told me to leave him alone and I cried in a cubicle after lol

 

[sub5chud]

Yeah I was friends with some fat autistic black dude with a speech impediment back in hs we had lots of conversations about powerscaling and overall he was a cool dude hopes he’s doing good

 

[Lifeless]

No, i was always the one trying to become friends with people but it never worked out.

 

[City Incel]

The "many times" answerers are obvious fakecels

 

[MisanthropicMemes]

Yeah I was friends with some fat autistic black dude with a speech impediment back in hs we had lots of conversations about powerscaling and overall he was a cool dude hopes he’s doing good

Based

 

[MisanthropicMemes]

The "many times" answerers are obvious fakecels

 

[fedded]

Once, in first grade.

 

[MRHK_57]

Only pretended, to take benefits from me.