Wiz32BlackJiggaboo
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TBH that's something I've been too high-inhib to do.
But sometimes I wonder if there might be a girl who would be okay with having my company if I just begged her and was pathetic enough and she took pity.
I'm confident of likely rejection and at minimum it's embarrassment and it's possibly worse like she calls white knights to attack you for daring to ask her.
Basically I think you can kind of feel out through body language or facial expressions if a girl would be comfortable with you, whether she's interested or hates you... and that informs what you choose to say to her.
So basically I just trust my instincts and never begin, but maybe we shouldn't always trust our instincts?
My instincts have on occasion been wrong (example: I think someone stole my keys. turns out I misplaced them ... though in fairness my keys WERE stolen in the past so I'm okay to assume that by default) so at times perhaps we should just experiment with the possibility we have a chance...
But the consequences of failure just seem too extreme. Chad can strike out and other girls will leap to his defense, but we can't strike out or we're predators.
But sometimes I wonder if there might be a girl who would be okay with having my company if I just begged her and was pathetic enough and she took pity.
I'm confident of likely rejection and at minimum it's embarrassment and it's possibly worse like she calls white knights to attack you for daring to ask her.
Basically I think you can kind of feel out through body language or facial expressions if a girl would be comfortable with you, whether she's interested or hates you... and that informs what you choose to say to her.
So basically I just trust my instincts and never begin, but maybe we shouldn't always trust our instincts?
My instincts have on occasion been wrong (example: I think someone stole my keys. turns out I misplaced them ... though in fairness my keys WERE stolen in the past so I'm okay to assume that by default) so at times perhaps we should just experiment with the possibility we have a chance...
But the consequences of failure just seem too extreme. Chad can strike out and other girls will leap to his defense, but we can't strike out or we're predators.