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Serious Has anybody here a decent personality and a social circle despite being sub5?

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Kinda?

I'm still here though lol
 
My friends say that im pretty nice but I don’t have a filter and yes I have friends
 
I was the only nonwhite guy in my circle of "friends" needless to say I was never invited to anything and the girls completely ignored me. The few times I was invited to things everyone racemogged me anyhow.

However, if you are white I'd definitely suggest a social circle since it's a great way to meet people.
 
Kinda?

I'm still here though lol

I have friends, not really a social circle, kinda just a bunch of different disparate friends. I have a decent personality And I am TRULY sub5, Sub3 even.

What's your point?
 
I was the only nonwhite guy in my circle of "friends" needless to say I was never invited to anything and the girls completely ignored me. The few times I was invited to things everyone racemogged me anyhow.

However, if you are white I'd definitely suggest a social circle since it's a great way to meet people.

I had social circles in the past. No sexual/romantically relationships could be formed through (sub4.5=over). But I was definitly well with them on an platonic level (its over).

Its imo impossible to form such a thing as a sub5 ethnic if youre not living in an ethnic area in germany and there you wont get any meaningfull relationships of anykind with girls on an platonic level because theyre only interrested in partying and chads dick. Theyre emotional tampon is called weed
 
In High School I did, I was known for being funny, nice and smart. This all happened after I was about to KMS... It felt good to have friends and get praises, still never got a relationship out of it tho. They say all you need is Personality and Confidence, in high school I had all the personality and confidence in the world but I was still rejected by every women I asked out. Personality and Confidence dont mean shit if you are sub 5.
IT will never know who I used to be, they can only see the person I am now. This person I am now is from years of abuse and mistreatment from women in my life. Do I hate all women? No but there are plenty of women who deserved to be hated.
 
Actually I did back when I was a teenager, but then I found out I was ugly and developed a very self-destructive personality.
 
Yes but it has never been a big circle. Probably 4 or 5 people who I can relate in a time period. I do interact well in Uni but it all ends after the day is over. It's not like I can pick people to hang out with at will.
 
I had social circles in the past. No sexual/romantically relationships could be formed through (sub4.5=over). But I was definitly well with them on an platonic level (its over).

Its imo impossible to form such a thing as a sub5 ethnic if youre not living in an ethnic area in germany and there you wont get any meaningfull relationships of anykind with girls on an platonic level because theyre only interrested in partying and chads dick. Theyre emotional tampon is called weed

Legit. I went to a party once and there was gymcelled currycel trying to dance with this girl and she literally ignored him, just lol. I just sat in a corner, got drunk, and left.
 
Yeah i do. i go partying pretty much every weekend and have loads of friends/people i know and in general do pretty well actually. Just haven't been able to find a gf but i'm not too hung down about it, I just don't seem to ever be able to finish the job if you know what i mean...

In my circle it's not so much about being muscular or anything like that. Just wear fashionable clothes and don't act like a creep and you'll actually be okay. But for some reason i just haven't been able to ever be able to finish whatever I have started. Might be an mentalcel.
However i have huge problems with my dad and that has affected me quite a lot over the last year or so. I would recommend everybody who still has hope to chill down on the Blackpill stuff and calm down. I don't believe in the Chad stacy Jaw line bullshit theory. To my knowledge and experience it's more about preferred types that comes in to play more than anything else.

So a final conclusion, to everybody who isn't misogynist and haven't swallowed the black pill, just be chill and don't try to sweat anything.
Be cool, and don't be desperate. and don't try to expect anything from anyone, cause in that cause you can't ever be disappointed. An open mindset towards people in general is the way forward. I just try to help people who are open towards positivity on this forum. and if i'll be called a normie scum or something like that, then let that be it. I just try to be helpfull and come with advice where ever i can. I hope i'll still be accepted by some of you, cause the only thing i want to is share advice and be understanding towards most users, and of course also receive advice

Extra note. Yes i'm a virgin before people starts ridiculing me

Anyways guys have some hope in life. I know some of you have it really hard but don't ever give up fellas.
 
I never had any friends and never cared tbh. All I want is a girl to have sex with
 
Yeah, I've always had that. I'm incel, not socially shunned or inept. What I was always refused was love.
 
Being sub5 automatically gives you a bad personality and a lack of a social circle since you will be hated by everyone.
 
Yeah, I've always had that. I'm incel, not socially shunned or inept. What I was always refused was love.
47 years old? Fuaaark, how do you cope? I don’t think I could do it for so long.
 
47 years old? Fuaaark, how do you cope? I don’t think I could do it for so long.

In the end you get used to life behind bars. And lately I've been putting my bets on there being an afterlife, so for now I'm just doing time on the planet. But believe me, if it was feasible and I had a gun, I'd straight away put a bullet in my head.
 
In the end you get used to life behind bars. And lately I've been putting my bets on there being an afterlife, so for now I'm just doing time on the planet. But believe me, if it was feasible and I had a gun, I'd straight away put a bullet in my head.
Behind bars? :feelsmega: Probably meant metaphorically or I’m just lowiqcel.
 
I wish I could make my ugly face more tolerable with a bit of charm and some witty snark. Unfortunately my peronality's extremely dull.
 
Behind bars? :feelsmega: Probably meant metaphorically or I’m just lowiqcel.

Metaphorically, dude, metaphorically...

BTW, low IQ cels don't know what words like "metaphorically" mean, so it couldn't have been that.
 
I can’t fit in any social circle I’m just too quiet IRL and don’t say anything and never contribute to discussion
 
Metaphorically, dude, metaphorically...

BTW, low IQ cels don't know what words like "metaphorically" mean, so it couldn't have been that.
You’re right probably :feelsokman:
 
I can’t fit in any social circle I’m just too quiet IRL and don’t say anything and never contribute to discussion

Contributing to discussion means saying the weird shit that's on your mind. Provided of course you're among people weird enough to listen.
 
Contributing to discussion means saying the weird shit that's on your mind. Provided of course you're among people weird enough to listen.
I’m way to high inhibition to ever do that. In Highschool the group of friends I hung out with had no idea what my hobbies were, lol.

I tried hanging out with coworkers yesterday and the gap is way too different, the minds of people who have had healthy childhoods and social circles differ way too much.
 
No, even truecels don't want to hang out with other incels... Being low inhib+woke+incel= everyone thinks you're a weirdo and avoids you.
 
I’m way to high inhibition to ever do that. In Highschool the group of friends I hung out with had no idea what my hobbies were, lol.

I tried hanging out with coworkers yesterday and the gap is way too different, the minds of people who have had healthy childhoods and social circles differ way too much.

Hmm, yeah, I guess it gets harder being awkward as you get older...

Here's some things you could try though:

1) Remember they're just your buddies. It's not like you're going to bed with them or anything...

2) Switch into the topics at hand, even if you find them essentially uninteresting and a waste of time. Like, I couldn't care less about football, but in a work environment that's easily at least half they'll ever talk about. People into something love it when you ask 'em shit about it.

3) When I was practicing as a highschool teacher, the first thing I'd always do to bring anxiety down was to look out across the classroom and eye over the pupils sitting there, silently thinking to myself: "I've never seen such a bunch of damn fools in my entire life!".
 
Hmm, yeah, I guess it gets harder being awkward as you get older...

Here's some things you could try though:

1) Remember they're just your buddies. It's not like you're going to bed with them or anything...

2) Switch into the topics at hand, even if you find them essentially uninteresting and a waste of time. Like, I couldn't care less about football, but in a work environment that's easily at least half they'll ever talk about. People into something love it when you ask 'em shit about it.

3) When I was practicing as a highschool teacher, the first thing I'd always do to bring anxiety down was to look out across the classroom and eye over the pupils sitting there, silently thinking to myself: "I've never seen such a bunch of damn fools in my entire life!".
I have too many problems which I don’t even care about fixing anymore, I can’t hold conversations and when I talk and look at the other persons face they look like they are confused/disinterested/surprised I don’t know if it’s my voice, my vocabulary (I try using complex words sometimes and sound stupid), or just my looks.

Thanks for the advice though.
 
Lol no. I’ve only had one friend in the entiriety of my life, and even that is over with. Being completely alone goes against my nature too, I’m a natural extrovert. So when I have the chance to make new friends I fuck it up by getting too excited and scaring them off with my sperginess.
 

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