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Has any of you having been shamed by your own parents for not having a girlfriend?

Kevin Logan

Kevin Logan

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When I was a teenager my parents shame me for the fact that I never had a girlfriend in two separate occasions. It basically came from nowhere, it seemed like they just want to humiliate me, for the kicks! The first time was my mother, she was complaining about me, like she always does, and in the end of her rants, she said: "when I was at your age I was already dating". I remember that she was pointing at me with a angry face whe she says that. The second time was my dad, he said the same thing that my mother had said. Has anyone experienced this?
 
Yeah, they said that I should get a girlfriend at my age, but I don't blame or don't hate them, they're from another completely different generation and can't understand the actual state of the world
 
No, given that I have ricecel cousins in the US in their late 30s and early 40s, they have no cause to complain about me, since they're always comparing.
And my female cousins are married or otherwise attached, so it's pretty clear even to the older generation something's going on.
 
No, my parents pretty much know I'm too ugly.
They accepted it's over for me.
 
Yes when I was 20-ish. My dad said to me: "You are 20 already, you should go out, find a girlfriend at this age instead of reading some stupid comics" By now I think they gave up on me already. They don't push me to do anything.
 
My mom has never mentioned a girlfriend in my presence, except when she told me about condoms for no reason at 14 yo. Maybe she sort of resigned to the fact that she gave birth to basically human trash.
 
Not for no gf but for no friends.
 
Yes when I was 20-ish. My dad said to me: "You are 20 already, you should go out, find a girlfriend at this age instead of reading some stupid comics" By now I think they gave up on me already. They don't push me to do anything.
my family kinda did the same, everything I do it's mostly by myself they never pushed me after I reached 12 years old. My mom clearly doesn't like me and my dad doesn't even look at me
 
Yes, they shame me all the time but stopped asking about it
 
my family kinda did the same, everything I do it's mostly by myself they never pushed me after I reached 12 years old. My mom clearly doesn't like me and my dad doesn't even look at me
Parentoids are honestly the worst human beings on Earth.
 
My Dad mainly bugged me about finding a woman to have children with so he can have grandchildren, but my Dad stopped years ago, I think he gets the message that I'm a genetic failure, while my Mom never bugged me about it, because I'm positive she knew it was game over for me since the start.
 
Wouldn't be surprised if my dad thinks i'm gay or a failure tbh
 
No, but in the past couple of years they just keep making comments like "X needs grandchildren!" or "Wouldn't it be nice for Y to have great-grandchildren?" My grandparents keep telling me about girls in their neighborhood, and I just shrug it off because I know that while they mean well, it just wouldn't work out, especially because they'd just embarrass me. I think, more than anything, they feel sorry for me and know that I'm too "different".
 
They constantly bother me by asking questions like "when are you gonna get a gf" or "All of my friend's sons already have gf, why can't you find one".
It' almost like they're doing it to provoke me, they know i'll neverhave a gf yet they insist on the topic. FUCK :feelsUnreal::feelsree:
 
My stepdad was an athletic Chad, he's extremely unaware of how life works. He shits on me for all my shortcomings, always has ever since I was a child even though he used to forcibly isolate me and stop me from playing with kids when I was much younger. Now he wonders why I actively try to avoid spending time with him and come over to his place. It's fucking hilarious, he's always wondering why I never answer his texts or his calls.
 
A little bit by mom. At my age she was already married and divorced but she doesn't seem to understand that dating for women is very different for men in this day and age. As for my dad, I haven't seen him in years.
 
My Dad mainly bugged me about finding a woman to have children with so he can have grandchildren, but my Dad stopped years ago, I think he gets the message that I'm a genetic failure, while my Mom never bugged me about it, because I'm positive she knew it was game over for me since the start.
Yeah, despite that shaming does hurt, but never mentioning GF/dating/marriage etc. because they probably knew it never began is not much better. BTW, my mom asked me once about marriage.
 
My dad is a textbook betabuxx so he knows damn well how shit works, my mom calls me a virgin every time she gets angry.
 
No thank god my parents don’t care about it. They only care about my studies and grades
 
My dad abandoned us when I was 11 or so (not complaining, actually it was for the better).

My mom has mentioned something about me not having a gf once or twice, but given that I'm almost 25 and she's never seen me with a girl (because i've never been close to one) she must be stupid not to realize that it's over for me.

Anyway every once in a while she says shit like "the day you have a gf/wife she's not going to tolerate this" (when I'm being lazy or unclean). I think she copes thinking that someday i will get a gf and get married. It must be hard for her to admit that genetic trash came out of her pussy.
 
That doesn't sound like she was trying to shame you
 
No, because I have a cousin who's 35 yo. He's higher than me, also he's a high tier normie in face, so basically he mogs me to hell and back, plus he also has few businesses and he can't find a gf as well, shit he can't even get arranged marriage. İt's not over for him for sure, but it's very good illustration of current state of things.
My stepdad was an athletic Chad, he's extremely unaware of how life works. He shits on me for all my shortcomings, always has ever since I was a child even though he used to forcibly isolate me and stop me from playing with kids when I was much younger. Now he wonders why I actively try to avoid spending time with him and come over to his place. It's fucking hilarious, he's always wondering why I never answer his texts or his calls.
İt's brutal, sorry you had to experience this. İmagine dealing with stepdad Chad. Does he have kids? Funny how he gotta be an incel stepdad jfl
A little bit by mom. At my age she was already married and divorced but she doesn't seem to understand that dating for women is very different for men in this day and age. As for my dad, I haven't seen him in years.
Jfl
My dad is a textbook betabuxx so he knows damn well how shit works, my mom calls me a virgin every time she gets angry.
Your dad is a textbook betabuxx, while your moms a textbook foid with such statements. Jfl
No thank god my parents don’t care about it. They only care about my studies and grades
 
My mooother said to me boys your age are getting married what are you doing.
 
Yeah my dad bugs me about getting a gf and acts like its easy to do. At some point he's probably going to give up on me but for the wrong reasons (like thinking im gay)
 
My mom called me a fag sometimes. :cryfeels:
 
Yes when I was 20-ish. My dad said to me: "You are 20 already, you should go out, find a girlfriend at this age instead of reading some stupid comics" By now I think they gave up on me already. They don't push me to do anything.
Same.
 
Yes, they kept saying that guys my age should go out and date girls, not sit in their room all day
 

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