Blackpill [Hard To Swallow Edition] Your Desire For "Genuine" "Love" & "Affection" Is Socialized NOT Biological

[Deleted member 11032]

Islam is a more accepting religion though than others, especially because of how strict it is, as long as you are strict and adhere to their rules, members will treat you like you are family, just don't slip up and eat pork in public or something lol

I have no problem learning a new language (always wanted to), also that's why I say wealthmaxxing is important, you want to be resourceful before you move and leave your past life behind



Dude you have no idea how much I fucked up in life due to caring and feeling, I cringe a lot of times, flashing back to past things I did

What I did to empathize less with people was to binge browse 4chan gore, murder and accidental death threads

At first its going to disgust and disturb you, and overtime its going to be like "meh" for you, and at some point you are even going to see the humor in certain deaths because it actually looked funny (something you'd be too disturbed to notice when you had now started)

It won't take long tbh, a few months at most, incorporate it like a daily regiment, maybe even every night before you go to sleep

Also embrace feelings of hate, hold onto it, be goal focused, so that any obstacle ahead of you, including other people, will be seen as nothing in comparison

Stop thinking of morality as something black and white, understand that its grey, subjective, and doesn't matter

TBH I think I'm going to research further into this, I know I have a long ways to go, I want to make my thinking as "robotic" as possible, I want to be far removed from human thinking and humanity, its probably possible to make myself feel even less for humans and life in general, and I want to get to the point where nothing phases me

Haha I'm pretty desensitised to gore because there is no meaning behind it like slasher movies. I mean I get more emotional when I read a powerful novel or read someone's personal struggle but when I see starving children in Africa I rarely blink. Goal orientation is a great cope tbh. I feel sorry for those who have no direction in their life. Learning to toughen up reminds me of this MGTOW video on Tupac. It's by bar bar so it's worth watching:

 

[NoMoreSlaving]

If he has low empathy which I'm sure he does his cope is legit. Inb4 empathy is for cucks.

Think about this. Does your penis feel any different when you're jacking it vs having sex? No, not really. And even if vagina might be slightly better then you can use a fleshlight and it is exactly the same type of stimulation.

But yet people like OP still would pay prostitutes. Why is that? Let me know what you think is the reason, as it cannot be for sexual pleasure due to the above explanation

 

[BlkPillPres]

Think about this. Does your penis feel any different when you're jacking it vs having sex? No, not really. And even if vagina might be slightly better then you can use a fleshlight and it is exactly the same type of stimulation.

But yet people like OP still would pay prostitutes. Why is that? Let me know what you think is the reason, as it cannot be for sexual pleasure due to the above explanation

I believe the "sadistic" nature of the male role in sex, makes sex more enjoyable than masturbation, both physically and mentally

When you are masturbating its enjoyable but its just you, there is no "domination factor" taking place, there's no "power dynamic"

When you are having sex, and you holding a woman in a position, pounding into her, its a completely different experience, there's a cause and effect, you know which movements make her make a sound, what actions cause a response, etc, you can manipulate her, bend her to your will (figuratively and literally) its an "interactive experience"

The difference between masturbation and sex, is like the difference between watching a "mukbang" video while eating ramen (youtube "mukbang") and actually eating a ton of tasty food yourself

If someone told you watching one of those videos while eating ramen is just as enjoyable as actually eating those foods, you know you'd call BS on that claim, so why does logic escape you now, its because you are coping, you just have to tell yourself and believe that masturbation is good enough, because if it isn't now you'll be missing out on something, and you'll have to put effort in to get it, this is a perfect example of the "fox and the grapes" story

I wish guys like you would just fuck a whore once (a good one, go petite, don't go for "stacked" bitches) so you'd realize the difference rather than just contemplating it and telling yourself - "masturbation is definitely just as good"

Masturbation really just feels boring and pointless in comparison to sex, it has its uses in waning off sexual starvation but it can't replace the act of sex, if there were realistic sex androids available I would not even be talking about prostitution, I'd be talking about saving up to buy one of those robots

Now I'm off to actually jerk off now JFL, it has its uses but it can't replace sex dude, it doesn't even come close, I can say that and I haven't even begun to enjoy myself sexually yet

 

[Deleted member 15752]

I completely agree with biology being in most part just reproducing and passing on your genes.

I have also realized that love and validation is a byproduct of jealousy. Imagine if everyone got love and validation and were treated like the angel they are? Yea then it would only come down to sex. And the same thing would occur, people complaining that they have too much validation and they need sex. You are basically jealous of Chad and how society treats him and you want to be just like him. You want to be treated the way he is, you are JEALOUS of him because he got the better end of the stick.

People have been socially deluded into this, just because Chad gets it doesn't mean you can. People were taught that everyone is equal and came to the big realization that nobody is equal so you become jealous of the people above you.

And as for the sex part, it's impossible to get away with free sex as a sub 5 male. It's not ideal, but it's ideal in this situation society has put us in.

 

[Deleted member 11032]

I believe the "sadistic" nature of the male role in sex, makes sex more enjoyable than masturbation, both physically and mentally

When you are masturbating its enjoyable but its just you, there is no "domination factor" taking place, there's no "power dynamic"

When you are having sex, and you holding a woman in a position, pounding into her, its a completely different experience, there's a cause and effect, you know which movements make her make a sound, what actions cause a response, etc, you can manipulate her, bend her to your will (figuratively and literally) its an "interactive experience"

The difference between masturbation and sex, is like the difference between watching a "mukbang" video while eating ramen (youtube "mukbang") and actually eating a ton of tasty food yourself

If someone told you watching one of those videos while eating ramen is just as enjoyable as actually eating those foods, you know you'd call BS on that claim, so why does logic escape you now, its because you are coping, you just have to tell yourself and believe that masturbation is good enough, because if it isn't now you'll be missing out on something, and you'll have to put effort in to get it, this is a perfect example of the "fox and the grapes" story

I wish guys like you would just fuck a whore once (a good one, go petite, don't go for "stacked" bitches) so you'd realize the difference rather than just contemplating it and telling yourself - "masturbation is definitely just as good"

Masturbation really just feels boring and pointless in comparison to sex, it has its uses in waning off sexual starvation but it can't replace the act of sex, if there were realistic sex androids available I would not even be talking about prostitution, I'd be talking about saving up to buy one of those robots

Now I'm off to actually jerk off now JFL, it has its uses but it can't replace sex dude, it doesn't even come close, I can say that and I haven't even begun to enjoy myself sexually yet

What genre of porn to you fap to? I imagine BDSM or cuckoldry.

 

[Nothingness]

Good post.

Fuck peasants. When men are obssesed with survival they dont think of love i agree - but im interested in more developed stages of life than your cave men era or fucking peasantry.
Web site is fucked up it is hard to even quote notmaly

 

[mexicel]

I seriously think this mindset I see so many men expressing is due to socializing, masculinity itself has been feminized, and that's the trick of it all, all men are going around telling themselves - "this is what a man wants" based on the standard of masculinity they were raised and socialized on, which is a false standard to begin with

The men of the past weren't so obsessed with "love" as a concept, marrying for the sake of your family, for political reasons, or due to an arrangement seems foreign to men in our time, many would tell themselves - "I could not do it, I wouldn't feel loved", that's complete BS, that's them going off of their "programming", men of the past were able to do stuff like that just fine, because they adhered to a different standard of masculinity, and in that standard a man's ego is not staked in his ability to make a woman desire him, because what a woman thought of you did not matter, you had much bigger issues like wars, the social standing of your family, politics, etc than to worry about something as trivial as making a woman want you, what women wanted didn't matter, they were commodities being traded and passed around

Today women play the game on tutorial mode, in the past they weren't even players, they were just another item in the game

What men want is to adhere to the standard of masculinity of their era, it just so happens that in our era that is more determined by ones genetics than ones actions

Many of you don't seem to get that modern masculinity has been feminized, so the mindset that you have now and think is masculine, is a feminized version of masculinity, men of the past weren't really chasing after "love" and "female affection", fathers promised their daughters to men, because we understood that anyone can commit to virtually anyone, "love" doesn't mean anything, your wife will learn to "love" you, it doesn't matter who you marry, whether its for political reasons, business reasons, etc

A lot of men have a female mindset and they don't even realize it, do you think in the past when warring tribes wanting to find peace for the sake of survival, IT JUST SO HAPPENED that the chiefs daughter and the son of the other tribes chief "LOVED" each other

Do you guys believe in such fairy tale coincidences?

Shit like this was normal, and the men had no problem with it, because whether a woman loved you or had affection for you WAS COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT FOR THAT ERA (there was more urgent and important shit to focus on, and again a men weren't SOCIALIZED to stake their ego in their ability to invoke desire in the opposite sex)

ALL YOU GUYS ON THIS SITE TALKING ABOUT BLACK PILL THIS, BLACK PILL THAT, IRONICALLY FLIP YOUR LOGIC SWITCH OFF WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN AND RELATIONSHIPS, AND INSTANTLY FORGET THAT MODERN MALE NORMS ARE DIFFERENT TO THE PAST

Just to give yourself an excuse for your mindset - "I CAN'T HELP MYSELF THAT I WANT "LOVE" AND "AFFECTION", ITS BIOLOGY"

WRONG!


Biology is you wanting to have sex and reproduce, everything else is basically 90% socialization

The urge to pair bond (sex and reproduction) IS BIOLOGY
How one goes about the process of doing that IS SOCIALIZATION

I find too many incels on this site leave out the aspect of conditioning, they act as if the men of the past were as love obsessed as our current generation, the men of the way back past weren't pussy beggars, men prostrating themselves on one knee to beg women to spend their lives with them is relatively new to the history of manhood, yet so many men act like it was the norm EVEN IN THE PAST AND ITS NOT SOCIALIZED. Socialization is a huge aspect on influencing and creating ones behavioral patterns and mindset

So whenever I hear guys on this site saying - "I can't help myself, its biology, I want to be loved"

I CALL BS BASED ON A HISTORY OF ARRANGED MARRIAGES, POLITICAL MARRIAGES, WIVES BEING BOUGHT AND SOLD, WOMEN BEING TAKEN AS BRIDES VIA CONQUEST OF LANDS AND PEOPLE, ETC

THOSE MARAUDERS OF THE PAST WHO RAIDED VILLAGES AND TOOK WOMEN FOR THEIR WIVES DIDN'T ASK THESE WOMEN IF IT WAS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT (THEY DID NOT CARE, SUCH THINGS WERE IRRELEVANT TO THEM)

SO IF ITS BIOLOGY, YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF, WERE THE MEN OF THE PAST IGNORING THEIR BIOLOGY?

THE MEN OF THE PAST DID NOT HAVE THE MODERN DAY CUCKED MINDSET MEN HAVE, THEY DID NOT GET OUR PATHETIC BRAND OF MASCULINITY VIA SOCIALIZATION

MASCULINITY HAS BEEN FEMINIZED

ANYBODY WHO ARGUES THAT THEIR WANT OF "LOVE" IS BIOLOGICAL AND SOMETHING THEY CAN'T RESIST OR CHANGE, HAS IRONICALLY ARGUED IN THE DEFENSE OF FEMALE HYPERGAMY AND WOMEN'S UNREALISTIC STANDARDS (IF YOU CAN'T HELP YOURSELF THEN NEITHER CAN WOMEN)

Wow this is an excellent post, I already agreed with most of what you're saying but you presented it very well in a way that changed my perspective.

I think we need to bring back arranged marriage in the West, dating is a very modern concept and has proved to be disastrous.

 

[ryhan]

I mean i guess you could say biological and cultural evolution are somewhat intertwined what you were conditioned at 5 to 6 will be instrinsically linked to your personality for the rest of your life so it still is somewhat biological your correct most of history was 1 brutal shit show but being manly is not going out to murder steal kill and destroy to be manly is to be civil honor is not manliness honor is unearned guilt for being success full manliness is to be civil in law respecting other people's right's

 

[BlkPillPres]

What genre of porn to you fap to? I imagine BDSM or cuckoldry.

JFL cuckoldry?

The reason why I want to escortcel is because I'm tired of watching other men fuck women rather than me, cuckoldry being a fetish of mine would be very ironic

BDSM is a meme fetish for normies, its the fetish that wants to be rape but it isn't, its normies half assing their desires getting close enough to what they want but far enough that they don't think of themselves as immoral

My fav fetish is rape porn, but realistic scenes, not the scenes where you can see the woman smiling half of the time, or the scenes where halfway through she begins to enjoy herself and starts self inserting and shit, shit is so annoying. Once again its indicative of the moral delima faced by normies, rape is arousing, men want to force themselves on women, women want to controlled and be forcefully taken

Problems with sexuality after sexual assault - PubMed

In this article, we review a number of studies on sexual functioning after sexual assault. Among the studies discussed, three different approaches can be distinguished: the descriptive analyses of sexual functioning and sexual problems, the exploration of factors which predict sexual problems...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

"21% of women said they had a “physical response” to their assaults, and 10% felt attracted to their perpetrators" - Considering how muc of a touchy issue this is and people don't like talking about it, its likely way more

What Science Says About Arousal During Rape

Yes, orgasms can happen to rape victims.

www.popsci.com

"There have been very few studies on orgasm during rape, but the research so far shows numbers from 10% to over 50% having this experience"

Truth is there is no such thing as rape, it doesn't exist in nature, male animals force themselves upon female animals all the time, they don't get rounded up by other birds and stuck in a cage made of twigs, rape is an entirely made up human concept as a means to facility order, stability and a sense of fairness in society

Human biology doesn't give a fuck about morals and that's the delima, rape will still arouse humans whether they find it immoral or not, so they create these different "half measure" forms of release so they they can experience the pleasure of rape without it actually being rape, that's why shit like BDSM exists

 

[blackcel]

The media influences society quite a bit. We live in a weird time where mass media is able to exist yet humanity hasn't really been able to deal with it. I think religion was humanity's solution to social problems, but there was no way for our ancestors to predict something like mass media. People today are taught that sex is basically some pleasurable act that is pretty standard from person to person, which is just a fucking lie. A lie that everyone repeats without even knowing it is a lie.

I think love is a real thing, but not in the way that the media portrays it to be. It is a powerful emotion to some, just a passing thing to others. The media likes to make people think everyone experiences these emotions in the same way, but we don't.

 

[BlkPillPres]

history was 1 brutal shit show but being manly is not going out to murder steal kill and destroy to be manly is to be civil honor is not manliness honor is unearned guilt for being success full manliness is to be civil in law respecting other people's right's

Right here what you just said is Exhibit A of what I'm talking about when it comes to socialization, the power of indoctrination, being thought a set of beliefs over and over for years, try and be introspective and realize that someone born during the "shit show" would think the exact opposite of you, and they would consider us a generation of weak pansies who can't survive in "the real world"

There's no such thing as "manliness", the moment who start falling for this BS you've already lost to society, what you are saying is no different than when a woman says "A REAL MAN DOES X"

No a real man is simply a biological human male, that's it, anything else is something adding on as a personal definition to suit someones personal beliefs

The way you speak indicates that your ego is staked in these rules you have set for "manhood", you already have your mind in a box if that's how you are going about life, and you'll always be at the mercy of society, stop thinking like a normie, morality is subjective, manhood should be whatever yields the most benefit and control/power in your life, don't restrict yourself based on these pointless subjective rules

 

[ryhan]

Right here what you just said is Exhibit A of what I'm talking about when it comes to socialization, the power of indoctrination, being thought a set of beliefs over and over for years, try and be introspective and realize that someone born during the "shit show" would think the exact opposite of you, and they would consider us a generation of weak pansies who can't survive in "the real world"

There's no such thing as "manliness", the moment who start falling for this BS you've already lost to society, what you are saying is no different than when a woman says "A REAL MAN DOES X"

No a real man is simply a biological human male, that's it, anything else is something adding on as a personal definition to suit someones personal beliefs

The way you speak indicates that your ego is staked in these rules you have set for "manhood", you already have your mind in a box if that's how you are going about life, and you'll always be at the mercy of society, stop thinking like a normie, morality is subjective, manhood should be whatever yields the most benefit and control/power in your life, don't restrict yourself based on these pointless subjective rules

So are you saying i'm not actually attracted to women just society convinces me i need relationship's ? cause that is what i'm getting from what your saying for the first point and it is somewhat genetic cause culture translate's down to our children or our idea's until our thought's come to mirror our ancestor's for instance men with warrior blood line's have a natural inclination for fighting men with my blood line are much more peaceful much more civil and they were richer from the noble bloodline's so i retain some of that DNA not much some so it somewhat is genetic your behaviour's get passed down to your children.

I guess your correct i'm a gender abolitionist not a sexual abolitionist a gender abolitionist what is manly can be applied to both gender's sex is biological correct but i'm a gender abolitionist gender is up to society i agree that being attracted to women is not purely biological my central thesis is all human's have free will it is societal pressure that change's us.

other point i am a gender abolitionist 2nd part of that statement moral's are objective are derive form objective premise from first princapel's thinking they are derived from logic and again first principal's moral's are very much so objective

 

[BlkPillPres]

So are you saying i'm not actually attracted to women just society convinces me i need relationship's?

This sentence here shows you are falsely conflating two things

1. Being attracted to women
2. Wanting to be in a relationship

The two aren't mutually exclusive

What I'm saying is that society has convinced you that you want "love" and "affection", you don't, you just want a woman period, you want sex.

 

[HighTGymcel]

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[ryhan]

This sentence here shows you are falsely conflating two things

1. Being attracted to women
2. Wanting to be in a relationship

The two aren't mutually exclusive

What I'm saying is that society has convinced you that you want "love" and "affection", you don't, you just want a woman period, you want sex.

But the 2nd option would not come without the first why would you want a relationship without any attraction it's kind of mutually exclusive no one want's to be a part of a relationship for the hell of it 1 follow's from logically from the first.

Well we all want love and affection we are all social creature's it make's logical sense

 

[BlkPillPres]

Well we all want love and affection

No we all want sex, don't conflate the modern prerequisites with the intended goal

we are all social creature's it make's logical sense

This right here is exactly the indoctrination I'm talking about, the same scientists that are saying were social creatures are the same scientists saying that technology is making us less social, what does that tell you, were not social, its just that being social was the ONLY form of entertainment till the modern era, today you can spend hours inside alone and be entertained with movies, games, etc, in the past the most entertaining and enjoyable things to do involved other people

That's another meme I keep seeing peddled around - "were social animals", no we aren't, were conscious beings that seek out new stimuli, and in these times that's no longer tied to interacting with other humans so people are becoming less and less social, if we were social animals technology would not be having the effect it does on us culturally

 

[ryhan]

No we all want sex, don't conflate the modern prerequisites with the intended goal



This right here is exactly the indoctrination I'm talking about, the same scientists that are saying were social creatures are the same scientists saying that technology is making us less social, what does that tell you, were not social, its just that being social was the ONLY form of entertainment till the modern era, today you can spend hours inside alone and be entertained with movies, games, etc, in the past the most entertaining and enjoyable things to do involved other people

That's another meme I keep seeing peddled around - "were social animals", no we aren't, were conscious beings that seek out new stimuli, and in these times that's no longer tied to interacting with other humans so people are becoming less and less social, if we were social animals technology would not be having the effect it does on us culturally

Sex without emotion has no value to it having friend's vs having a quality friend are 2 different thing's yes we all want sex but we all also want the emotion behind it.

We know human's need social interaction cause from studies and observation we have seen mind's start to go mad if deprived off contact.Also technology is actually increasing sociability but decreasing real life sociability the reason where 1 market is destroyed it alway's is outsourced somewhere else we are highly sociable online cause the modern man function's like a machine being social has alway's been a need for our mental health you can live without it but you can live without your arm's and leg's does that mean you should strive for that.


Last point we still are social creature you need social contact you can live without it for a certain period's but long term effect's show us your brain deteriorates and no we are not becoming less social that's a lie we are becoming more social in other area's like online shit

 

[satoshisacuck]

Ryhan shut the fuck up. I can't understand what you are sayign.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Sex without emotion has no value to it

Dude you are hopeless when you are saying blue pilled cucked shit like this, you sound like a guy who still believes that women want "nice guys", there's no point in me saying anything else, when you are this deep down the normie hole there is no helping you, some men can only learn things the hard way, just don't say later in life nobody warned you.

 

[Dionysus]

damn i never thought of it like that

 

[ryhan]

Dude you are hopeless when you are saying blue pilled cucked shit like this, you sound like a guy who still believes that women want "nice guys", there's no point in me saying anything else, when you are this deep down the normie hole there is no helping you, some men can only learn things the hard way, just don't say later in life nobody warned you.

Dude you think i'm blue pilled i'm black pilled on looks black pill on everything even just about everything but the biological part's it's muh muh determinism

 

[sepelion]

do you really think writings of some faggot who appeals to the higher echelon of that time period reflects the general mindset of the average man in that era (especially peasants)

By your logic, the people of our future should look back to the writings of known feminists to see how it was in the past and how the average man thought, the elites of society are far removed from it, especially the academic elites and those in the fields of art, music and literature

Your criticism of Shakespeare and the western conception of love and bonding show you are those you represent: a normie, npc, rooster in the Coolidge Effect.

You don't hate the retarded constant cumming in random holes culture, you're just upset you aren't one of the prized pigs.

L'homme machine

 

[BlkPillPres]

Your criticism of Shakespeare and the western conception of love and bonding show you are those you represent: a normie, npc, rooster in the Coolidge Effect.

I don't see how, and I googled "coolidge effect" and I don't see how that even applies to anything you said here (or even my post that you are responding too)

You don't hate the retarded constant cumming in random holes culture, you're just upset you aren't one of the prized pigs.

No I hate that there is no balance to it, if I was one of the prized pigs I'd still dislike the current system because there is no stability, of course I'd still be enjoying being a part of it

I've often said that nobody hates whores, we only hate "selective whores", if women were "equal opportunity whores" nobody would hate whoredom

 

[Invalidusername]

That's another meme I keep seeing peddled around - "were social animals", no we aren't,

Wrong.

1)

The neurobiology of human social behaviour: an important but neglected topic

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

2)

The brain opioid theory of social attachment: a review of the evidence

Abstract The psychology of close human relationships is increasingly well understood and our understanding of the neurobiology of the onset of pairbonding behaviour in a range of species has benefited from the use of rodent-based models. However, the human literature has suffered from a lack of...

brill.com

3)

NYAS Publications

nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com

Despite us having technology, even lonely incels managed to create a community where its users feel a sense of belonging lmao.

Also, the majority of normalfags use technology for socialisation. The phone along with its social apps (with millions of users) is a clear example of this. People going to the cinemas in masses is another example. And you think normalfags watching Netflix are really watching it on their own, without showing off what they're watching to their friends? The people who are peddling this "technology = bad" thing is boomers

 

[BlkPillPres]

Also, the majority of normalfags use technology for socialisation. The phone along with its social apps (with millions of users) is a clear example of this. People going to the cinemas in masses is another example. And you think normalfags watching Netflix are really watching it on their own, without showing off what they're watching to their friends? The people who are peddling this "technology = bad" thing is boomers

Technology has yet to reach its peak

How much socializing is going to take place when "deep diving" virtual reality devices become a norm?
How much socializing is going to take place between the sexes when prostitution is legal and realistic sex androids can be ordered online?

Socializing only really takes place because its still necessary to acquire the things needed in life to satisfy your basic needs, once those things can be acquired without socializing, you'll see less and less people doing so, and its going to start with men first.

 

[Invalidusername]

Technology has yet to reach its peak

How much socializing is going to take place when "deep diving" virtual reality devices become a norm?
How much socializing is going to take place between the sexes when prostitution is legal and realistic sex androids can be ordered online?

Socializing only really takes place because its still necessary to acquire the things needed in life to satisfy your basic needs, once those things can be acquired without socializing, you'll see less and less people doing so, and its going to start with men first.

Still going to have to disagree seeing

1) despite having technology, normgroids still socialise a lot

2) socialisation is even seen within incel communities such as this one

3) its scientifically backed up

4) it's proved that brain size is correlated with social complexity

5) it plays an important role in brain development

6) oxytocin

7) it literally improves health

8) https://www.nature.com/articles/srep25267

9) and so on

 

[DangerNoodle]

I just want a cute soft gf to hold me

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I actually possibly agree with you now on this point where I might not have previously on the basis of the arguments we discussed here:

How your looks shape your personality

We tend to think of our looks as separate from who we are. But it turns out that physical traits like height or attractiveness may shape our personalities, behaviours, even politics.

www.bbc.com

Do you notice good looking men do not care one way or another how women see them? Or whether women love them or not? It is entirely meaningless to them because they have had so much of it it's entirely disposable to them.

They treat women like pieces of meat because they have been socialized to. Same as we put women on pedestals because we have been socialized to.

All you have to do to see the truth of this is know a few Chads and see how they treat and perceive women. It's not subtle at all.

So it's either one of two things - either Chads are socialized not to care or were socialized to care. Or maybe a bit of both. Either way socialization clearly plays a role in how much you care.

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

Low iq post...tbhtbhtbhtbh
I can't believe you if you see a natural Stacy 8 or 9/10 you can't fall in love with.
I can't believe you, if you say no I don't feel anything... you are a hypocrite and your whole thread is dumb
Love exist only for Chad and Stacy.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I can't believe you if you see a natural Stacy 8 or 9/10 you can't fall in love with.

Love exist only for Chad and Stacy.

You can't believe that I won't fall in "love", yet you say "love" exists only for Chad and Stacy............. makes perfect sense I guess
(How does one experience something that doesn't exist for them, so much mental gymnastics is required to be blue pilled JFL)

 

[YBP Yxngcel]

Islam is a more accepting religion though than others, especially because of how strict it is, as long as you are strict and adhere to their rules, members will treat you like you are family, just don't slip up and eat pork in public or something lol

I have no problem learning a new language (always wanted to), also that's why I say wealthmaxxing is important, you want to be resourceful before you move and leave your past life behind



Dude you have no idea how much I fucked up in life due to caring and feeling, I cringe a lot of times, flashing back to past things I did

What I did to empathize less with people was to binge browse 4chan gore, murder and accidental death threads

At first its going to disgust and disturb you, and overtime its going to be like "meh" for you, and at some point you are even going to see the humor in certain deaths because it actually looked funny (something you'd be too disturbed to notice when you had now started)

It won't take long tbh, a few months at most, incorporate it like a daily regiment, maybe even every night before you go to sleep

Also embrace feelings of hate, hold onto it, be goal focused, so that any obstacle ahead of you, including other people, will be seen as nothing in comparison

Stop thinking of morality as something black and white, understand that its grey, subjective, and doesn't matter

TBH I think I'm going to research further into this, I know I have a long ways to go, I want to make my thinking as "robotic" as possible, I want to be far removed from human thinking and humanity, its probably possible to make myself feel even less for humans and life in general, and I want to get to the point where nothing phases me

Wow,I would also like to learn how to lose feelings of empathy. Being empathetic fucked me up alot in the past aswell. They are times when I could have easily won a fight but I was too scared of injuring the person badly and getting in trouble. But looking back,I should have just fucked him up and not care about the consequences jfl. Teach me

 

[SoloAlex]

This is btw the same argument that the woke always use,jfl

 

[BlkPillPres]

Teach me

This is something that has to be experienced not taught.

If anything I might say my hatred and disgust for humanity is so strong because I feel more strongly than most people. I don't think I'm a cold person at all, it's more like reality has disappointed me so much that my feelings don't hold any weight to me anymore.

All I can do is try to feel less and less for people each day. I think it's learned behavior. The more years you spend being a misanthrope, the easier it gets and the more natural it becomes.

I won't overestimate myself though. Some things you have to make your mind up about ahead of time and really think about it. A lot of things will come easier to others. For example I was always a loner, I've always enjoyed doing things alone. So when I say I'm going to leave my current life behind one day and never contact any friends or family again, it's easy for someone like myself to say that, because I never enjoyed the company of others much anyways.

It will be a lot harder for an incel who loves being around people.

 

[YBP Yxngcel]

This is something that has to be experienced not taught.

If anything I might say my hatred and disgust for humanity is so strong because I feel more strongly than most people. I don't think I'm a cold person at all, it's more like reality has disappointed me so much that my feelings don't hold any weight to me anymore.

All I can do is try to feel less and less for people each day. I think it's learned behavior. The more years you spend being a misanthrope, the easier it gets and the more natural it becomes.

I won't overestimate myself though. Some things you have to make your mind up about ahead of time and really think about it. A lot of things will come easier to others. For example I was always a loner, I've always enjoyed doing things alone. So when I say I'm going to leave my current life behind one day and never contact any friends or family again, it's easy for someone like myself to say that, because I never enjoyed the company of others much anyways.

It will be a lot harder for an incel who loves being around people.

I understand. It's different for everybody. Since you prefer being a loner,it will be easier to be less empathetic. A chad who is loved by people and he loves them will have a hard time learning how to be less empathetic and dosent need to.