When I have sex with a foid, it is never just me and the foid. There is always a third, imagined element. You look into the foid's eyes, and you imagine a gaze staring back at you. Sex is inherently exhibitionist.
Have you ever, in the middle of gooning to porn, stopped and wondered at the meaninglessness of the repetitive hand motion? In this moment, you have essentially broken the spell of fantasy. Fantasy is a structure that directs our desire towards a desired object. It distances ourself from the brutal meaninglessness of reality by structuring our world and our relation to the object so that the object is perceived as more than just for its material aspects. Central to the incel fantasy is the object of the foid. Our fantasy teaches us to desire foids not just for their bodies, but for the way we imagine they will make us feel.
Our lacking needs that we hope the object of our desire to fulfill is a medium by which fantasy orients itself, providing a foundation for desire that protects us from lack itself. This is how fantasy fills in the gaps of reality with fabricated coherence and unity, fulfilling the fundamental lack of social reality. One example of this is how the fantasy of a gf bridges the disconnect between outward behavior and inner thoughts and feelings. Often people who want a romantic relationship talk about the sense of belonging, being inwardly esteemed by another person, and being loved. However, there is no signifier in the world of appearances that the object of a foid can use to definitevely convey any of these (a point I developed in another thread). Another example is the impossibility of "love" itself: when we love someone, we only love them so much as they conform to our fantasy of them.
Ultimately, it is our fantasies themselves which offer an escape from this contradiction of social reality. It's not the desired object itself, it's the dream of us attaining it which makes us believe that attainment is a possibility. The enjoyment we would get from a gf (belonging, estimation, love) is impossible. One way that incels try to repress this idea is by projecting the dream of attainment onto an imagined other - chad - that enjoys the desired object in ways we can't experience but only imagine.
Freud says that a dream come true is a nightmare. Our fantasies create separation between us and the brutal meaninglessness of reality. When these are realized, it means we can no longer desire them. It's commonly talked about here how much foids fantasize about rape, but then when they are actually raped, they act like it's the worst thing in the world. It's not because they're retarded (they are retarded tho) but that in reality they can no longer manipulate how they imagine they will feel, and thus they are subject to the horrors of reality. When reality becomes too brutal, we escape to a world of our fantasies. But what is even worse is when our fantasies become too brutal, we can only escape by descending back to reality.
Have you ever, in the middle of gooning to porn, stopped and wondered at the meaninglessness of the repetitive hand motion? In this moment, you have essentially broken the spell of fantasy. Fantasy is a structure that directs our desire towards a desired object. It distances ourself from the brutal meaninglessness of reality by structuring our world and our relation to the object so that the object is perceived as more than just for its material aspects. Central to the incel fantasy is the object of the foid. Our fantasy teaches us to desire foids not just for their bodies, but for the way we imagine they will make us feel.
Our lacking needs that we hope the object of our desire to fulfill is a medium by which fantasy orients itself, providing a foundation for desire that protects us from lack itself. This is how fantasy fills in the gaps of reality with fabricated coherence and unity, fulfilling the fundamental lack of social reality. One example of this is how the fantasy of a gf bridges the disconnect between outward behavior and inner thoughts and feelings. Often people who want a romantic relationship talk about the sense of belonging, being inwardly esteemed by another person, and being loved. However, there is no signifier in the world of appearances that the object of a foid can use to definitevely convey any of these (a point I developed in another thread). Another example is the impossibility of "love" itself: when we love someone, we only love them so much as they conform to our fantasy of them.
Ultimately, it is our fantasies themselves which offer an escape from this contradiction of social reality. It's not the desired object itself, it's the dream of us attaining it which makes us believe that attainment is a possibility. The enjoyment we would get from a gf (belonging, estimation, love) is impossible. One way that incels try to repress this idea is by projecting the dream of attainment onto an imagined other - chad - that enjoys the desired object in ways we can't experience but only imagine.
Freud says that a dream come true is a nightmare. Our fantasies create separation between us and the brutal meaninglessness of reality. When these are realized, it means we can no longer desire them. It's commonly talked about here how much foids fantasize about rape, but then when they are actually raped, they act like it's the worst thing in the world. It's not because they're retarded (they are retarded tho) but that in reality they can no longer manipulate how they imagine they will feel, and thus they are subject to the horrors of reality. When reality becomes too brutal, we escape to a world of our fantasies. But what is even worse is when our fantasies become too brutal, we can only escape by descending back to reality.
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