As @JoeBruhcel said in a recent thread:
I have never thought about dating like this before and it makes sense when you think about it.
Dating is essentially a "microcosm" of betabuxxing, it's the first stages of betabuxxing, because it's you getting yourself used to trying to appease a woman, entertain her, pay for her lifestyle, etc, ALL WITHOUT BEING GUARANTEED SEX.
One thing I always found weird about "anti-escortcels" is that they say paying for sex is "demeaning", "embarrassing" or "pathetic".
But "dating" (something they would ironically do) involves:
You jestermaxxing by desperately making a fool of yourself to get her to laugh and increase your chances of getting laid (telling jokes, etc)
You jestermaxxing by jumping through hoops to impress her, playing mind games, deciphering her coded "hints" ("shit tests", etc)
You jestermaxxing by being attentive and listening to her talk about shit you care nothing about ("I'm a capricorn, what's your sign?
")
You paying for all of the food and drinks
You paying for all of the entertainment
You paying for the transportation
You paying for etc, etc, etc
YOU NOT BEING GUARANTEED SEX AFTER ALL OF THAT COST AND PATHETIC SELF DEPRECATION
It just doesn't make sense to me.
How can you be willing to take a woman out on a date and INDIRECTLY PAY FOR A CHANCE TO GET SEX, but be completely unwilling to pay a woman DIRECTLY FOR GUARANTEED SEX?.
It takes a high level of mental gymnastics to rationalize that as "logical", because either way you are paying, but only one method (prostitution) guarantees that you get what you paid for.
Like I said before in another thread, it's an ego thing
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Dating allows both parties (men and women) to have "plausible deniability" of the exchange of resources that is taking place, so that their "human dignity" isn't violated.
Men want to be able to purchase access to women's bodies without FEELING like they are doing that.
Women want to be able to sell access to their bodies to men without FEELING like they are doing that.
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, THAT'S WHAT WERE DOING WHEN WE "DATE"
Dating allows both parties to do this because it revolves around:
IMPLICATIONS (I should get laid & I should let him fuck)
INSTEAD OF
OBLIGATIONS (I'm owed sex & I must fuck him).
Dating is all about letting humans act out their animal instincts without "feeling like an animal", it's about "preserving pride". It's pathetic really that people need to play these mind games with themselves, but that's what it's like being blue pilled (ego driven, in denial, and lacking self awareness).
Dating at it's core is really just betabuxxing. You are doing everything that a betabuxxer does in a "relationship". So whether you realize it or not, if you are willing to "date" and pay for everything for a chance at sex, but unwilling to pay a prostitute for sex, you are already mentally primed to be a betabuxxer, and it's pretty much set in stone that you will become one in the future.
What a lot of men on this forum forget is that statistically most men reach their financial prime at around the age of 35, that means a lot of incels on this site are going to be targeted (yes, targeted) by older women who are just getting off the cock carousel and are looking for a chump to be their betabuxx provider.
What a lot of you guys seem to forget is that women getting off the cock carousel usually coincides with men reaching their financial peak (both groups enter their 30's). A lot of people in that stage of life end up "settling" quite literally.
A woman whose vagina dries up at the sight of an average man will pair up with an average man, and a man who is disgusted by the idea of a woman getting ran through by multiple men will pair up with such a woman.
BOTH PARTIES ARE BEGRUDGINGLY SETTLING
You guys (anti-escortcels) will be easy fucking targets, because you decided to be an egotistical retard and deprive yourself access to sex for a decade plus. So you will be horny, desperate and easy to manipulate. Most of you guys talking all of this "I'm black pilled" shit will do a complete 180 and go right back to blue pilled thinking when these women show up, and you will be so desperate and sex starved that you will gladly let yourself be manipulated so long as you can get some (fake) "validation" and finally some sex.
You have pretty much set yourself up for failure and you don't realize it.
Not being able to get women attracted to you is only the first part of the "incel story", you guys seem to forget that there aren't enough attractive men to go around and a lot of women are going to be left desperate and alone. So now you fuckers will be the easy prey as these women will "let you" date them, simply because they don't want to die alone and they just want to be "taken care of" in their old age.
IN OTHER WORDS:
YOU ARE JUST A BETABUXX PROVIDER TO THEM, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU
THEY DON'T WANT YOU AND THE "VALIDATION" YOU VALUE SO MUCH WILL BE FAKE & FORCED
BUT YOU'LL BE SO DESPERATE AND SEX STARVED THAT YOU WON'T CARE
HOW IS THAT NOT MORE PATHETIC THAN PAYING FOR SEX?
(WHICH ALL MEN DO ANYWAYS)
You'll be so desperate you'll gladly take the lazy starfish sex and the infidelity that happens behind your back. In fact some of you fucking cucks will look the other way and try to convince yourself that she isn't cheating, you won't even try to find out, because you are a coper and you'd rather believe a comfortable lie than accept and uncomfortable truth.
In conclusion, if you aren't going to pay a prostitute then it makes no sense for you to pay for a date and jestermaxx for a chance at pussy either. All you are doing is mentally programming yourself for a life of being a betabuxx provider.
I have never thought about dating like this before and it makes sense when you think about it.
Dating is essentially a "microcosm" of betabuxxing, it's the first stages of betabuxxing, because it's you getting yourself used to trying to appease a woman, entertain her, pay for her lifestyle, etc, ALL WITHOUT BEING GUARANTEED SEX.
One thing I always found weird about "anti-escortcels" is that they say paying for sex is "demeaning", "embarrassing" or "pathetic".
But "dating" (something they would ironically do) involves:
You jestermaxxing by desperately making a fool of yourself to get her to laugh and increase your chances of getting laid (telling jokes, etc)
You jestermaxxing by jumping through hoops to impress her, playing mind games, deciphering her coded "hints" ("shit tests", etc)
You jestermaxxing by being attentive and listening to her talk about shit you care nothing about ("I'm a capricorn, what's your sign?
")You paying for all of the food and drinks
You paying for all of the entertainment
You paying for the transportation
You paying for etc, etc, etc
YOU NOT BEING GUARANTEED SEX AFTER ALL OF THAT COST AND PATHETIC SELF DEPRECATION
It just doesn't make sense to me.
How can you be willing to take a woman out on a date and INDIRECTLY PAY FOR A CHANCE TO GET SEX, but be completely unwilling to pay a woman DIRECTLY FOR GUARANTEED SEX?.
It takes a high level of mental gymnastics to rationalize that as "logical", because either way you are paying, but only one method (prostitution) guarantees that you get what you paid for.
Like I said before in another thread, it's an ego thing
Dating Is Just Prostitution With Extra Steps (The "Dating Model" Is Used For Courtship Because It Provides Plausible Deniability To Both Parties)
Like the title says, dating is just prostitution with extra steps (especially if you aren't an attractive man). As a man you are really just paying for the transportation, food, drinks, entertainment, etc to "gamble for pussy", and hope that maybe you get her drunk enough to fuck you. If...
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Dating allows both parties (men and women) to have "plausible deniability" of the exchange of resources that is taking place, so that their "human dignity" isn't violated.
Men want to be able to purchase access to women's bodies without FEELING like they are doing that.
Women want to be able to sell access to their bodies to men without FEELING like they are doing that.
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, THAT'S WHAT WERE DOING WHEN WE "DATE"
Dating allows both parties to do this because it revolves around:
IMPLICATIONS (I should get laid & I should let him fuck)
INSTEAD OF
OBLIGATIONS (I'm owed sex & I must fuck him).
Dating is all about letting humans act out their animal instincts without "feeling like an animal", it's about "preserving pride". It's pathetic really that people need to play these mind games with themselves, but that's what it's like being blue pilled (ego driven, in denial, and lacking self awareness).
Dating at it's core is really just betabuxxing. You are doing everything that a betabuxxer does in a "relationship". So whether you realize it or not, if you are willing to "date" and pay for everything for a chance at sex, but unwilling to pay a prostitute for sex, you are already mentally primed to be a betabuxxer, and it's pretty much set in stone that you will become one in the future.
What a lot of men on this forum forget is that statistically most men reach their financial prime at around the age of 35, that means a lot of incels on this site are going to be targeted (yes, targeted) by older women who are just getting off the cock carousel and are looking for a chump to be their betabuxx provider.
What a lot of you guys seem to forget is that women getting off the cock carousel usually coincides with men reaching their financial peak (both groups enter their 30's). A lot of people in that stage of life end up "settling" quite literally.
A woman whose vagina dries up at the sight of an average man will pair up with an average man, and a man who is disgusted by the idea of a woman getting ran through by multiple men will pair up with such a woman.
BOTH PARTIES ARE BEGRUDGINGLY SETTLING
You guys (anti-escortcels) will be easy fucking targets, because you decided to be an egotistical retard and deprive yourself access to sex for a decade plus. So you will be horny, desperate and easy to manipulate. Most of you guys talking all of this "I'm black pilled" shit will do a complete 180 and go right back to blue pilled thinking when these women show up, and you will be so desperate and sex starved that you will gladly let yourself be manipulated so long as you can get some (fake) "validation" and finally some sex.
You have pretty much set yourself up for failure and you don't realize it.
Not being able to get women attracted to you is only the first part of the "incel story", you guys seem to forget that there aren't enough attractive men to go around and a lot of women are going to be left desperate and alone. So now you fuckers will be the easy prey as these women will "let you" date them, simply because they don't want to die alone and they just want to be "taken care of" in their old age.
IN OTHER WORDS:
YOU ARE JUST A BETABUXX PROVIDER TO THEM, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU
THEY DON'T WANT YOU AND THE "VALIDATION" YOU VALUE SO MUCH WILL BE FAKE & FORCED
BUT YOU'LL BE SO DESPERATE AND SEX STARVED THAT YOU WON'T CARE
HOW IS THAT NOT MORE PATHETIC THAN PAYING FOR SEX?
(WHICH ALL MEN DO ANYWAYS)
You'll be so desperate you'll gladly take the lazy starfish sex and the infidelity that happens behind your back. In fact some of you fucking cucks will look the other way and try to convince yourself that she isn't cheating, you won't even try to find out, because you are a coper and you'd rather believe a comfortable lie than accept and uncomfortable truth.
In conclusion, if you aren't going to pay a prostitute then it makes no sense for you to pay for a date and jestermaxx for a chance at pussy either. All you are doing is mentally programming yourself for a life of being a betabuxx provider.
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