BlkPillPres
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I have made a few threads on "ascension" before
This one is my favorite, as its very detailed and shows how at every stage of your ascension you have more trials to face where if you fail you lose everything:
But this thread is about discussing an aspect of ascension that I have never seen talked about on this forum
This thread is another warning to ascension copers
This thread is about the fact that you ascending has more to do with how much you lower your standards over time, rather than how much effort you put in over time (despite what you may believe and what bro science red pillers may tell you)
Many incels seem to speak about ascension as something that will happen over years of self improvement and various tactics, but I don't think many realize that what they are also doing is lowering their standards over time, as they yield more and more failed attempts to ascend
To the point that they wake up one day dating a woman that many years ago they wouldn't even be excited to date, and they use the effort and time they spent as their excuse as to why they "finally struck gold", when it was actually that the degradation of their standards over time allowed them to even consider dating such a woman (standards attrition)
Pretty much every guy trying to "ascend" is at risk of doing this to himself, in fact I noticed that I was doing this to myself
I did a lot of approaching during college, and I was pretty fit during that time (ok I wasn't really all that fit but I had abs, low body fat and decently sized arms lol)
There were a ton of failed attempts and as they began to stack up I just felt worse and worse over time, I often tried to approach females that were even below my looks league (which were rare) and still I got rejected
Well one day I decided to scrape as low as possible, and I think that day broke me, she was "kinda cute" I guess, but she was timid, didn't try to dress stylish, kinda weird, her face was definitely below average, and even then I was still rejected. That was the last straw for me.
I remember one day after that event I was sitting down and thinking about where my life was heading, and I realized that if I stuck to the "normie path" I was chasing, kept trying to "self improve" to one day "ascend", I was probably going to end up one of those cliche black guys whose married to some ghetto used up black whore, with multiple bastard kids out of wedlock fathered by criminals, and I would be raising those children like a cuck (while she probably cheats on me with more Tyrones). With a big smile on my face as if I "won a prize" because I genuinely might think of her as a prize due to the mental strain and years of attrition on my "standards" for women
All the years of failure is going to take a toll on you mentally and it will definitely affect your standards
I decided some time after that it was best that I stop wasting my time trying to "ascend" and simply opt out of "the game" entirely
The only way to win is to not play
This is the core reason I became an escortcel (that and I got tired of waiting), it would be a few years later before I finally went to pay for sex and lose my virginity
I noticed there were many men around me, that were settling for all these used up low tier women, and its because "that's the best they can get", and they were happy with what they got because after so many years of searching and hoping, its much easier to rationalize your choice with a convenient lie (I finally got me a prize) than an inconvenient truth (I'm tired, lonely and horny, and I just want to be close and intimate with a woman)
What a lot of men don't realize is that the longer you struggle to get a woman and the more time you spend "self improving", the more you lower your standards over time. You don't even realize you are doing it because its subconscious. You just want so badly to find someone that your mind helps you do just that by making you settle even lower into the gutter than you ever would have before you started your "ascension" journey
So many men today think they are married to "a catch", but this is a woman they wouldn't even consider dating 10 years before they met her
The battle between the sexes on the dating market is a battle of attrition, and women will always win because they are holding all of the cards and monopolizing sex as a resource
This is why there will always be an unlimited supply of betabuxxers waiting to help women pick up the pieces of their shattered lives, after they finally hop off the cock carousel, and these men will be doing it with a smile, bragging to friends about how all their "hard work" paid off
The men who you see in reddit and youtube comment sections telling you that you "just need to try harder" and "don't give up, it worked for me", are the same kind of men I'm talking about here. They don't realize how deluded they are and they feel like their advice is genuine, but if their former self from years ago saw their current self, they'd be disgusted lol
At the end of the day men have a strong desire for sex, and they are going to pursue whatever methods they can to have their needs met, but for me prostitution seems like a much better option than trying to date and fail over and over, only to eat away at my psyche and my standards. It really isn't good for your mental health to be facing all that rejection anyways
So I can either get used to paying, 7's, 8's, 9's and 10's for sex, being fully aware that they are 7's and up
Or I can spend my time chasing after women and end up dating/marrying a 5/10 who is only a 5 with makeup on (so she's not even really a 5) who whored around in her youth and is only with me because I can provide for her. The sad part again is that at that point in my life, I may genuinely believe that she is "decent" or "a catch" because my pscyhe is so beaten and tired, and I just want to stop playing the game already lol
So be very carely dear ascension copers that you don't fall into this trap
This one is my favorite, as its very detailed and shows how at every stage of your ascension you have more trials to face where if you fail you lose everything:
Ascension Is Essentially Gambling To Win A Chance To Gamble In Other More Difficult Games
I'll never get "ascenders", they don't seem to understand how illogical their choices are, and that they are wasting all of their time and effort on a fruitless endeavor. APPROACHING FAILURE >Face constant rejections from multiple women, most even below your league >Rejection eats away at your...
incels.is
But this thread is about discussing an aspect of ascension that I have never seen talked about on this forum
This thread is another warning to ascension copers
This thread is about the fact that you ascending has more to do with how much you lower your standards over time, rather than how much effort you put in over time (despite what you may believe and what bro science red pillers may tell you)
Many incels seem to speak about ascension as something that will happen over years of self improvement and various tactics, but I don't think many realize that what they are also doing is lowering their standards over time, as they yield more and more failed attempts to ascend
To the point that they wake up one day dating a woman that many years ago they wouldn't even be excited to date, and they use the effort and time they spent as their excuse as to why they "finally struck gold", when it was actually that the degradation of their standards over time allowed them to even consider dating such a woman (standards attrition)
Pretty much every guy trying to "ascend" is at risk of doing this to himself, in fact I noticed that I was doing this to myself
I did a lot of approaching during college, and I was pretty fit during that time (ok I wasn't really all that fit but I had abs, low body fat and decently sized arms lol)
There were a ton of failed attempts and as they began to stack up I just felt worse and worse over time, I often tried to approach females that were even below my looks league (which were rare) and still I got rejected
Well one day I decided to scrape as low as possible, and I think that day broke me, she was "kinda cute" I guess, but she was timid, didn't try to dress stylish, kinda weird, her face was definitely below average, and even then I was still rejected. That was the last straw for me.
I remember one day after that event I was sitting down and thinking about where my life was heading, and I realized that if I stuck to the "normie path" I was chasing, kept trying to "self improve" to one day "ascend", I was probably going to end up one of those cliche black guys whose married to some ghetto used up black whore, with multiple bastard kids out of wedlock fathered by criminals, and I would be raising those children like a cuck (while she probably cheats on me with more Tyrones). With a big smile on my face as if I "won a prize" because I genuinely might think of her as a prize due to the mental strain and years of attrition on my "standards" for women
All the years of failure is going to take a toll on you mentally and it will definitely affect your standards
I decided some time after that it was best that I stop wasting my time trying to "ascend" and simply opt out of "the game" entirely
The only way to win is to not play
This is the core reason I became an escortcel (that and I got tired of waiting), it would be a few years later before I finally went to pay for sex and lose my virginity
I noticed there were many men around me, that were settling for all these used up low tier women, and its because "that's the best they can get", and they were happy with what they got because after so many years of searching and hoping, its much easier to rationalize your choice with a convenient lie (I finally got me a prize) than an inconvenient truth (I'm tired, lonely and horny, and I just want to be close and intimate with a woman)
What a lot of men don't realize is that the longer you struggle to get a woman and the more time you spend "self improving", the more you lower your standards over time. You don't even realize you are doing it because its subconscious. You just want so badly to find someone that your mind helps you do just that by making you settle even lower into the gutter than you ever would have before you started your "ascension" journey
So many men today think they are married to "a catch", but this is a woman they wouldn't even consider dating 10 years before they met her
The battle between the sexes on the dating market is a battle of attrition, and women will always win because they are holding all of the cards and monopolizing sex as a resource
This is why there will always be an unlimited supply of betabuxxers waiting to help women pick up the pieces of their shattered lives, after they finally hop off the cock carousel, and these men will be doing it with a smile, bragging to friends about how all their "hard work" paid off
The men who you see in reddit and youtube comment sections telling you that you "just need to try harder" and "don't give up, it worked for me", are the same kind of men I'm talking about here. They don't realize how deluded they are and they feel like their advice is genuine, but if their former self from years ago saw their current self, they'd be disgusted lol
At the end of the day men have a strong desire for sex, and they are going to pursue whatever methods they can to have their needs met, but for me prostitution seems like a much better option than trying to date and fail over and over, only to eat away at my psyche and my standards. It really isn't good for your mental health to be facing all that rejection anyways
So I can either get used to paying, 7's, 8's, 9's and 10's for sex, being fully aware that they are 7's and up
Or I can spend my time chasing after women and end up dating/marrying a 5/10 who is only a 5 with makeup on (so she's not even really a 5) who whored around in her youth and is only with me because I can provide for her. The sad part again is that at that point in my life, I may genuinely believe that she is "decent" or "a catch" because my pscyhe is so beaten and tired, and I just want to stop playing the game already lol
So be very carely dear ascension copers that you don't fall into this trap
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