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It's Over Happiness is impossible without girlfriend

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You can cope however you want, achieve things, become rich, cure cancer, discover tech that send's humanity to the stars....

If you can't find a girlfriend all this would be for nothing. It'd all be a mere distraction, a cope.... all of it pales when comparing to the fact that you never had a girlfriend and you will have lived a lesser life than anyone who had girlfriends, including hood-rats and 15 yo. Nothing else matters in life if you can't find a girlfriend.

To those who think this is foid worship: it's not. It's simply having a biological unfulfilled for ever. I hate this and how things are, but it is what it is.
 
I wouldn’t say it’s impossible.
 
Nah if that was the case then all of the priests, monks, hermits etc would be depressed. It's not about having gf per se, but just being able to have one if you want to. And also getting some positive reinforcement from people around you.
 
No such thing in the West. Not even normies in relationships are happy.

Incel or not, you basically can forget about this unless you geomaxx anyway.
 
Nah if that was the case then all of the priests, monks, hermits etc would be depressed. It's not about having gf per se, but just being able to have one if you want to. And also getting some positive reinforcement from people around you.
Who says they aren't depressed? And how can you get positive reinforcement without girlfriend?
 
Who says they aren't depressed? And how can you get positive reinforcement without girlfriend?
If you discover tech to get to the fucking stars, then you are worth more than any fucking normie and slut on earth.
 
I'd take being a genius over getting a gf but yeah not having a partner makes life boring and depressing.
 
It is possible, if you have autistic interests that can be done in solitude repeatedly to your heart´s content.
For me, it´s racing games.
 
not impossible

depends on what makes u happy grAY
 
If you discover tech to get to the fucking stars, then you are worth more than any fucking normie and slut on earth.
Not really. Elon Musk is doing that and he's well hated. He's also had a girlfriend before.

Can you imagine how much more shit would be thrown at him if he never had one?
 
Happiness is impossible without love
 
This is true I don't care what anyone says
 
I wouldn't say impossible.
 
I wouldn't say impossible.
This but it's really tough. Many incels struggle to be able to cope too because employers are a similar hivemind like foids. Read a little while ago that getting finally rid of virginity and finding a girlfriend fixed anon's problems.
 
A man without a girlfriend or a active sex life is pretty much a walking corpse.
 
this porn trash life and foids ruling is not right. end this bullshit.
 
You can cope however you want, achieve things, become rich, cure cancer, discover tech that send's humanity to the stars....

If you can't find a girlfriend all this would be for nothing. It'd all be a mere distraction, a cope.... all of it pales when comparing to the fact that you never had a girlfriend and you will have lived a lesser life than anyone who had girlfriends, including hood-rats and 15 yo. Nothing else matters in life if you can't find a girlfriend.

To those who think this is foid worship: it's not. It's simply having a biological unfulfilled for ever. I hate this and how things are, but it is what it is.

Good post I agree.

Life feels meaningless without someone to share it with.
 
Nah if that was the case then all of the priests, monks, hermits etc would be depressed. It's not about having gf per se, but just being able to have one if you want to. And also getting some positive reinforcement from people around you.
Wrong. You need to be a very specific type of person to be someone like a monk. These are outliers.
 
It's not just about having a gf tbh. That's a very juvenile and romanticized take, no offence. You need a partner yes, but first and foremost to make babies. To have offspring. Besides that, a good standing in a supportive community and family is equally important.
 
I don't even want a girl around all the time. Sure I want the sex, the cuddles, and sleeping together most of the time and maybe children but with those boxes checked I still want to do my own things. Those who think they can sustain themselves on foidium are not looking deep enough into the experience they do have with women.
 
It's not just about having a gf tbh. That's a very juvenile and romanticized take, no offence. You need a partner yes, but first and foremost to make babies. To have offspring. Besides that, a good standing in a supportive community and family is equally important.
Damn, so it's over for XXI-centurycels because we don't have any of that :feelsbadman:
 
Man, ill be happy if i atleast had friends
Its not impossible
 
Damn, so it's over for XXI-centurycels because we don't have any of that :feelsbadman:
Yeah i think those are the biggest factors and also the most detrimential. Back in the day (given there was a period of peace) life was hugely better for more men because they were able to fullfill their natural role. Imagine being part of a group of people that value you, not just your family but the people in the settlement you live in. Homogeneous group of multiple connected families that live and work together and have a common culture with common values (exactly what cultural marxism is aimed against). Men have responsibility (just like today) but have authority (not like today).

You can still find this or atleast a similar life style in certain parts of the world today. For example the amish groups in the USA. Also in many places where climate still dictates peoples lifes like parts of siberia or even in certain tribal groups in niggerland (also known as africa).
 
Who says they aren't depressed? And how can you get positive reinforcement without girlfriend?
When I was near monastery or in monastery sometimes, I had an impression that monks and other inhabitants act very weird.
Atmosphere also was heavy, unnatural and very veird. Not a place where I would want to live.
Priests are usually better because priests are allowed to marry in Orthodoxy.
 
I experience fleeting moments of pleasure, but never any long-term happiness. And even those pleasurable things feel pretty hollow when you have nobody to share them with.

A man without a girlfriend or a active sex life is pretty much a walking corpse.
:yes:

Being genius is overrated.
Genius can only get you so far. You often need connections and social status to be successful, especially in modern society.
 
When I was near monastery or in monastery sometimes, I had an impression that monks and other inhabitants act very weird.
Atmosphere also was heavy, unnatural and very veird. Not a place where I would want to live.
Priests are usually better because priests are allowed to marry in Orthodoxy.
I've never met one or went to a monastery, but they live very repressed lives. I guess this contributes to those who have engaged in pedophilia. I don't remember it happening in other churches, where clerics can marry.
 
Without a girlfriend or female validation?
 
It's not just about having a gf tbh. That's a very juvenile and romanticized take, no offence. You need a partner yes, but first and foremost to make babies. To have offspring. Besides that, a good standing in a supportive community and family is equally important.
That comes eventually and I agree it's necessary. Ideally, we all should have kids to breed out all the degenerates and feminists of existence.

Incels having a good, supporting family is rare. It's one reason we are incels. So we would have to create our own families.
 
I don't even want a girl around all the time. Sure I want the sex, the cuddles, and sleeping together most of the time and maybe children but with those boxes checked I still want to do my own things. Those who think they can sustain themselves on foidium are not looking deep enough into the experience they do have with women.
Yeah, that goes without saying. People in relationships need space too.
 
You can cope however you want, achieve things, become rich, cure cancer, discover tech that send's humanity to the stars....
Very true, because in the end all of those unnatural so called accomplishments mean absolutely nothing in the end because they are just that.
If you're not able to fulfill your natural purpose as a human being you will be depressed. It's unavoidable. It gets more noticeable as you get older.
Just look at videos of tourists going to extremely poor countries, where they live in run down shitty houses made of scrap material, surrounded by trash and filth, a lot of crime and violence, where it's difficult to get basic resources tc. Are they depressed? No, they're barely even sad, they are actually very happy. Because they have other humans arround them who love and support them, and their timelines of development of human relationships are completely normal.
 
You’re coping and everyone in this thread who believes in this idea is coping as well. Plenty of happy Incels I know irl who are happy because they are NT, function normally & have some sort of compensation.

No compensation if non NT. A gf would not fix all my issues either btw
 
You’re coping and everyone in this thread who believes in this idea is coping as well. Plenty of happy Incels I know irl who are happy because they are NT, function normally & have some sort of compensation.

No compensation if non NT. A gf would not fix all my issues either btw
These other incels are the ones coping. You'll never compensate for not having a girlfriend.
 
being high iq means I can get a lot of money and destroy normies in debates with facts and logic
This is very naïve. Intelligent doesn't help with much. Out of the good traits it is the worst and most useless because it's gatekept by social skills and looks.
 
Very true, because in the end all of those unnatural so called accomplishments mean absolutely nothing in the end because they are just that.
If you're not able to fulfill your natural purpose as a human being you will be depressed. It's unavoidable. It gets more noticeable as you get older.
Just look at videos of tourists going to extremely poor countries, where they live in run down shitty houses made of scrap material, surrounded by trash and filth, a lot of crime and violence, where it's difficult to get basic resources tc. Are they depressed? No, they're barely even sad, they are actually very happy. Because they have other humans arround them who love and support them, and their timelines of development of human relationships are completely normal.
Good points. We don't have the necessary natural accomplishments so the manmade ones will feel empty.

It's the Maslow's hierarchy of need all over again.
 
True
imaging having someone (of the opposite sex) that u can talk to, and fuck

That would be the dream for me lol
 
You can cope however you want, achieve things, become rich, cure cancer, discover tech that send's humanity to the stars....

If you can't find a girlfriend all this would be for nothing. It'd all be a mere distraction, a cope.... all of it pales when comparing to the fact that you never had a girlfriend and you will have lived a lesser life than anyone who had girlfriends, including hood-rats and 15 yo. Nothing else matters in life if you can't find a girlfriend.

To those who think this is foid worship: it's not. It's simply having a biological unfulfilled for ever. I hate this and how things are, but it is what it is.
 
I build large and vast collections witch is a cope that has saved my sanity. It gives my life meaning.
 
I build large and vast collections witch is a cope that has saved my sanity. It gives my life meaning.
Eventually they'll stop working. That's the nature of copes.
 
wow, decades... how old are you?
 

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