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I legit feel like quitting alcohol and going ER right now. Fucking wasted over $100 and was practically invisible the whole night. People over age 25 should not be allowed into nightclubs. You faggots are worse than teenagers. Why even go to clubs if you're in a relationship? Never thought I'd  get into a scrap at a party, and I dropped my drink twice. Fuck you guys tbh.


I'm seriously worried. Tolerance getting too high.
 
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Fucking wasted over $100 and was practically invisible the whole night.
Care to elaborate what happened? Don't mean to pressure you, just feel like I might be able to relate if I got some more details.
 
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At the end of the day, drugs just increase what and how you already are. Low-inhib Chads + alcohol = even lower inhibition, even more chaddy behavior. Awkward neurotic anxious incels + alcohol = even more pathetic. 

I remember a white incel from high-school always tried to act like he thought a black hip hop alpha male acts. Always turned out super pathetic, of course. And when he was drunk! lol! One time, he clumsily started dancing, closed his eyes, made a duck face with his lips stuck out and came closer and closer to that girl he liked, hoping that she'd kiss him.
 
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Fucking wasted over $100 and was practically invisible the whole night.
Care to elaborate what happened? Don't mean to pressure you, just feel like I might be able to relate if I got some more details.

Went to a club that recently opened up. The vibe was off from the start. Low energy, mostly older crowd. The club was packed but most people were just standing around on the dance floor. They were all very cliquey/unfriendly and wouldn't even make eye contact. Very different from what I'm used to. I should've just left. Instead I fell victim to sunk cost fallacy and had 7 drinks within the first hour.

I lost my balance before my inhibitions. Decided to sit down and a random Stacy started talking to me. 5 min later some asshole in his early 30s tells me I need to get out of his group's booth. Apparently I was at a table reserved for bottle service. So I apologized and got up. Bought some more drinks. Same girl approached me later and danced with me. She pours her drink into my cup. The asshole from before comes over and complains, saying that I'm stealing their drinks. I laugh it off, but he's dead serious.

I order another drink and try to make my way back to the dance floor. The bar is really crowded at this point, so I patiently wait for the people to move out of my way. Someone pushes me from behind and I drop my drink. I turn around... it's the same guy from before. He says" just trying to help you out, bro." I let it go.

A while later I dropped my drink again (was very drunk). The same guy pops out of nowhere and makes a scene, asking me wtf I was doing, tries to embarrass me. Lost my temper and punched him in the fucking face a few times. I think I KO'd him, but I quickly got tackled by security and escorted out. They were nice tbh - got me a cab and instructed me to leave before police arrive. But it was extremely embarrassing. I feel like the whole world is against me right now. And I have a big fucking bruise on my face. Can't sleep with this stress
 
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fukmylyf said:
I legit feel like quitting alcohol and going ER right now. Fucking wasted over $100 and was practically invisible the whole night. People over age 25 should not be allowed into nightclubs. You faggots are worse than teenagers. Why even go to clubs if you're in a relationship? Never thought I'd  get into a scrap at a party, and I dropped my drink twice. Fuck you guys tbh.


I'm seriously worried. Tolerance getting too high.



What the fuck. I get totally wasted on around 9 dollars in one night. Do you drink liquid gold or something? lol
 
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Zyros said:
What the fuck. I get totally wasted on around 9 dollars in one night. Do you drink liquid gold or something? lol
 
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Went to a club that recently opened up. The vibe was off from the start. Low energy, mostly older crowd. The club was packed but most people were just standing around on the dance floor. They were all very cliquey/unfriendly and wouldn't even make eye contact. Very different from what I'm used to. I should've just left. Instead I fell victim to sunk cost fallacy and had 7 drinks within the first hour.

I lost my balance before my inhibitions. Decided to sit down and a random Stacy started talking to me. 5 min later some asshole in his early 30s tells me I need to get out of his group's booth. Apparently I was at a table reserved for bottle service. So I apologized and got up. Bought some more drinks. Same girl approached me later and danced with me. She pours her drink into my cup. The asshole from before comes over and complains, saying that I'm stealing their drinks. I laugh it off, but he's dead serious.

I order another drink and try to make my way back to the dance floor. The bar is really crowded at this point, so I patiently wait for the people to move out of my way. Someone pushes me from behind and I drop my drink. I turn around... it's the same guy from before. He says" just trying to help you out, bro." I let it go.

A while later I dropped my drink again (was very drunk). The same guy pops out of nowhere and makes a scene, asking me wtf I was doing, tries to embarrass me. Lost my temper and punched him in the fucking face a few times. I think I KO'd him, but I quickly got tackled by security and escorted out. They were nice tbh - got me a cab and instructed me to leave before police arrive. But it was extremely embarrassing. I feel like the whole world is against me right now. And I have a big fucking bruise on my face. Can't sleep with this stress

That does sound like a crappy night, but I can also see it from the side of likely-jealous-aging-dudebro too. Not to condone his conduct, but that as a fellow animal  I can empathize with mammalian behavior. You being wasted af probably didn't help matters but I'm with you in that it doesn't make sense to go to a bar/club and not get to an inebriated state where those things are bound to happen more frequently. I probably would have lost it when he pushed me and I spilled my drink, I would have forced him to pay for that shit. I also would definitely have talked hella smack when he tried to argue that I was taking their drinks, I would have said (if I possessed the clarity of mind) that the drink was GIVEN to me, that I didn't TAKE anything I RECEIVED it. That could have gotten things going as well.

But dude, look on the bright side:

1. Stacy talked to you. There is hope.
2. Stacy poured you a fucking drink. She enjoyed your company, you weren't just some orbiter expected to maintain a one-way relationship of idolization.
3. You knocked out some douche who might think twice before acting like a douche (maybe not but this could have been one in a series of such lessons that help finally drive the nail home).
4. Spent money, got drunk, didn't get arrested.

Overall, I'd say that there is a definite silver lining to this story.

To everyone asking how he could spend $100 and if he was drinking liquid gold, this is absolutely not the case. First of all, tolerance is both genetic on the biological level and gradually grown on the neurological level. An experienced drinker can easily put down 10-20 drinks in a 4-6 hour outing. Each drink costs anywhere from $2 if you're drinking shitty beer on a specific day to $20-40 depending on how "nice" the place is and what your local prices are. I often drink in a large urban area in the North East USA and it is egregiously expensive for people who have a combination of good biology and experience. I usually just pregame with a ton of liquor before I even go out in order to save money.
 
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I often drink in a large urban area in the North East USA and it is egregiously expensive for people who have a combination of good biology and experience. I usually just pregame with a ton of liquor before I even go out in order to save money.

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Zyros said:
What the fuck. I get totally wasted on around 9 dollars in one night. Do you drink liquid gold or something? lol

well I spent some cash on food as well

lol, where are you from bro? Sounds like I should just relocate tbh. One drink costs at least $5-10 at most places here. The venue from last night was on the more expensive side... These bitches even charged for water. 3/10 would not recommend.
 
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lol, where are you from bro? Sounds like I should just relocate tbh. One drink costs at least $5-10 at most places here. The venue from last night was on the more expensive side... These bitches even charged for water. 3/10 would not recommend.

I am spanish, but what I usually drink is more like very strong liquor.
 
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That does sound like a crappy night, but I can also see it from the side of likely-jealous-aging-dudebro too. Not to condone his conduct, but that as a fellow animal  I can empathize with mammalian behavior. You being wasted af probably didn't help matters but I'm with you in that it doesn't make sense to go to a bar/club and not get to an inebriated state where those things are bound to happen more frequently. I probably would have lost it when he pushed me and I spilled my drink, I would have forced him to pay for that shit. I also would definitely have talked hella smack when he tried to argue that I was taking their drinks, I would have said (if I possessed the clarity of mind) that the drink was GIVEN to me, that I didn't TAKE anything I RECEIVED it. That could have gotten things going as well. 

yeah, never expected this to happen because I'm chill af when I drink. You gotta push me pretty far for things to get physical. I told him off when he spilled my drink, but he gave me a half-assed apology so I let it go. Lol, I did talk some smack tho... I jokingly said the girl has good taste and then asked her if she could bring me a bottle of the stuff I like. But I still kept it friendly. I think security was cool with me because they knew I wasn't a troublemaker. 

I hate these older crowds man. There's too many couples and the guys are insecure as fuck. Very territorial. You can't even look around in peace. I feel like I have to be super reserved around these people, which defeats the whole purpose.

But dude, look on the bright side:

1. Stacy talked to you. There is hope.
2. Stacy poured you a fucking drink. She enjoyed your company, you weren't just some orbiter expected to maintain a one-way relationship of idolization.
3. You knocked out some douche who might think twice before acting like a douche (maybe not but this could have been one in a series of such lessons that help finally drive the nail home).
4. Spent money, got drunk, didn't get arrested.

Overall, I'd say that there is a definite silver lining to this story.

lol yeah, I guess it wasn't too bad in retrospect. 

To everyone asking how he could spend $100 and if he was drinking liquid gold, this is absolutely not the case. First of all, tolerance is both genetic on the biological level and gradually grown on the neurological level. An experienced drinker can easily put down 10-20 drinks in a 4-6 hour outing. Each drink costs anywhere from $2 if you're drinking shitty beer on a specific day to $20-40 depending on how "nice" the place is and what your local prices are. I often drink in a large urban area in the North East USA and it is egregiously expensive for people who have a combination of good biology and experience. I usually just pregame with a ton of liquor before I even go out in order to save money.

legit. Having low tolerance is a blessing, in a way.


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I am spanish, but what I usually drink is more like very strong liquor.

I do mostly hard liquor too. Beer does nothing for me.
 
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I hate these older crowds man. There's too many couples and the guys are insecure as fuck. Very territorial. You can't even look around in peace. I feel like I have to be super reserved around these people, which defeats the whole purpose.

Coming from what you would probably consider an older dude at a bar, especially if you're in a college town, I have to say that while their behavior is primal and inexcusable, I can see the rationale behind it. I'm fortunate/unfortunate in that no one would suspect I'm not college age, but it FEELS hella lonely seeing wave after wave of young people that you feel you are too old to relate to, that you have your age sitting in the back of your mind at all times if you do try to approach a social setting. Like, you're only one question away of being revealed as "that old dude." So, being in that kind of environment where everyone around you is more naturally suited to one another, and oftentimes more conventionally attractive, makes it hard on an older dude. If he has a girl with him, then him being insecure and protective is not just a reflection on who he is as a person, but also the environment.

But in general, that dude was a prick. I would never behave that way tbh. If I ever had a girlfriend, or was interested in a girl, that would run off with some dude at the bar and pour him drinks - then that's her choice. Only a chump would fight to keep her on a leash, because even if you succeed then you're pretty much stuck with a woman who wants to go out and talk to other dudes and is now being tied to you against your wishes. Reeks of pathetic desperation.
 
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it wasn't even his girl tho. She was just part of his group.

but yeah, if that was the case, it would make more sense to be angry at your girl than the guy she approached. Females are almost never held accountable
 
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fukmylyf said:
it wasn't even his girl tho. She was just part of his group.

but yeah, if that was the case, it would make more sense to be angry at your girl than the guy she approached. Females are almost never held accountable

He probably wanted to keep his options open lol. Cockblocking asshole.

Definitely agree to the last bit. The guy is just doing what is socially normal to do in a bar lol.
 

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