our cases are quite similar, im also overweight but its definitely gyno because i have done an ultra sound and its glandular (meaning that its only removable through surgery, other guys of my weight dont even have any breast maybe, however im still losing weight tho for the past two months i have lost 10 kgs and the more i lose the more visible they are which honestly makes me feel less motivated about my weight loss.
as for the socialization, im exactly in the same boat, i have no friends, no foids and i have never been to a relationship. and im sorry you are being bullied by those lifeless normies, have you thought about doing the surgery?