Guys srs underestimate the amount of sexless-males out there

[Looksredpilled]

Seriously, looking around my uni class and campus, I can tell you that the majority of guys go sexless, yes, the absolute majority. Meanwhile, the majority of girls have a frequent active sexlife.

I know VERY FEW guys who have an active sex life with a girlfriend or who is a slayer of tons of girls. And then think about the 40-50 year old men with "wifes" who most likely never put out.


Im 100% confident that western men have never gotten as little sex or even love as today. Its a problem most dont even wanna talk about, as males dont wanna even admit they go sexless, cause of the shame of being a "loser".


I seriously do believe this problem is as big, if not bigger, as we say it is, and the idiots who say we are just a "minority of hateful losers" are 100% wrong, the VASTE MAJORITY of guys out there, do NOT have an active sexlife today.

 

[Luxity]

Cope, chads aren't the only ones getting laid, normies get laid as well

 

[Moustachcel]

80/20 rule

Cope, chads aren't the only ones getting laid, normies get laid as well

only high tier normies the rest settles for landwhales, grannys or betabuxx

 

[Newbie17]

Same here boyo, I see so many incels (I am sure most of them indeed are) every fucking day. Of course, there are Chads too ngl

 

[Looksredpilled]

Cope, chads aren't the only ones getting laid, normies get laid as well

No they dont, the majority of NORMAL aka AVERAGE males do NOT get laid, Im telling you. Wheres ur proof? Them telling you? Go to a night club, the vaste majority of guys go home alone, every night. Most of them dont even dare to escalate on the dance floor, and when they do, they get ignored.

Online dating? Good luck if ure not particulary good looking.


We need to stop this shit, just fucking admit that most guys dont get FREQUENT sex. Yes, some times they get lucky with some drunk whore, but the majority of the time they get nothing.

 

[Frankenstein's M.]

80/20 rule

only high tier normies the rest settles for landwhales, grannys or betabuxx

High IQ

 

[Looksredpilled]

I dont even think its 20%, no fucking way. More like 10%.

 

[Deleted member 6657]

The uprising can't happen sooner...

 

[Luxity]

No they dont, the majority of NORMAL aka AVERAGE males do NOT get laid, Im telling you. Wheres ur proof? Them telling you? Go to a night club, the vaste majority of guys go home alone, every night. Most of them dont even dare to escalate on the dance floor, and when they do, they get ignored.

Online dating? Good luck if ure not particulary good looking.


We need to stop this shit, just fucking admit that most guys dont get FREQUENT sex. Yes, some times they get lucky with some drunk whore, but the majority of the time they get nothing.

So youre telling me you dont see normies in a relationship, only chad ? Incels are the small minority of men who dont have sex, youre coping if you think that normies dont get laid, sure they dont have the same chances as a chad at a 8/10 and above stacy, but they settle with their looksmatch

 

[Chileancel]

Most men are just one flaw away from being incel but are too bluepilled to realize.

 

[theoldnick]

Seriously, looking around my uni class and campus, I can tell you that the majority of guys go sexless, yes, the absolute majority. Meanwhile, the majority of girls have a frequent active sexlife.

I know VERY FEW guys who have an active sex life with a girlfriend or who is a slayer of tons of girls. And then think about the 40-50 year old men with "wifes" who most likely never put out.


Im 100% confident that western men have never gotten as little sex or even love as today. Its a problem most dont even wanna talk about, as males dont wanna even admit they go sexless, cause of the shame of being a "loser".


I seriously do believe this problem is as big, if not bigger, as we say it is, and the idiots who say we are just a "minority of hateful losers" are 100% wrong, the VASTE MAJORITY of guys out there, do NOT have an active sexlife today.

most guys are sexless for long periods of time,
even average or above average looking guys,
it's not rare for some good looking guys to go a few weeks/months without sex.
lots of normies go months or even years without sex

 

[Robtical]

only high tier normies the rest settles for landwhales, grannys or betabuxx

No they dont, the majority of NORMAL aka AVERAGE males do NOT get laid, Im telling you. Wheres ur proof? Them telling you? Go to a night club, the vaste majority of guys go home alone, every night. Most of them dont even dare to escalate on the dance floor, and when they do, they get ignored.

Online dating? Good luck if ure not particulary good looking.


We need to stop this shit, just fucking admit that most guys dont get FREQUENT sex. Yes, some times they get lucky with some drunk whore, but the majority of the time they get nothing.

I dont even think its 20%, no fucking way. More like 10%.

So youre telling me you dont see normies in a relationship, only chad ? Incels are the small minority of men who dont have sex, youre coping if you think that normies dont get laid, sure they dont have the same chances as a chad at a 8/10 and above stacy, but they settle with their looksmatch

You might occasonally see a normie 5 with a rostie 4 at best, but he's usually very NT with a social circle and betabuxxes.

 

[Looksredpilled]

So youre telling me you dont see normies in a relationship, only chad ? Incels are the small minority of men who dont have sex, youre coping if you think that normies dont get laid, sure they dont have the same chances as a chad at a 8/10 and above stacy, but they settle with their looksmatch

I see some "normies" in relationships but most of them are probably cucked, and Im not kidding. They get in and out of relationships caues girls dump them and cheat, and then all the drama in relationships.

We are NOT a small minority dude, no fucking way, and they dont settle with their looks match, they settle points way below themselves cause their own looks match is getting boned by a guy +3 points her.


We need to start talking more about this, not delude ourselves that "normies get alot of pussy", NO they dont.

 

[sigh]

I can tell you that from my observations, the great majority of normie males that are married with kids rarely have sex, especially now where people are having kids later in life. If you're married and over 35 and have kids under 18, chances are good that you're getting laid once or twice a year at most.

Which.... once or twice a year more than me but still, they're not soaking up the sex. I feel like the vat majority of fuckin goes in with people in their teens and 20s.

 

[Looksredpilled]

most guys are sexless for long periods of time,
even average or above average looking guys,
it's not rare for some good looking guys to go a few weeks/months without sex.
lots of normies go months or even years without sex

Exactly, I know of many guys here who are above average looking, but not super good looking. 20 years ago they would have had no problems getting a looks match or even hot girls, but nowadays ? Nope.

 

[caudino]

Im 100% confident that western men have never gotten as little sex or even love as today

agreed

the great majority of normie males that are married with kids rarely have sex

this is what I hear as well
the man doesn't dare to force sex, as it would be categorized as rape (in a marriage?)
also foids don't lust for their husbands (only for chad) and the very rarely occasional sex is used as a reward, if the husband behaved well
ridiculous

 

[uninstall]

most guys are sexless for long periods of time,
even average or above average looking guys,
it's not rare for some good looking guys to go a few weeks/months without sex.
lots of normies go months or even years without sex

Exactly, I know of many guys here who are above average looking, but not super good looking. 20 years ago they would have had no problems getting a looks match or even hot girls, but nowadays ? Nope.

 

[Looksredpilled]

Have u guys ever thought about why back in the day, in religion, they had rules like "a wife always have to pleasure her man when he wants" etc etc?

And monogamy, that u shoiuldnt be unfaithful cuz god will punish you.

All that, ever wondered WHY? Just a coincidence?

 

[Dregster]

No they dont, the majority of NORMAL aka AVERAGE males do NOT get laid, Im telling you. Wheres ur proof? Them telling you? Go to a night club, the vaste majority of guys go home alone, every night. Most of them dont even dare to escalate on the dance floor, and when they do, they get ignored.

Online dating? Good luck if ure not particulary good looking.


We need to stop this shit, just fucking admit that most guys dont get FREQUENT sex. Yes, some times they get lucky with some drunk whore, but the majority of the time they get nothing.

Agreed. People don't fully understand what it means to be sexually liberated in reference to women. Because of their encouraged liberty to cherry pick, alot of below average looking and short dudes get the shaft. These guys need money to even be relevant in the game.

Too many normies out there who settle real hard on landwhales and old proons just so they can claim on a sexual encounter.

You can tell who gets laid and who doesn't with simple conversations. It's certainly easier to lie about a decent sex count when 90% of the foids are raging whores.

 

[Inbuddhist]

Cope, chads aren't the only ones getting laid, normies get laid as well

Chads aren't the only one getting laid, but they are the only ones having a sex life that has 1 : ) security (not dependant on any specific woman or a strike of luck, balance of power in their side), 2 : ) stability (not some relationship or sex with strike of luck followed by looong desperating dry periods) and 3 : ) quality , not corpse sex, betabucks sex etc.

It's not all black and white, you can both not be a virgin and be sexless for extreme long periods of time, be dependant on one woman or one strike of luck, have a very fragile and doomed to fail relationship/sex life, very prone to cucking/breakup. Kost of the 80% men are like that. Except for the married betabucks, their sexlife/relationships is made of more frustration, lack, and powerlessness than satistaction and happiness.

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

Among heterosexual men :

10% of men, including Chad and High Tier normies, have fullfiling reciproqual sensual and sentimental relationships with girls.

70% are normie cucks or repressed incels bluepilled fegget pretending and bragging a lot, but who don't really do anything irl. Between 30/40 yo, they will eventually settle for a used up roastie approaching the wall and thus be qualified as "late bloomer teehee". Not all of them will have this "privilege" though ...

20% are actual certified incels/mentalcels/volcels who know how shitty this whole thing is, who are revulsed by it, and who accepted the LDAR fate.

 

[Robtical]

Chads aren't the only one getting laid, but they are the only ones having a sex life that has 1 : ) security (not dependant on any specific woman or a strike of luck, balance of power in their side), 2 : ) stability (not some relationship or sex with strike of luck followed by looong desperating dry periods) and 3 : ) quality , not corpse sex, betabucks sex etc.

High iq. That's why I'm just planning on escortcelling and getting a sexbot.

70% are normie cucks or repressed incels bluepilled fegget pretending and bragging a lot, but who don't really do anything irl. Between 30/40 yo, they will eventually settle for a used up roastie approaching the wall and thus be qualified as "late bloomer teehee". Not all of them will have this "privilege" though ...

Those cucks need to get blackpilled and the government has to stop funding whoredom in order to equal the playing field.

 

[Angus13]

incels are still a minority, but a growing minority. The rate of inceldom will increase with female hypergamy. But as someone said, here, chads are not the only guys getting laid, normies also get laid.

However, once our society finishes transitioning from a monogamous society into a polygamist society, the "normies" sexual middle class will fall off. I can't predict how long it will take for this to happen though.

 

[Robtical]

incels are still a minority, but a growing minority. The rate of inceldom will increase with female hypergamy. But as someone said, here, chads are not the only guys getting laid, normies also get laid.

However, once our society finishes transitioning from a monogamous society into a polygamist society, the "normies" sexual middle class will fall off. I can't predict how long it will take for this to happen though.

Normies barely get any except the bottom of the barrel scraps. It's like a windshield wiper bragging to a homeless guy.

 

[Angus13]

Normies barely get any except the bottom of the barrel scraps. It's like a windshield wiper bragging to a homeless guy.

Normies are getting women, maybe not women in their league, but they get decent looking women sometimes, but those women are using him as holdover for chad...

 

[Robtical]

Normies are getting women, maybe not women in their league, but they get decent looking women sometimes, but those women are using him as holdover for chad...

That's only if they're very NT and have a big social circle, plus they'll still be betabuxxing a used hoe below their looksmatch that will cheat on them. This is a high tier normie's best scenario.

 

[Kent]

Tons of men lie about having sex and then finally cling like a chimp to any woman who might give them the time of day. I've seen this so much. And then the couple create a narrative where she "finally tied him down into a relationship" while the guy happily plays along.

In truth, a lot of guys haven't been touched in years before they finally land a relationship with a sub5.

 

[incel scum]

I can tell you that from my observations, the great majority of normie males that are married with kids rarely have sex, especially now where people are having kids later in life. If you're married and over 35 and have kids under 18, chances are good that you're getting laid once or twice a year at most.

Which.... once or twice a year more than me but still, they're not soaking up the sex. I feel like the vat majority of fuckin goes in with people in their teens and 20s.

I think you are right. A lot of married couples don't have much sex especially once women have had kids.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

agreed, sure theres plenty of normie men who later on get relationships and sex, but there is a massive problem when it comes to college. Only chad and chadlites get to engage in casual sex with average and stacey femoids.

 

[Inbuddhist]

Normies are getting women, maybe not women in their league, but they get decent looking women sometimes, but those women are using him as holdover for chad...

Read my comment. Normies are getting scraps. It's not just about getting the woman, it's also about how the woman treats you, the quality of the relationship, the balance of power, your ability to find another one if she breaks up with you etc, do you get starfish sex or real sex etc, even "getting the woman" is qualitatively different for chads and normies.

Normies aren't incels, but their sex and romantic life is in most of cases shitty, poor, with lots of long dry spells, composed of more frustration, rejection, loneliness, insecurity, coldness, from the part of the girl that satisfaction and contentment. It's also unstable and fragile, with the balance of power in most cases in favor of the girl (she can replace them easily, they can't do the same ), it's not just that chads get girls more easily than normies and it stops here, even the "getting the girl part" is qualitatively different between the two.

 

[Ignas]

this is what I hear as well
the man doesn't dare to force sex, as it would be categorized as rape (in a marriage?)
also foids don't lust for their husbands (only for chad) and the very rarely occasional sex is used as a reward, if the husband behaved well
ridiculous

What the actual fuck. I sometimes read the term "marital rape" on articles and here. Is that even a thing? Not even marriages ensure sex

 

[Copingtillidie]

Lol,and then they ask you why slut shaming is a thing
YOU JUST GOTTA OPEN YOUR LEGS,MOTHERFUCKER
How many men can open their zips and fuck? I'd say less than 5%,of course we are jealous

 

[Angus13]

That's only if they're very NT and have a big social circle, plus they'll still be betabuxxing a used hoe below their looksmatch that will cheat on them. This is a high tier normie's best scenario.

Yeah but they are a hell of a lot better off than us incels, we don't call normies incels. They can get enough to live comfortable lives, otherwise we'd call them incels. It's pure cope to think most men are incel, although, you are right about a lot of normies beta buxxing.

Read my comment. Normies are getting scraps. It's not just about getting the woman, it's also about how the woman treats you, the quality of the relationship, the balance of power, your ability to find another one if she breaks up with you etc, do you get starfish sex or real sex etc, even "getting the woman" is qualitatively different for chads and normies.

Normies aren't incels, but their sex and romantic life is in most of cases shitty, poor, with lots of long dry spells, composed of more frustration, rejection, loneliness, insecurity, coldness, from the part of the girl that satisfaction and contentment. It's also unstable and fragile, with the balance of power in most cases in favor of the girl (she can replace them easily, they can't do the same ), it's not just that chads get girls more easily than normies and it stops here, even the "getting the girl part" is qualitatively different between the two.

That makes sense, honestly.

 

[Robtical]

Yeah but they are a hell of a lot better off than us incels, we don't call normies incels.

They're not much better than us at all. I don't envy cucks and betabuxxers taking chad's leftovers. Better incel than cuck.

 

[Angus13]

They're not much better than us at all. I don't envy cucks and betabuxxers taking chad's leftovers. Better incel than cuck.

Yeah but normies get 1000x more validation than incels, I've known plenty of higher tier normies who had perfectly normal love/sex lives, I'm talking young years, normies in their early 20's..... Or even medium tier normies (non-beta buxxers).... No they aren't chad but they have far more options than we do.... Even at the parties or getting laid, or w/e.

 

[Robtical]

Yeah but normies get 1000x more validation than incels, I've known plenty of higher tier normies who had perfectly normal love/sex lives, I'm talking young years, normies in their early 20's..... Or even medium tier normies (non-beta buxxers).... No they aren't chad but they have far more options than we do.... Even at the parties or getting laid, or w/e.

They get fake normie "validation" that would make any blackpilled thinker cringe. The medium tier normies barely get any love or sex, unless they're betabuxxing a lot. Only high-tier normies, chad-lites, and chads have it better.

 

[Jockcel]

This is true.

 

[Angus13]

They get fake normie "validation" that would make any blackpilled thinker cringe. The medium tier normies barely get any love or sex, unless they're betabuxxing a lot. Only high-tier normies, chad-lites, and chads have it better.

I mean I dunno, I see a lot of normie guys who are average-looking and athletic with landwhales, this is likely because if they tried to approach women anywhere near their own league, they'd get rejected. So maybe there is something to that. Because they aren't looked at as "losers" because they can hide their "loser" status by dating down to repulsive levels that would have been totally unheard of just a few generations ago. You could almost call them hidden-cels.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Seriously, looking around my uni class and campus, I can tell you that the majority of guys go sexless, yes, the absolute majority. Meanwhile, the majority of girls have a frequent active sexlife.

I know VERY FEW guys who have an active sex life with a girlfriend or who is a slayer of tons of girls. And then think about the 40-50 year old men with "wifes" who most likely never put out.


Im 100% confident that western men have never gotten as little sex or even love as today. Its a problem most dont even wanna talk about, as males dont wanna even admit they go sexless, cause of the shame of being a "loser".


I seriously do believe this problem is as big, if not bigger, as we say it is, and the idiots who say we are just a "minority of hateful losers" are 100% wrong, the VASTE MAJORITY of guys out there, do NOT have an active sexlife today.

Yes this is common knowledge but some people here have a hard time accepting it thinking that they are special. While I would not say that the majority are sexless, that is rather a smaller group of introvert average or ugly looking men that is maybe 20%, I would say that a majority have to settle for less than their looksmatch and/or are heavily betabuxxing. Men that frequently and unconditionally get sex is rare.

 

[Vodaccenu]

95/5
only 5% are slaying like crazy. The rest are in relationshits, getting cucked or incel

 

[caudino]

What the actual fuck. I sometimes read the term "marital rape" on articles and here. Is that even a thing? Not even marriages ensure sex

no, not even close
unbelievable, I know
as for marital rape, I think feminists must have pushed it, but ultimately it's cucked men's (politicians?) fault that this thing exists
as ridiculous as it sounds, the catholic religion, the bible was on men's side in this matter, quite clearly stating how the wife should serve his husband
serving without question means, among many other things, "giving sex"

 

[Darthmat]

 

[Allcel]

Cope

 

[Deleted member 11015]

Read my comment. Normies are getting scraps. It's not just about getting the woman, it's also about how the woman treats you, the quality of the relationship, the balance of power, your ability to find another one if she breaks up with you etc, do you get starfish sex or real sex etc, even "getting the woman" is qualitatively different for chads and normies.

Normies aren't incels, but their sex and romantic life is in most of cases shitty, poor, with lots of long dry spells, composed of more frustration, rejection, loneliness, insecurity, coldness, from the part of the girl that satisfaction and contentment. It's also unstable and fragile, with the balance of power in most cases in favor of the girl (she can replace them easily, they can't do the same ), it's not just that chads get girls more easily than normies and it stops here, even the "getting the girl part" is qualitatively different between the two.

High IQ as usual

Sex and relationships goes beyond just a box tick. It is all the things you mentioned like how easy the relationship it is, frequency and power. Majority of normies I know are defacto incel. Getting lucky twice a year with some random bar whore does not qualify in my mind as having a healthy sex life or mindset. Without sounding like a coper there are some benefits we have over these normies. I can't describe the sheer anguish these normies go through just to try get one bang a year. Spending large sums of money, going to shitty bars every week, and getting crushed repeatedly.

You are not coping @Looksredpilled. Its just as bad as you think.

 

[Inbuddhist]

High IQ as usual

Sex and relationships goes beyond just a box tick. It is all the things you mentioned like how easy the relationship it is, frequency and power. Majority of normies I know are defacto incel. Getting lucky twice a year with some random bar whore does not qualify in my mind as having a healthy sex life or mindset. Without sounding like a coper there are some benefits we have over these normies. I can't describe the sheer anguish these normies go through just to try get one bang a year. Spending large sums of money, going to shitty bars every week, and getting crushed repeatedly.

You are not coping @Looksredpilled. Its just as bad as you think.

You said it better than i could, thanks.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Im gonna take a wild guess here and say that you are taking stem classes..

 

[Ignas]

no, not even close
unbelievable, I know
as for marital rape, I think feminists must have pushed it, but ultimately it's cucked men's (politicians?) fault that this thing exists
as ridiculous as it sounds, the catholic religion, the bible was on men's side in this matter, quite clearly stating how the wife should serve his husband
serving without question means, among many other things, "giving sex"

There's only disadvantages in modern marriage then. Jfl how stupid it is

 

[Robtical]

High IQ as usual

Sex and relationships goes beyond just a box tick. It is all the things you mentioned like how easy the relationship it is, frequency and power. Majority of normies I know are defacto incel. Getting lucky twice a year with some random bar whore does not qualify in my mind as having a healthy sex life or mindset. Without sounding like a coper there are some benefits we have over these normies. I can't describe the sheer anguish these normies go through just to try get one bang a year. Spending large sums of money, going to shitty bars every week, and getting crushed repeatedly.

You are not coping @Looksredpilled. Its just as bad as you think.

Another thing we have better than normies is we don't have a normie reputation to uphold, and we can say anything we want.

 

[caudino]

I can't describe the sheer anguish these normies go through just to try get one bang a year. Spending large sums of money, going to shitty bars every week, and getting crushed repeatedly.

extremely well said

Another thing we have better than normies is we don't have a normie reputation to uphold, and we can say anything we want.

yeah
and maybe there's also a kind of mental advantage on our side. We see who (or much rather what) femoids really are. Normies, especially unsuccessful, suffering ones, may struggle in a cognitive dissonance state. Holding onto NAWALT and similar copes

 

[Robtical]

yeah
and maybe there's also a kind of mental advantage on our side. We see who (or much rather what) femoids really are. Normies, especially unsuccessful, suffering ones, may struggle in a cognitive dissonance state. Holding onto NAWALT and similar copes

I would rather be incel and know the truth than be a blind cuck.