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Got the gay question again from my mother last weekend. Do any of you guys get asked this?

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Over Memorial Day weekend, I was with my mother and she asked if bought a new bed for my house. I told her I did and she asked if it was a double. I said no and then she criticized me and asked "what if I get a GF in the future?". I told her that won't happen and she then asked if I was gay (again). She gave me all the bullshit about how she'd love me no matter what and all that. I told her I wasn't gay but I don't think she's sure. I can't tell her about all this blackpill nonsense since both her and my father think I'm gonna shoot up a public place.

This is probably the 4th or 5th times she's asked me if I'm gay, and she does it now about once every 6 months. The worst is when she asked MY COWORKERS if they knew if I was gay.

Do any of you guys' parents think you're gay?
 
Kek, it's over for YourParentsThinkYourGaycels.
When I was like 16 my parents were wondering if it was normal for me to not have a gf. Now the topic doesn't even come up.
I think they had high hopes when I told them about a female friend of mine. But in reality they dont expect anything from me relationship wise
 
My sister is now always asking me that . Im tipically shy , very nervous and tend to blush with intimate questions, so when I blushed she thought I was really gay
 
This problem can be solved easily. A BIG HARD SLAP across her chops. Or do as I did and abandon your family completely (17 years and counting)
Yeah, they think I'm gay too.
 
If you were gay, you would have got a double bed. Tell your mother to keep her fucking nose out.
 
Do any of you guys' parents think you're gay?

when i was 16 my mom once walked in on me when i was fapping to porn, and it was straight porn.
and later i once lied to her about having a girlfriend (i was living in a different city because uni) to make her stop worrying so much.

so yeah i dont think she thinks im gay, just a loser and a failure of a man. not sure which is worse.
 
I told them I wasn't attracted to anyone when they ask me that
 
World needs to get hit by ASTREOIDs

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This problem can be solved easily. A BIG HARD SLAP across her chops. Or do as I did and abandon your family completely (17 years and counting)
Yeah, they think I'm gay too.
I love my mother too much to do that. She did alot for me and actually stood up for me when my father kicked me out.
when i was 16 my mom once walked in on me when i was fapping to porn, and it was straight porn.
Probably the worst way for her to know but I guess she is sure you're not gay now.
 
My mum did for a while, I suspect. Until she found porn magazines in my bedroom at age 20.

But she grew up in the 1960's-70's generation where women had a broader spectrum of taste. They simply don't understand how shallow the modern woman is today. They also don't understand things like how skyrocketing obesity rates among young women means more and more men are having to up their game and compete for ugly skinny girls with bad personalities and huge numbers of ex partners. And you HAVE to be somewhat above average-looking to have an ugly-faced, skinny girlfriend these days, lets be honest. This was not true in my mothers day, as obesity rates were lower than 10% in the 1960's-70's. Now they are close to 40%.

The men of my mums era were not competing for Chad on Tinder, Facebook and other technological advances like smartphones that have ramped up hypergamy and created more disposable males.
 
My mum did for a while, I suspect. Until she found porn magazines in my bedroom at age 20.

But she grew up in the 1960's-70's generation where women had a broader spectrum of taste. They simply don't understand how shallow the modern woman is today. They also don't understand things like how skyrocketing obesity rates among young women means more and more men are having to up their game and compete for ugly skinny girls with bad personalities and huge numbers of ex partners. And you HAVE to be somewhat above average-looking to have an ugly-faced, skinny girlfriend these days, lets be honest. This was not true in my mothers day, as obesity rates were lower than 10% in the 1960's-70's. Now they are close to 40%.
My mother grew up in the same time and is not aware of the current dating landscape as well. I once told her that women these days don't have to be responsible or have to work hard and she bitched me out. That may have not been true in her day, but it's definitely true now.
 
I love my mother too much to do that. She did alot for me and actually stood up for me when my father kicked me out.

Probably the worst way for her to know but I guess she is sure you're not gay now.

My mom thinks I attack women. There were a number of attacks on women near where I was living and she basically suggested it was me.
 
My mom thinks I attack women. There were a number of attacks on women near where I was living and she basically suggested it was me.
That's amazing. I don't know what to exactly say about that. Do you display incel-tendencies towards her? That might make her think that way. That wouldn't bother me though, as women often deserve to be attacked and I sort feel for the attacker. Its much worse to be thought of as a degenerate homosexual.
 
Also, back in the late 1990's I was bullied for my pubertycel/manlet looks in my student flat by normies, hussies and jocks. I stood up for myself and was labelled "psycho" and dangerous by them. The landlord got involved, phoned my mother (without consenting me first) and created a story that I had caused trouble towards a girl in my flat. This girl was cussing my looks (unprovoked) and I stood up to her, and to the guys that were picking on me as well. My mum basically believed everything the landlord said and didn't believe my side of the story (that I was standing up to appearance bullies).

I can never forgive my mother for this. Never. The media see's us as exactly the same as my mother; that it is all our fault from our behaviour, attitude or some shit. It's incredibly infuriating when we are the ones being vilified.
 
Also, back in the late 1990's I was bullied for my looks in my student flat by normies, hussies and jocks. I stood up for myself and was labelled "psycho" and dangerous by them. The landlord got involved, phoned my mother (without consenting me first) and created a story that I had caused trouble towards a girl in my flat. This girl was cussing my looks (unprovoked) and I stood up to her, and to the guys that were picking on me as well. My mum basically believed everything the landlord said and didn't believe my side of the story (that I was standing up to appearance bullies).

I can never forgive my mother for this. Never. The media see's us as exactly the same as my mother. That its our fault. Its our behaviour, attitude or some shit. It's incredibly infuriating.
Yeah man that's the halo effect. Ugly men will always be much more likely to be blamed than good looking men or women. It's part of human biology and there's nothing we can do about it. Shitty story though, seems like you made it out alright though. She really should believe you, but you can't expect that.
 
That's amazing. I don't know what to exactly say about that. Do you display incel-tendencies towards her? That might make her think that way. That wouldn't bother me though, as women often deserve to be attacked and I sort feel for the attacker. Its much worse to be thought of as a degenerate homosexual.

I am into horror films and serial killers. And I have been convicted of attacking a few people in the past. So maybe she is right to think it was me.
I'm no rapist though. It's complicated.
 
If you can't blackpill her then bluepill her. Tell her that the right girl will come along when you least expect it. If she says: "but you have to try", tell her that you have and now realize that it's not something that you can force, you have to let it happen when it's ready. Go megabluepill on her.

Or put the pressure back on her. Ask her if any of her female friends know of any girls who would like you. Give your mum a picture of yourself and tell her to see if any of her friends know any girls that like you in that pic. That ought to subtly redpill her.

Show her your Tinder matches too. Show her your tinder matches vs one you're running of a catfish so she can compare the two instantly.

Failing all that, wear a spycamera and film your rejections from women, then replay them to your mum,

Failing all of the above, tell her you're taking her out for a meal. Stand at the kerbside with her, then as an 18-wheeler comes along, push her in front of it while screaming: "I'm incel, you fucking dumb femoid".
 
My mum did for a while, I suspect. Until she found porn magazines in my bedroom at age 20.

But she grew up in the 1960's-70's generation where women had a broader spectrum of taste. They simply don't understand how shallow the modern woman is today. They also don't understand things like how skyrocketing obesity rates among young women means more and more men are having to up their game and compete for ugly skinny girls with bad personalities and huge numbers of ex partners. And you HAVE to be somewhat above average-looking to have an ugly-faced, skinny girlfriend these days, lets be honest. This was not true in my mothers day, as obesity rates were lower than 10% in the 1960's-70's. Now they are close to 40%.

The men of my mums era were not competing for Chad on Tinder, Facebook and other technological advances like smartphones that have ramped up hypergamy and created more disposable males.

My mom is a bit younger but same thing. I feel sorry for her and I think she feels sorry for me after I explained this to her.

She was a virgin from a hyper religious family when she got married to my dad who is a nice guy and a great guy but he'd get fucking chewed out by the world nowadays. Working class, worked his way up in the same company all his life, churchgoer, etc.

They have a tough time dealing with the fact that that lifestyle is fucking over. It's not just the sex/girl thing either: they raised me on a single income - Fucking impossible. They paid off their house - fucking impossible. He had a 40 year career with the same company - fucking impossible.

Add the girl thing to it and the picture is bleak and I do feel sorry for prior generations because how the FUCK could they teach their kids about dating and life when the world is economically fucked and relationships have been replaced by fuck and suck dating apps?

I always say that the problems we have with dating are part of the bigger issue in that the world is fucked and the 1% get everything
 
Failing all of the above, tell her you're taking her out for a meal. Stand at the kerbside with her, then as an 18-wheeler comes along, push her in front of it while screaming: "I'm incel, you fucking dumb femoid".
Skip evERything above and just do this
 
If you can't blackpill her then bluepill her. Tell her that the right girl will come along when you least expect it. If she says: "but you have to try", tell her that you have and now realize that it's not something that you can force, you have to let it happen when it's ready. Go megabluepill on her.

Or put the pressure back on her. Ask her if any of her female friends know of any girls who would like you. Give your mum a picture of yourself and tell her to see if any of her friends know any girls that like you in that pic. That ought to subtly redpill her.

Show her your Tinder matches too. Show her your tinder matches vs one you're running of a catfish so she can compare the two instantly.

Failing all that, wear a spycamera and film your rejections from women, then replay them to your mum,

Failing all of the above, tell her you're taking her out for a meal. Stand at the kerbside with her, then as an 18-wheeler comes along, push her in front of it while screaming: "I'm incel, you fucking dumb femoid".

I have told my mother that women are not interested in me. I've never used tinder either so I can't show her that stuff. The redpill idea seems like the best idea at this point. Unless she's willing to help, she's not doing anything by calling me gay.

My mom is a bit younger but same thing. I feel sorry for her and I think she feels sorry for me after I explained this to her.

She was a virgin from a hyper religious family when she got married to my dad who is a nice guy and a great guy but he'd get fucking chewed out by the world nowadays. Working class, worked his way up in the same company all his life, churchgoer, etc.

They have a tough time dealing with the fact that that lifestyle is fucking over. It's not just the sex/girl thing either: they raised me on a single income - Fucking impossible. They paid off their house - fucking impossible. He had a 40 year career with the same company - fucking impossible.

Add the girl thing to it and the picture is bleak and I do feel sorry for prior generations because how the FUCK could they teach their kids about dating and life when the world is economically fucked and relationships have been replaced by fuck and suck dating apps?

I always say that the problems we have with dating are part of the bigger issue in that the world is fucked and the 1% get everything
I want a hyper-religious virgin woman tbh but its a pipedream in 2018. You are right about that.
 
You aren't a true incel until you had the "I'm not gay, just a loser" talk with your family.
 
I love my mother too much to do that. She did alot for me and actually stood up for me when my father kicked me out.

Probably the worst way for her to know but I guess she is sure you're not gay now.

Sounds like she is trying to cope. Kind of feel for bad for her. How to deal with our relationships and the blackpill is a tricky situation. I've been going to counseling with my dad recently and it is only a matter of time until it will comes up assuming we don't drop out of it for some reason.
 
My parents have asked me that since I was 13

I always had PLENTY of male friends but never interacted with females whatsoever, they didn't interact with me ever either.

I "came out" to my parents as gay about a couple of months ago so they would fuck off. Now they're like " so where's your boyfriend" "show us your boyfriend"

i just say i'm trying to find one, kek.
 
They don’t even ask me about girls anymore
 
Over Memorial Day weekend, I was with my mother and she asked if bought a new bed for my house. I told her I did and she asked if it was a double. I said no and then she criticized me and asked "what if I get a GF in the future?". I told her that won't happen and she then asked if I was gay (again). She gave me all the bullshit about how she'd love me no matter what and all that. I told her I wasn't gay but I don't think she's sure. I can't tell her about all this blackpill nonsense since both her and my father think I'm gonna shoot up a public place.

This is probably the 4th or 5th times she's asked me if I'm gay, and she does it now about once every 6 months. The worst is when she asked MY COWORKERS if they knew if I was gay.

Do any of you guys' parents think you're gay?
Tell your mom to set you up with someone already if she's THAT concerned. Let her swallow the Blackpill.
 
My parents have asked me that since I was 13

I always had PLENTY of male friends but never interacted with females whatsoever, they didn't interact with me ever either.

I "came out" to my parents as gay about a couple of months ago so they would fuck off. Now they're like " so where's your boyfriend" "show us your boyfriend"

i just say i'm trying to find one, kek.
:lul:Why you did this though ?
 
As an individual whom is rather introverted, my parents have accused me of being gay and by confirming I won't get pestered to obtain a relationship partner for too long until they want me to actually find a partner
 
???

They were literally asking every single day.
Sad. My family also ask me sometimes. But I would rather invent a virtual GF rather than pretending I'm gay. It's less hard to cope with in the long run.
 
Sad. My family also ask me sometimes. But I would rather invent a virtual GF rather than pretending I'm gay. It's less hard to cope with in the long run.

much more high iq to just say you're gay

they'd want to meet the "GF," see the "GF," etc., and then they'll just realize in a few days that you're lying and even more of a loser lol

if you say you're gay they're just like "......oh.....wow, i knew it all along....ok, just do whatever you're doing but keep it private please"
 
Oh absolutely. I get asked this from time-to-time, and it's pretty humiliating. I think I've been asked from family members if I am gay about 5 or 6 times so far? Their reasoning as to why they suspect I am is because of "my lack of female interaction". Just fucking miserable that my deprivation has resulted in people concluding I am someone I am not.
 
You are fakecel if your family doesnt think you are gay. Ofc i got asked this numerous times. They just cant comprehend being utterly undesirable to females so the think no gf = bf
 
My parents have asked me that since I was 13

I always had PLENTY of male friends but never interacted with females whatsoever, they didn't interact with me ever either.

I "came out" to my parents as gay about a couple of months ago so they would fuck off. Now they're like " so where's your boyfriend" "show us your boyfriend"

i just say i'm trying to find one, kek.
why though :lul:
 
My dad used to ask me if I was gay from about age 15-18. After telling him no countless times I guess he eventually believed me, as he hasn't brought it up in years. My mother never seemed to think this, or at least never expressed it to me. Maybe she looked though my hard drive or something, idk.
 
My mother surely thinks that I go to escorts.
 
only once and the result was that I was fired from a low-paid job. homosexuals and lesbians and LGBT people are not our enemies. Lesbians have never made me feel like an inferior man. it's more the enemies of the LGBT people are also our enemies. Once an asshole mocked me. In short I was fired from the job to strangle him in front of others. I felt a good feeling that I want to repeat it. It was great as a moron in a job that I had tried to homosexual because the shit women do not see me as a person. I punched him. and when he fell to the ground. I kicked him in the head, and then applied my Fantasy. I put it down until I let it go. I did not want to send him to hell. that time only. Me, just as the rabble see me as a lonely loser. I wish it happened more often to strangle The People. It is very personal and great
 
Parents become really angry when they realize that their sons won't reproduce due to their ugly looks.
 
Parents become really angry when they realize that their sons won't reproduce due to their ugly looks.
But its their fucking fault for creating a subhuman. Genetic recombination regardless.
 
I don't think anyone thinks I'm gay. Anyway its 2018 who cares.
It don't matter what year it is, I don't need people thinking I'm a faggot. Faggots are some of the lowest forms of humans.
 
I'm openly mysogynistic to my family, mother included, she knows she's the reason I don't have "healthy" views of the female sex, so she don't bother asking.
 
My dad used to ask me if I was gay from about age 15-18. After telling him no countless times I guess he eventually believed me, as he hasn't brought it up in years. My mother never seemed to think this, or at least never expressed it to me. Maybe she looked though my hard drive or something, idk.
What's on your hard drive
 
it means you're a fakecel who isn't actually bad looking, thus why in the world would you be struggling to find a relationship, thus prompting this question
 
my granparents think that im fruity because i get nice haircuts and don't like sports topkek
 
My mum basically believed everything the landlord said and didn't believe my side of the story (that I was standing up to appearance bullies).

I can never forgive my mother for this. Never. The media see's us as exactly the same as my mother; that it is all our fault from our behaviour, attitude or some shit. It's incredibly infuriating when we are the ones being vilified.
My mum always sides with my harassers too. I hate it.
 
Not by my mom, but moreover by other people in my friends group.
 

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