Girls don't give a shit about the effort you put

[Deleted member 306]

Do you think a girl looks at her bf and thinks: "Oh, he tried so hard to get me. My pussy will be always be wet for this try hard guy."? Women do not consider themselves as trophies to be claimed. They are not going to fuck the guy who puts effort in shit like lifting, studying, hobbies, working etc. They will fuck the guy they like. In other words, they care about GENETICS.

It makes more sense the more I think about it. All guys I see with girls are not lifting and generally do not have any talents yet women like them. Why? Becuase sexual relationships are not supposed to be hard to get. They are placed BENEATH accomplishments in Maslow's hieararchy of needs and there is a good reason for that. Sex is somehting you get for being a human AKA having good genes. Putting effort into your life will NOT get you laid.

Women are incapable of appreaciating effort. They get everything handed to them just because they have a pussy. Do you think a girl will think "OMG he just benched 6 plates. What a man. My pussy is so wet."? Hell no.

Effort is COPE. It has nothing to do with getting laid. Sex is all about GENETICS. Humans are animals after alll. Stuff like confidence, talents, education do NOT matter. When it comes to sex, women revert to their primitive state where they will judg you SOLELY on your genes. Your effort is IRRELEVANT.

 

[blickpall]

The harder you try, the more pathetic you look.

Every story I've heard about a woman dating or marrying a man who "just wouldn't give up," - none of them have ended well. Literally 0. Anecdotal evidence, sure, but makes sense too.

 

[St.Tropez]

The harder you try, the more pathetic you look.

Every story I've heard about a woman dating or marrying a man who "just wouldn't give up," - none of them have ended well. Literally 0. Anecdotal evidence, sure, but makes sense too.

But they do sometimes get the girl tho... 

And have children even sometimes.

 

[Deleted member 306]

The harder you try, the more pathetic you look.

Every story I've heard about a woman dating or marrying a man who "just wouldn't give up," - none of them have ended well. Literally 0. Anecdotal evidence, sure, but makes sense too.

A girl actually told me that persisting makes the situation worse. Women don't want persistance.

 

[sepelion]

Eh, if you look good, having a fit body is icing on the cake... But gymcelling if your genetics are shit is as laughable as putting a Lamborghini frame on a Fiero. Or maybe a Lamborghini that for some reason has the hood and grill of a Honda civic.

 

[blickpall]

But they do sometimes get the girl tho... 

And have children even sometimes.

Yes, none of which mean that you will end up happy. Betabux get the girl too sometimes. Starfish sex wouldn't make me happy, personally. It would make me feel more like shit than I do now.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Eh, if you look good, having a fit body is icing on the cake... But gymcelling if your genetics are shit is as laughable as putting a Lamborghini frame on a Fiero.

Gymcelling only works if you slay already

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

Its crazy, you could pour your heart, soul, energy, and love onto one girl, but sometimes, you'd get a slap on the face, or a stab in the back lol.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Its crazy, you could pour your heart, soul, energy, and love onto one girl, but sometimes, you'd get a slap on the face, or a stab in the back lol.

That's why you stop trying and LDAR. Nothing good is goona come out from putting effort.

 

[blickpall]

Its crazy, you could pour your heart, soul, energy, and love onto one girl, but sometimes, you'd get a slap on the face, or a stab in the back lol.

"If he's that desperate to get me, that means he's below me and he's trying to bat out of his league. Why do I have to lower my standards and date someone who has to try so hard to get me? Clearly this means I am very valuable and he is not, so I can get someone who is as valuable as I am instead."

 

[St.Tropez]

Yes, none of which mean that you will end up happy. Betabux get the girl too sometimes. Starfish sex wouldn't make me happy, personally. It would make me feel more like shit than I do now.

Yeah but at least they get something. While we get nothing.

Obviously it is not ideal,but we are talking about low tiers of existence regardless.

 

[sepelion]

Gymcelling only works if you slay already

More or less. It has to be demoralizing when a fit gymcel sees a fat guy with a girlfriend who is fuckable.

 

[Deleted member 306]

More or less. It has to be demoralizing when a fit gymcel sees a fat guy with a girlfriend who is fuckable.

It's all about the face man. Wasting time at the gym if you are a virgin is pointless.

 

[sepelion]

"If he's that desperate to get me, that means he's below me and he's trying to bat out of his league. Why do I have to lower my standards and date someone who has to try so hard to get me? Clearly this means I am very valuable and he is not, so I can get someone who is as valuable as I am instead."

Yep. That's the exact sad psychology at play in a world where women don't have any incentive to elope with a man other than entertainment value (sex). They have their own money, they don't need men.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Do you think a girl looks at her bf and thinks: "Oh, he tried so hard to get me. My pussy will be always be wet for this try hard guy."? Women do not consider themselves as trophies to be claimed. They are not going to fuck the guy who puts effort in shit like lifting, studying, hobbies, working etc. They will fuck the guy they like. In other words, they care about GENETICS.

It makes more sense the more I think about it. All guys I see with girls are not lifting and generally do not have any talents yet women like them. Why? Becuase sexual relationships are not supposed to be hard to get. They are placed BENEATH accomplishments in Maslow's hieararchy of needs and there is a good reason for that. Sex is somehting you get for being a human AKA having good genes. Putting effort into your life will NOT get you laid.

Women are incapable of appreaciating effort. They get everything handed to them just because they have a pussy. Do you think a girl will think "OMG he just benched 6 plates. What a man. My pussy is so wet."? Hell no.

Effort is COPE. It has nothing to do with getting laid. Sex is all about GENETICS. Humans are animals after alll. Stuff like confidence, talents, education do NOT matter. When it comes to sex, women revert to their primitive state where they will judg you SOLELY on your genes. Your effort is IRRELEVANT.

+10 points to you, sir. This guy gets it.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

I guess only more disappointment lies ahead...

 

[Narazz]

self improvement isn't going to help you. back in the school days i lost a lot of wieght and it didn't change a  thing. 

as of now im working on social skills and started doing things like reading books. of course it wont help either. im just hoping it'll at least get me out of hourly work one of these days. 

 

[modus_coperandi]

I met a 25 year old virgin once on a German FA board and he managed to get a 10 years older mostly asexual 3/10 women to become his girlfriend. First he tried to be persistent, then he tried using logic and it worked eventually. They sat together and discussed what was the right thing to do, how they had to ignore their lacking chemistry and attraction and that the whole concept of love was just the cope of a self-aware animal trying desperately to escape the existential arbitrarity of the world and our moral categories. Can you imagine something more depressing than this talk and something less fulfilling than the following relationship. They are still together though.

 

[St.Tropez]

I met a 25 year old virgin once on a German FA board and he managed to get a 10 years older mostly asexual 3/10 women to become his girlfriend. First he tried to be persistent, then he tried using logic and it worked eventually. They sat together and discussed what was the right thing to do, how they had to ignore their lacking chemistry and attraction and that the whole concept of love was just the cope of a self-aware animal trying desperately to escape the existential arbitrarity of the world and our moral categories. Can you imagine something more depressing than this talk and something less fulfilling than the following relationship. They are still together though.

Fuark so it actually worked in the end. 

I think persistance is a must for incels.

 

[blickpall]

Fuark so it actually worked in the end. 

I think persistance is a must for incels.

Persistence will be the fastest shortcut to a jail cell for an incel. Jailcels on suicide watch.

 

[modus_coperandi]

Fuark so it actually worked in the end. 

When you are fine with the idea of such a relationship without any attraction, validation and sex, then you could say it worked out well.

 

[St.Tropez]

When you are fine with the idea of such a relationship without any attraction, validation and sex, then you could say it worked out well.

But he was attracted to her? 
So he got her in the end. 

II am.jelly now.

 

[modus_coperandi]

But he was attracted to her? 
So he got her in the end. 

II am.jelly now.

No he wasn't at all. He thought she was way too old and told me personally that he was just not capable to feel any attraction for women older than mid 20s. He also looked really young and together they looked like a guy with his aunt.

 

[dr-problematic]

i actually didnt look at Maslow's hieararchy in that way, it actually makes perfect sense now. indeed, i know a chad who is jobless for years and he still smashes chicks left and right, and great notice about the fact that they dont give shit a bout ur attempts, if they see ur hard tries its over for you, she alrdy laughs at ur pathetic copes eg manlet tryin to compensate with big muscles

also this should be repeated that its enough for human beings to identify the persons characteristics in their subconscious in the first 1-2 seconds of meeting them, so again, personality, job, hobbies and all other shit is out of the window, it only plays a role in ltr

decision wether ull be fucked or not by a girl is made right there and then when she sees ur genetics

ldar time

 

[Deleted member 306]

+10 points to you, sir. This guy gets it.

Thanks brother.

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I guess only more disappointment lies ahead...

As an incel, your life is a disappointment.

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self improvement isn't going to help you. back in the school days i lost a lot of wieght and it didn't change a  thing. 

as of now im working on social skills and started doing things like reading books. of course it wont help either. im just hoping it'll at least get me out of hourly work one of these days. 

SOcial skils is a joke. If she doesn't like you theyr are pointless.

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I met a 25 year old virgin once on a German FA board and he managed to get a 10 years older mostly asexual 3/10 women to become his girlfriend. First he tried to be persistent, then he tried using logic and it worked eventually. They sat together and discussed what was the right thing to do, how they had to ignore their lacking chemistry and attraction and that the whole concept of love was just the cope of a self-aware animal trying desperately to escape the existential arbitrarity of the world and our moral categories. Can you imagine something more depressing than this talk and something less fulfilling than the following relationship. They are still together though.

Chemistry means she doesn't like your LOOKS. Did he fuck her?

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i actually didnt look at Maslow's hieararchy in that way, it actually makes perfect sense now. indeed, i know a chad who is jobless for years and he still smashes chicks left and right, and great notice about the fact that they dont give shit a bout ur attempts, if they see ur hard tries its over for you, she alrdy laughs at ur pathetic copes eg manlet tryin to compensate with big muscles

also this should be repeated that its enough for human beings to identify the persons characteristics in their subconscious in the first 1-2 seconds of meeting them, so again, personality, job, hobbies and all other shit is out of the window, it only plays a role in ltr

decision wether ull be fucked or not by a girl is made right there and then when she sees ur genetics

ldar time

Maslow's hierarchy of needs goes both ways. One can understand that sex is needed to advance in life but also accomplishments are not related to sex since sex comes before those.

 

[modus_coperandi]

Chemistry means she doesn't like your LOOKS. Did he fuck her?

Yeah, occasionally but it was always a completely rational decision (like the relationship they had in general) because he openly communicated that he had urges. She said she has always been asexual, but it may as well mean that she was just never able to attract Chad. The lacking attraction was mutual though, he didn't like her looks either because she was 10 years older and already looked like his aunt.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Yeah, occasionally but it was always a completely rational decision (like the relationship they had in general) because he openly communicated that he had urges. She said she has always been asexual, but it may as well mean that she was just never able to attract Chad. The lacking attraction was mutual though, he didn't like her looks either because she was 10 years older and already looked like his aunt.

If he got a boner he liked her looks obviously.

 

[modus_coperandi]

If he got a boner he liked her looks obviously.

Maybe he just closed his eyes and imagined Mila Kunis. Idk we didn't talk about the fucking in detail.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Maybe he just closed his eyes and imagined Mila Kunis. Idk we didn't talk about the fucking in detail.

But tha's all that matters.

 

[Minjaze]

Agreed.

If a girl doesn't find you attractive the moment she looks at you, nothing is going to magically change her opinion just because you did this or that. This isn't some rom-com, this is real life.

 

[thirsit]

Do you think a girl looks at her bf and thinks: "Oh, he tried so hard to get me. My pussy will be always be wet for this try hard guy."? Women do not consider themselves as trophies to be claimed. They are not going to fuck the guy who puts effort in shit like lifting, studying, hobbies, working etc. They will fuck the guy they like. In other words, they care about GENETICS.

It makes more sense the more I think about it. All guys I see with girls are not lifting and generally do not have any talents yet women like them. Why? Becuase sexual relationships are not supposed to be hard to get. They are placed BENEATH accomplishments in Maslow's hieararchy of needs and there is a good reason for that. Sex is somehting you get for being a human AKA having good genes. Putting effort into your life will NOT get you laid.

Women are incapable of appreaciating effort. They get everything handed to them just because they have a pussy. Do you think a girl will think "OMG he just benched 6 plates. What a man. My pussy is so wet."? Hell no.

Effort is COPE. It has nothing to do with getting laid. Sex is all about GENETICS. Humans are animals after alll. Stuff like confidence, talents, education do NOT matter. When it comes to sex, women revert to their primitive state where they will judg you SOLELY on your genes. Your effort is IRRELEVANT.

True words.

I cringe so hard when I remember back at my old times when I tried to strike girls in my class. 
There is just no way an incel can go beyond the friend zone. Period.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Agreed.

If a girl doesn't find you attractive the moment she looks at you, nothing is going to magically change her opinion just because you did this or that. This isn't some rom-com, this is real life.

Exactly. If she finds you ugly she will be negatively biased towards anythihg you do.

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True words.

I cringe so hard when I remember back at my old times when I tried to strike girls in my class. 
There is just no way an incel can go beyond the friend zone. Period.

And friendzone is as good as nothing tbh.

 

[Minjaze]

Exactly. If she finds you ugly she will be negatively biased towards anythihg you do.

Even psychology agrees with us.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect

 

[Deleted member 306]

Even psychology agrees with us.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect

Sorry man. I'm sorry that it has to be this way.

 

[Minjaze]

Sorry man. I'm sorry that it has to be this way.

Same here man, nobody deserves to live like this.
In a different life, we could have been happy and full of love. Sad that things turned out this way for all of us.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Same here man, nobody deserves to live like this.
In a different life, we could have been happy and full of love. Sad that things turned out this way for all of us.

It's just sad that there is nothing we can do about it. Maybe in the nenxt life, if there is one.

 

[Minjaze]

It's just sad that there is nothing we can do about it. Maybe in the nenxt life, if there is one.

Yeah, I think the helplessness that comes with it is one of the most agonizing feelings out there. I mean... Everything we've tried has resulted in failure. Years go by and all we can do is add more milestones that we've missed out on.

I seriously hope so, I long to reincarnate as some Chad and start things over.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Yeah, I think the helplessness that comes with it is one of the most agonizing feelings out there. I mean... Everything we've tried has resulted in failure. Years go by and all we can do is add more milestones that we've missed out on.

I seriously hope so, I long to reincarnate as some Chad and start things over.

And remember, the more we rot the more people live. My mother told me that it saddens her that eveyrone else develops while I rot and even regress at times.

 

[Grotesque]

Persistence will be the fastest shortcut to a jail cell for an incel. Jailcels on suicide watch.

Reminder from a living example of this.

 

[Tension]

It all boils down to genetics.

You know how you'll sometimes see hot chicks with their arms wrapped around these huge, brutal, criminal-looking Chads? I can't believe women genuinely feel attracted to someone who could probably easily abuse, or even kill them if things didn't go their way.

It doesn't matter who the Chad is, or how much time they have done in prison; as long as they look "competent to procreate with", women don't care. They need someone "strong" and "outgoing" to look after them and their young, just like it has always been. If you've not a man like that you stand no chance. Women's expectations are way, way too high.

It's things like this that make me want to give up on everything.

 

[mylifeistrash]

This is actually a really good post.

Hard work implies shitty genetics.

No one likes people who work hard, subconsciously at least.