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Foids want chad for validation, not because of attraction to him

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@St3v3Cel made an insightful comment here that people are narcissists and want relationships for validation. This made me realize:

Foids don't actually feel physical attraction to chad. They want him because they think the world operates this way, that the more attractive your partner is, the prettier you must be. So they see him as a trophy to be won. They want chad for validation and bragging only.

What do you think?
 
From the same genius behind:

Do foids not want us because we are ugly or are we considered ugly after foids don't want us? Which comes first?

Your backwards reasoning is amusing, almost on par with bluepillers.
 
I kindly disagree
 
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From the same genius behind:

Do foids not want us because we are ugly or are we considered ugly after foids don't want us? Which comes first?

Your backwards reasoning is amusing, almost on par with bluepillers.
 
They want chad for validation and bragging only.
No, they want to be fucked by Chad only too.

Chad will never end up in a dead bedroom.
 
They dream of all the Chads they fucked and sucked, even years later since they (the Chads) dumped them (the foids). A Chad doesn't settle for anyone, because he knows AWALT. He gets his dick wet via FWBs.
 
This ignores the fact that females are infact extremely sexual. Most men assume they aren't because they don't experience it, but that's only because you aren't Chad. They suck chads dick, get gang banged, let him abuse her, exc all cause she's horny. Really simple stuff. There's no reason to believe females have less sexual desires then males, in fact they have many more but only for Chads.
 
You are half-right. Women do feel physical attraction to Chads and pleasure from sex. But the physical is only 1/10th of the pleasure they can feel and seek in sex from men. This is a chapter from an old online book from the redpill days, it will explain this in more detail:
There is also a thread here by @GeckoBus. It is an in depth examination of the female mind, and the first thing he brings up is their narcissism. Here it is, it is very much worth a read:
Foids, Chads and neurotypicals do not feel or seek love for or from others, all they seek is love for themselves and pitiful as they are they come up empty each time. The point I was making to you in the other thread was more about how true love itself, whether romantic or platonic cannot exist due to the limitations in communication and understanding between people. Love as we know it is an absurd, unnecessary, detrimental, schizophrenic and neurodivergent idea that plagues the lives of conscious people. Belief in and longing for love is a mental illness which brings suffering.
 
This is the same borderline bluepilled reasoning they use on that lesbianpill subcuckit. If this was the case, why do women have casual sex with attractive men? Why do they thirst in the comments sections of random prettyboys on their tiktok fyp? Why does female-on-male rape exist at all (let alone in the surprising frequency that it occurs)?

You’ve probably only read dating app data and threads on this forum, but not seen the BP play out irl much
 
This is the same borderline bluepilled reasoning they use on that lesbianpill subcuckit. If this was the case, why do women have casual sex with attractive men? Why do they thirst in the comments sections of random prettyboys on their tiktok fyp? Why does female-on-male rape exist at all (let alone in the surprising frequency that it occurs)?

You’ve probably only read dating app data and threads on this forum, but not seen the BP play out irl much
Yeah I have very little interaction with the real world, began isolating myself from sexhavers aka the real world in my 20s. Don't women do those things in hopes of showing their friends they fucked a chad?

You are half-right. Women do feel physical attraction to Chads and pleasure from sex. But the physical is only 1/10th of the pleasure they can feel and seek in sex from men. This is a chapter from an old online book from the redpill days, it will explain this in more detail:
There is also a thread here by @GeckoBus. It is an in depth examination of the female mind, and the first thing he brings up is their narcissism. Here it is, it is very much worth a read:
Foids, Chads and neurotypicals do not feel or seek love for or from others, all they seek is love for themselves and pitiful as they are they come up empty each time. The point I was making to you in the other thread was more about how true love itself, whether romantic or platonic cannot exist due to the limitations in communication and understanding between people. Love as we know it is an absurd, unnecessary, detrimental, schizophrenic and neurodivergent idea that plagues the lives of conscious people. Belief in and longing for love is a mental illness which brings suffering.
Thanks, I'll read and get back to you!
 
Yeah I have very little interaction with the real world, began isolating myself from sexhavers aka the real world in my 20s. Don't women do those things in hopes of showing their friends they fucked a chad?
No cause women still enforce the societal stigma of “slut-shaming.” Not to each other’s faces obv (hence the whole acceptance movement) but behind their backs. This is why on “how many sexual partners have you had” and similar surveys, women always underreport (unlike men who overreport)
 
I do believe this is the case. Women don't really have much of a libido at all, and they don't lust male bodies. Vast majority of 'heterosexual' women watch lesbian porn anyway.Their attraction towards men isn't as instinctual as mens attraction towards women. Men can look at an attractive women, and feel an instant spark. Women don't really feel this way about men.

Women will rationalize which men are attractive and which are not, either through his looks (looks are status), his status, his income, social cues of status etc.

If associating with him brings her validation, status or other things, she will want to have sex with him and date him.

This is also why women are obsessed with height, as in, 6 feet tall men, because that by itself is a marker of status. If a woman believes that other women are attracted to tall men, then she also wants a tall man. Same thing with six figures.

Women don't see men as human beings. More as human doings, and status objects. If associating with you doesn't bring her some sort of validation or status, she will not do it.
 
I do believe this is the case. Women don't really have much of a libido at all, and they don't lust male bodies. Vast majority of 'heterosexual' women watch lesbian porn anyway.Their attraction towards men isn't as instinctual as mens attraction towards women. Men can look at an attractive women, and feel an instant spark. Women don't really feel this way about men.

Women will rationalize which men are attractive and which are not, either through his looks (looks are status), his status, his income, social cues of status etc.

If associating with him brings her validation, status or other things, she will want to have sex with him and date him.

This is also why women are obsessed with height, as in, 6 feet tall men, because that by itself is a marker of status. If a woman believes that other women are attracted to tall men, then she also wants a tall man. Same thing with six figures.

Women don't see men as human beings. More as human doings, and status objects. If associating with you doesn't bring her some sort of validation or status, she will not do it.
This is spot on
 
I disagree the way foids talk about sex with chad clearly shows they are attracted to him.
 
No, I wouldn't agree. There seems to be a genuine monolithic lust for chad.
 
Foids want chads for both attraction and status.

But status is the main reason. Good looks , tall height , money , fame = status.

Foids are the ones who see men as objects , trophies , tools . Men actually see women as human beings.
 
I've pondered if females like the physical act of sex whatsoever.

It may be entirely the power and social status they know their sexuality brings. Do they actually lust for Chad, or is it because females know they need to be his cumslut to win him over?

But, if that's true, you'd assume tradcon wives would be more than just a meme. There's many men, including Chads, who strongly desire that loyal loving tradwife but can't have one.

Or, is it as simple as everyone just wants to fuck and nothing else matters. I lean towards that.
 
I've pondered if females like the physical act of sex whatsoever.

It may be entirely the power and social status they know their sexuality brings. Do they actually lust for Chad, or is it because females know they need to be his cumslut to win him over?

But, if that's true, you'd assume tradcon wives would be more than just a meme. There's many men, including Chads, who strongly desire that loyal loving tradwife but can't have one.

Or, is it as simple as everyone just wants to fuck and nothing else matters. I lean towards that.
I think also foids are too lazy to do anything so that's why they are not tradcon even though that would be to their benefit in manipulating men into giving them more more more more more
 

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