Hypocrisy Foids try to push the narrative that autistic men are coddled.

[WeirdPanda]

Certainly this is the narrative they try to push to justify their disgust with non-NT behaviors in males, such as lack of warmth, weak emotional mirroring, obsessive interests. But I can affirm that autistic males are not coddled. Instead, I'm inclined to say that autistic men are extremely neglected (unlike women, or autistic women in general). Here is why:

Males in general are expected to be the superior gender. Women aren't. Men are expected to be "able" to do everything. Women are not.

This correlates with men having to adapt well, pull themselves up by the bootstraps, "manning up". Women do not have to do any of that--instead, they receive extra forgiveness from society for their mistakes unlike autistic men--we are the ones who are traditionally supposed to be breadwinners, who are supposed to spread our genes, fight the wars and be in charge of politics and countries. If you can't do any of that as a man then you're basically worthless. Autistic men tend to be less stoic than most other men and often have emotional issues that may or may not be treatable. We also have rejection sensitive dysphoria (also noticed in ADHD), something that is more acceptable in women than in men. This neglect affects other stuff as well, such as: not being able to achieve certain developmental milestones, not being taught general skills, social skills, etc.

From this, one can see why we tend to develop more egocentric tendencies than average. It all comes from the lack of support for our autism (in early diagnosed, traits tend to persist. In late diagnosed, you learn to hide them/become more passive yet still retain it). Prejudice against us is basically ableism, pronto. There is no justifying it but they do everything in their power to twist it. I personally think it's associated with the "white straight male bad" thought many of these people tend to have--even though I'm not white myself--I still believe they associate autism (specifically aspergers) with it. If all goes well, in the next coming years society should come to the realization that autistic people/autistic traits are heavily opressed/judged negatively in our society.

The word "coddled" unironically suits autistic women much more than autistic men. Autistic women do not have to worry about being neglected for autism like autistic men do.

 

[blackpillednigga]

foids hate men that don't fit the hypermasculine image. meanwhile foids can be as imperfect as they want and still never face loneliness or bullying

 

[Zaraj11]

If all goes well, in the next coming years society should come to the realization that autistic people/autistic traits are heavily opressed/judged negatively in our society.

There is no chance for this

 

[Zaraj11]

If you can't do any of that as a man then you're basically worthless

Women are human beings, men are human doings

 

[VeryNiceGuy]

Modern understanding of autism is just a jew psyop to better control the population and make the west even more feminized. Now they call every quirky and weird foid autistic or neurodivergent and gave her medical licenses to be absent at work. Woman identifying as autist in the workplace gives them an even better victimization card, meanwhile they are fuckin chad and making drama 24/7, pushing real autistic men out of jobs

 

[WeirdPanda]

Modern understanding of autism is just a jew psyop to better control the population and make the west even more feminized. Now they call every quirky and weird foid autistic or neurodivergent and gave her medical licenses to be absent at work. Woman identifying as autist in the workplace gives them an even better victimization card

To be honest I really don't know about this because the criteria for being diagnosed with autism is pretty strict.

 

[VeryNiceGuy]

To be honest I really don't know about this because the criteria for being diagnosed with autism is pretty strict.

In my country no one is diagnosed as autist anymore but instead they are called TEAs (trastorno del espectro autista) so they can encompass a broad population on the diagnosis so psychiatrists and psychologists (whose majority are woman) get more money but also push woman dominated spaces into workplaces

 

[WeirdPanda]

In ny country no one is diagnosed as autist anymore but instead they are called TEAs (trastorno del espectro autista) so they can encompass a broad population on the diagnosis so psychiatrists and psychologists (whose majority are woman) get more money but also push woman dominated spaces into workplaces

Same in mine. But TEA is basically just the autism spectrum in latino countries, that's basically everywhere now. And honestly I wonder if the criteria is even pretty strict anyways because I see these soy autism neck straps which are basically just virtue signaling and do nothing to help autism at all. I think this is neglect under a facade of support, honestly. Meanwhile autism is covered as this "oh no, really bad disorder with impairments". I honestly think aspies over here are even more discriminated against because of the insane amount of infantilization there is of the disorder.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Certainly this is the narrative they try to push to justify their disgust with non-NT behaviors in males, such as lack of warmth, weak emotional mirroring, obsessive interests.

I would have more respect for them if they just flat-out said that they think autistic behavior is unattractive. But unsurprisingly, they're trying to make us out to be petulant and spoiled. Autistic men aren't cruel. Our faux pas are born out of naivety and inborn social deficits, not malicious intent. Social blunders and odd mannerisms are part and parcel of having a social disability. Most of us do our best (our safety largely depends on it). But we are still very limited by the nature of our condition.

What do they expect out of us? We will never be NT. And many of us will never be able to mask due to the extent of our disabilities. In most of these rants, these women are essentially just hating on autistic men for the way they are born. It's shocking how nobody calls out this ableism. Coddled my ass. The world hates autistic men.