As men we have 0 intrinsic value, as low status men we have -100 intrinsic value. In the wild competition of nature the female has already won while we have to prove our value constantly. Foids test us continuously. They don't care about having careers, they don't care about politics nor do they have honest genuine ideals. This is MALE stuff. The only way we can deeply making them happy is giving them males who can control and DOMINATE or LEAD them, even using strenght to control them. They will cry and bitch at the beginning but deep down we just passed the turing test in this way, they know that, they will see us as reliable alpha and leaders and in the long run they will secretly respect and love us if we behave this way (something like the ancient greece in Athens).
