I had the exact same thing, when I told a toilet friend of mine that I was going to buy lift shoes and asked for her advice I would look better in 3 inch or 6 inch ones she said "Oh, aren't you 2 meters already" and "you look 2 meter", I think that she was just virtue signaling over the fact that I'm so insecure about being only 6'2 and always feeling too short around ⅕~½ of other men.
Her boyfriend is average height though, but he's a Chad. The only ugly men I see with female companions are at least 6'5. 3 inch heels would give me the absolute bare minimum to compete, but I wouldn't even know where to find a toilet to ask out.
Toilets always say that they want something but they're willing to compromise if he's a Chad or at least a Chadlite, "he has to be tall" but she perceives her 5'8 Chad boyfriend as "spiritually taller" than a 6'4 incel, because the latter is invisible to her.