Theory Foids are the filter feeders of dating market

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While men are scavengers who eat rotten corpses ifmthey are lucky to find them at all

 

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Yes and nature documentaries is extremely brutal. Were you see male birds sings and show off their beautiful colors to compete while a grey boring looking female get to choose. Or when you see male animals have to fight to the death for the right to reproduce.
Females choose and males have to compete.