Foid co-worker keeps calling me gay, what do I do?

[Esoteric7]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

 

[FuckYou]

Ignore her.
Or just lie and say you have a girlfriend.

 

[cathuluelitist]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

Report her to HR or smth.

I came up with an inseminal theory on why women are like this

https://incels.is/threads/empathic-asymmetry.852085/

 

[cathuluelitist]

Report her to HR or smth.

I came up with an inseminal theory on why women are like this

https://incels.is/threads/empathic-asymmetry.852085/

Then just lie and say she made racist and homophobic comments

 

[Esoteric7]

Then just lie and say she made racist and homophobic comments

 

[VanGobbel]

hell on earth, you just living it. I would have gone ER on her ngl

 

[RealSchizo]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

oh y know wha to do

 

[Dr. Butane]

I think she just wants dick. She obviously has penis envy too but it's weird that she's hellbent on you.

 

[Caichan]

You have bad mannerisms

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship.

This is the reason.

As if being a foid wasn't enough, she's a lesbian on top of that that's why she has the intelligence of a monkey.

 

[fokusin]

Just lie and say you have a girlfriend.

 

[Usopp-sama]

She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

Isn't that against the policy of your job?
But anyways yeah reporting her wont do anything, rules and laws aren't fair, they only apply to unattractive men not to women or attractive men.
You're probably screwed, ig. Idk. I'm a proud neet, never had to deal with those problems.

 

[ihatelife2]

Sorry this is happening to you. Extremely disrespectful

 

[Izayacel]

Ignore her.
Or just lie and say you have a girlfriend.

 

[Izayacel]

Ignore her.
Or just lie and say you have a girlfriend.

nice pfp . More man need to become Hostile towards Dipshit behvior .

 

[Pancakecel]

She'll probably leave you alone, now that you've ignored her chat, and purposely avoided her. Unless she is really retarded, she'll get the message.

 

[CocaColaCel]

call her a mtf

 

[Mango]

call her a mtf

 

[Lonly ghost]

Call her a homophobic hypocrite.

She is lgbt herself and yet she calls you gay to insult you .

She also does not respect your consent and boundaries, she calls you gay even though you clearly said that you are straight. She is a bad person.

You can also just lie to her that you have a girlfriend.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Report her to the police, fill an anonymous complaint and say that you overheard something about her having CP at home.

If it's a dyke it might seem realistic.

 

[grimlockcel]

Get her in trouble by reporting it, and put up a good act as if it truly hurt you

 

[ANTAGONIST]

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

You should say it next time. Make her npc cattlebrain get conflicted. Accuse her of being a bigot.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

No, it's worse according to them. Islam doesn't condemn pedophilia, but it does condemn faggotry.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

Fun read. But it sounds hard to deal with, sorry bro. My best advice is probably to just try to stay as professional and non-confrontative as possible, prioritize keeping the job. Best of luck, brocel.

 

[Fatbaldingcel]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

Tales from basement
But seriously report to HR

 

[TooSomething]

Isn't it kinda sexual harassment to get into someone's private life like that and be so persistent about it?

I don't know, but this goes too far. It is none of her business no matter what.

You should tell her that it is none of her business, respectfully and firmly.

If she continues, you should report her to HR for bothering with questions about your intimate life and make sure to have witnesses for that.
I mean, in the worst case scenario you could have some health issue which makes sex in general impossible, so her questions are, naturally, hurtful and irritating.

Just act in the most correct woke way in front of HR and they will at least give her a warning.

 

[Esoteric7]

Isn't that against the policy of your job?

It is, and I've told her but she keeps trying to talk about those topics

Fun read. But it sounds hard to deal with, sorry bro. My best advice is probably to just try to stay as professional and non-confrontative as possible, prioritize keeping the job. Best of luck, brocel.

Isn't it kinda sexual harassment to get into someone's private life like that and be so persistent about it?

Good point. Could be considered sexual harassment as she's insinuating I engage in sexual practices that I find disturbing

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

Offer to impregnate her to prove you're straight

 

[Karlicel]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

Honestly appearing gay mogs appearing incel.
At least she wont be hostile to you.
Its just work so you dont need to care about it after wards.
But i can tell you from expierence. Better to have them be friendly to you then hostlie.

 

[Esoteric7]

Offer to impregnate her to prove you're straight

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

It's a win-win.

She, a lesbian, gets to have a baby.

You, an incel, get to continue your bloodline.

Tbh if I was in charge, sperm banks would ONLY stock incel seed but that's another story.

 

[SpookySpook]

Report her to HR or smth

HR is not your friend, especially as an ugly man

 

[The Wolf]

Honestly appearing gay mogs appearing incel.
At least she wont be hostile to you.
Its just work so you dont need to care about it after wards.
But i can tell you from expierence. Better to have them be friendly to you then hostlie.

True.

 

[Simba]

Ignore her.

 

[RXblackpill]

Use the foid’s own weapons against them. She’s getting too invested in your sex life, and that’s sexual harassment.

You win

 

[RXblackpill]

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship.

She eats so much carpet that if she broke up with her lesbo girlfriend, Home Depot’s stock price would go down 15%

 

[Esoteric7]

She eats so much carpet that if she broke up with her lesbo girlfriend, Home Depot’s stock price would go down 15%

 

[andrej]

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

She's being illogical on purpose to provoke you

 

[introvertloner]

tell how much you like far right wingers like facists and hitler

 

[Extern]

She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer.

Why would you decline the question instead of just saying no hahaha no wonder man

 

[Ricecel Sungnodius]

Isn't it kinda sexual harassment to get into someone's private life like that and be so persistent about it?

Yes. I'd agree with you.

 

[Last2025cel]

> Foid co-worker keeps calling me gay
> She's [...] in a lesbian relationship.

A tale as old as time

 

[Emba]

It's a win-win.

She, a lesbian, gets to have a baby.

You, an incel, get to continue your bloodline.

Tbh if I was in charge, sperm banks would ONLY stock incel seed but that's another story.

 

[iJuggFoids]

I've found it common that multiple foids find sexual arousal in seeing homosexual activities, especialy degen dykes and troons who are constantly in that circle.

Just ignore it or if you are feeling brave make it feel self conscious about it's weight

 

[BasedStalin]

1) report her to HR for both sexual harrassment and racism as other brocels said
2) after a couple of days, start flexing your delicious lunchbox with a note on it that says: "memo: -your name-, you can enjoy me because you are not a fat bastard" and if "somebody" says something, you can tell it's a therapy a mental coach gave you to prevent eating disorders.

 

[Freixel]

It's unbelievable how women are allowed to be creeps and have sick behaviors without anyone doing anything or seeing anything wrong with it. Privileged sex.

 

[AutismHaver]

ask if she's compensating for being a femcel

 

[fatass30000]

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

i have thought about this very often. The reason why women feel so comfortable disrespecting us is because they don’t have the fear of physical violence. The way these women talk to men, i have never seen with a man talking to another man like that. We understand that if we talk to another man like that, it might result in us fighting and so we watch our words.
I was close to whooping my female coworkers ass last year due to how much she was disrespecting me and i would had straight up done if it was a man. I just imagined whooping her husbands ass at this point

 

[Filks2007]

IDK, report her for bullying or just annihilate her

 

[no love found]

Brutal. I try to emphasize religion when people assume I’m gay.

But honestly, sometimes you can’t stop these normie weirdos

 

[Risky2Risky]

This mayo foid keeps talking to me at work.

No, I don't find her attractive.

She's very fat and in a lesbian relationship. She even has fat-people mannerisms.

Whenever she makes conversation with me, it starts off well, but then devolves into trying to get a reaction out of me by associating me with being gay.

I think she does this because based off my skin complexion she knows I'm against degenerate liberal values, like LGBT and abortion.

Examples:

• She once asked if I have a girlfriend. I declined to answer. She then asked if I have a boyfriend.
• She asked me another question once, but I didn't want to answer, out of spite she started saying, "I think you're in the closet".
• She said she will be attending a LGBT parade, and that I should attend and support her.
• The creepiest and enraging thing she said was, "I have tons of gay male friends. You should hang out with them after work. Maybe they'll convince/turn you, tee-hee".

Fucking disgusting bitch.

So far, I have been non-reactive.

According to her, being gay is completely normal and okay. If that's the case, why is she using homosexuality to shame, insult, and enrage me? I thought according to her there's nothing wrong with being gay?

I strongly believe that the main way foids insult a man is by emasculating him: small pp, short height, being called gay, etc.

As I'm from a very conservative and Islamic background, calling me gay is as bad as calling me a pedo.

If this was a man calling me gay, I'd be very direct and tell him to stfu and ask him for a fight outside.

But it's a foid, so I'm not sure how to proceed. If I say something to her, all the simps will go feral. If I tell her manager, how do I not know that they'll all side with her and note that I'm problematic?

The other issues with her is:

• She is exhausting to speak to: she keeps trauma-dumping on me, telling me about all the horrible things that have ever happened to her. I never ask about this and it is emotionally exhausting to listen to all of that.
• She's difficult to speak to: she's very passive aggressive. She keeps chastising me over the slightest of things.
• She's risky to speak to: she keeps asking me questions about politics, religion and sexuality in the workplace.

I have been ignoring her since and working isolated in another area of the building. She messaged me on the work laptop asking where am I these days. I left her on read.

Ik it’s lame asf and annoying but HR and pull the Muslim card and say sum shit abt how it’s offensive aka abuse the wokeness in life