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Theory Empathic asymmetry

cathuluelitist

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Empathic asymmetry is a word I coined with a friend of mines which is basically the antithesis to male vitality and vigor and the most primal form of feminism. Empathetic asymmetry for example, would be when a girl would make an empathetic appeal to a violent rapist because the empathic asymmetric woman cannot recognize objective evil because they are driven by situational immediate empathy than abstract principles or any dogma, this makes women inherently borderline psychopathic and is the reason why women today are so superficial (they lack the ability to systemize any intellectual construction.) This psychotic level of dissimulation among women is mainly because of a mating strategy they developed where they submitted to a man with the most resources and did not have a sense of justice therefore adopting this simian diablerie to justify their bia towards men of high sexual worth.
And in a future institutional hostile take over, by the Jacobin vigor to overturn woman suffrage, use the slogan:

"Sovereign law over sovereign feeling"




Anyway, I'm working on a thread that goes much deeper into this.
 
Empathic asymmetry is a word I coined with a friend of mines which is basically the antithesis to male vitality and vigor and the most primal form of feminism. Empathetic asymmetry for example, would be when a girl would make an empathetic appeal to a violent rapist because the empathic asymmetric woman cannot recognize objective evil because they are driven by situational immediate empathy than abstract principles or any dogma, this makes women inherently borderline psychopathic and is the reason why women today are so superficial (they lack the ability to systemize any intellectual construction.) This psychotic level of dissimulation among women is mainly because of a mating strategy they developed where they submitted to a man with the most resources and did not have a sense of justice therefore adopting this simian diablerie to justify their bia towards men of high sexual worth.
And in a future institutional hostile take over, by the Jacobin vigor to overturn woman suffrage, use the slogan:

"Sovereign law over sovereign feeling"




Anyway, I'm working on a thread that goes much deeper into this.
do you think women are this way because invaders killed loyal foids or those who weren't shallow? Maybe there were good foids before or is this their nature by default embedded in their tabula rasa (was this concept from Hume? I think it was)
 
This psychotic level of dissimulation among women is mainly because of a mating strategy they developed
Wouldn't that imply that there was a time when foids didn't have this strategy?
 
I believe what you are saying is most women have superficial "empathy" for the people immediately around them in a way that is contradictory. Like for instance they will just agree with the person standing right in front of them (or fake agree) without any sort of principled stand but if they came across another person an hour later who had the complete opposite view they would agree with that too because they don't really have any fixed beliefs they have to defend
 
High iq thread
 
do you think women are this way because invaders killed loyal foids or those who weren't shallow? Maybe there were good foids before or is this their nature by default embedded in their tabula rasa (was this concept from Hume? I think it was)
I assume it just evolved as a mating strategy over time during the Holocene era because when a conquering force arrived, the women who possessed chameleon traits and used empathy as a defense mechanism to manipulate the new power structure were the ones who ended up surviving and passing on their genes and it just developed as a trait.
 
Empathic asymmetry is a word I coined with a friend of mines which is basically the antithesis to male vitality and vigor and the most primal form of feminism. Empathetic asymmetry for example, would be when a girl would make an empathetic appeal to a violent rapist because the empathic asymmetric woman cannot recognize objective evil because they are driven by situational immediate empathy than abstract principles or any dogma, this makes women inherently borderline psychopathic and is the reason why women today are so superficial (they lack the ability to systemize any intellectual construction.) This psychotic level of dissimulation among women is mainly because of a mating strategy they developed where they submitted to a man with the most resources and did not have a sense of justice therefore adopting this simian diablerie to justify their bia towards men of high sexual worth.
And in a future institutional hostile take over, by the Jacobin vigor to overturn woman suffrage, use the slogan:

"Sovereign law over sovereign feeling"




Anyway, I'm working on a thread that goes much deeper into this.
All that can be summarized in one word
hybristophilia
 
Wouldn't that imply that there was a time when foids didn't have this strategy?
Yeah, I hypothesize it developed during the Holocene era, which birthed private property.
 
All that can be summarized in one word
hybristophilia
It manifest like that, yeah. When your tribe is being invaded, the Alpha you have to appeal to is the man who is gonna be the most aggressive.
 
I believe what you are saying is most women have superficial "empathy" for the people immediately around them in a way that is contradictory. Like for instance they will just agree with the person standing right in front of them (or fake agree) without any sort of principled stand but if they came across another person an hour later who had the complete opposite view they would agree with that too because they don't really have any fixed beliefs they have to defend
The female brain evolved to measure power potential and how they can control those power structures is basically what I posit here and women have always been optimized for manipulation because of their status in society but when societies crossed the dunbar’s number (150 is the max for genuine societal transparency) and moved into the city-state era, you gained the ability to be a social parasite without the immediate risk of being ostracized by the whole group so it led to this extreme Darwinian selection for machiavellianism, especially in the fertile crescent and Mediterranean which is why modern Hispanic women are so twisted.
 
do you think women are this way because invaders killed loyal foids or those who weren't shallow? Maybe there were good foids before or is this their nature by default embedded in their tabula rasa (was this concept from Hume? I think it was)
It's just standard hybristophilia. Foids are evolutionarily inclined to offer their empathy to males who display the highest likelihood of safeguarding the progeny, basically alpha males. We also see this in how foids naturally gravitate towards dark triad anti-heroes in fiction and try to justify their wrongdoings by appealing to "tragic backstory" or "emotional complexity" or other buzzwords.

As for tabula rasa, I'm pretty sure that doesn't have anything to do with this topic, and it came from Locke, not Hume.
 
Thoughts on my thread @Ryo_Hazuki @four1298
 
It's just standard hybristophilia. Foids are evolutionarily inclined to offer their empathy to males who display the highest likelihood of safeguarding the progeny, basically alpha males. We also see this in how foids naturally gravitate towards dark triad anti-heroes in fiction and try to justify their wrongdoings by appealing to "tragic backstory" or "emotional complexity" or other buzzwords.

As for tabula rasa, I'm pretty sure that doesn't have anything to do with this topic, and it came from Locke, not Hume.
I think we forget that some men are hybristophiles. I am one anyways. I wouldn't mind having an incarcerated wife.(Just to be clear I'm saying "I want" and not "I can.") There's websites of incarcerated women who want to be penpals. Some men who write to them may want a wife.
 
I think we forget that some men are hybristophiles. I am one anyways. I wouldn't mind having an incarcerated wife.(Just to be clear I'm saying "I want" and not "I can.") There's websites of incarcerated women who want to be penpals. Some men who write to them may want a wife.
Women take this to the absolute extreme. What man wants a murderer for a wife? I've yet to find one.
 
Women take this to the absolute extreme. What man wants a murderer for a wife? I've yet to find one.
I made a poll about this:

 
I made a poll about this:

It wouldn't be hybristophilia though because the fixation is sex not the fact she's a criminal.
 
It wouldn't be hybristophilia though because the fixation is sex not the fact she's a criminal.
I think at least some supposed female hybristophiles are just attracted to the fame of the man and may even think he's actually innocent. I don't know though. Even if women are hybristophiles I think that's good. However Google says hybristophilia was coined by John Money who started a transgender clinic, so is it possible there's something gay about this concept?

 
I think at least some supposed female hybristophiles are just attracted to the fame of the man and may even think he's actually innocent. I don't know though. Even if women are hybristophiles I think that's good. However Google says hybristophilia was coined by John Money who started a transgender clinic, so is it possible there's something gay about this concept?

I don't think it's just the fame since women have sex with and choose low class thugs, rapist and just criminals over good men all the time.
 
I don't think it's just the fame since women have sex with and choose low class thugs, rapist and just criminals over good men all the time.
Many incels think rape should be legal, so hybristophilia is good. Source:


I don't think women are hybristophiles because women are gold diggers. Criminals in prison are usually unemployed and when they're freed they struggle to get work because of criminal background checks.
 
Many incels think rape should be legal, so hybristophilia is good. Source:


I don't think women are hybristophiles because women are gold diggers. Criminals in prison are usually unemployed and when they're freed they struggle to get work because of criminal background checks.
Criminals usually make a quite a bit, it's just that their income is volatile.
 
Think I touched on something similar a while back:

I made one mistake albeit. I attributed women’s disloyalty to men as likely having been evolved due to the slavery-to-concubinage pipeline, but that’s actually not the case. Rather, we have a multitude of evidence from various prehistoric populations that women were automatically assimilated into conquering tribes, while men were usually just killed immediately
 
Think I touched on something similar a while back:

I made one mistake albeit. I attributed women’s disloyalty to men as likely having been evolved due to the slavery-to-concubinage pipeline, but that’s actually not the case. Rather, we have a multitude of evidence from various prehistoric populations that women were automatically assimilated into conquering tribes, while men were usually just killed immediately
Good thread. I think the solution to this, is to build our own internal Tulpa to aggregate enough willpower to completely cosign women to meatbags.
 
Are you discussing selective empathy?
 
No. Foids just have deliberately fickle empathy.
But don’t we all? Even on incel communities our favourite mass shooter is the closeted homosexual twink ER who had a girl literally lusting over him that he ignored because she wasn’t a Stacy while very few of us remember AM.


I think everybody has selective and fickle empathy- my empathy for Jamie Griffiths (a middle class 19 year old university student wrongly convicted of sexual assault because he greeted a slut) is greater than my empathy for Joshua Sanford (a 32 year old of no fixed abode who smashed a church window).
 
But don’t we all? Even on incel communities our favourite mass shooter is the closeted homosexual twink ER who had a girl literally lusting over him that he ignored because she wasn’t a Stacy while very few of us remember AM.


I think everybody has selective and fickle empathy- my empathy for Jamie Griffiths (a middle class 19 year old university student wrongly convicted of sexual assault because he greeted a slut) is greater than my empathy for Joshua Sanford (a 32 year old of no fixed abode who smashed a church window).
Selective empathy, yeah, not fickle empathy.
 
All that can be summarized in one word
hybristophilia
Not necessarily. The etymology of the word "hybristophilia" (specifically the -philia suffix) means "denoting fondness, especially an abnormal love for a specified thing". I'm pretty sure the example OP gave was just an analogy to describe how women have a propensity to prioritize empathy over (using OP's term) intellectual construction. Jeffrey Dahmer wasn't a paragon of virility by any means. Hell, even Nikolas Cruz allegedly receives love letters from hybristophiliacs in prison, but I doubt women would ever have sex with him (or Dahmer, back when he was alive) if they were free men. "Empathic asymmetry" certainly influences the behavior of women, but I believe there's a superficial component (think halo effect) to it too. Rodney Alcala and Ted Bundy are good examples of a serial killer that had good looks + charisma and had sexual success with women as free men. Dahmer and Cruz did not (although Dahmer was queer, so Cruz is probably a better example in this case).
 
It wouldn't be hybristophilia though because the fixation is sex not the fact she's a criminal.
I think the actual problem might be hybristophobia.
 
I think the actual problem might be hybristophobia.
Wayne? It's part of a broader evolutionary strategy is the idea behind this thread.
 
@Rare Galaxy Koala thoughts on my lapidary compendium
 
Non-poro corpus.
 
All that can be summarized in one word
hybristophilia
I hate the idea of characterizing foids being attracted to chad criminals as a mental disorder instead of it being their own choice to just ignore a chads horrific crimes.
 
I hate the idea of characterizing foids being attracted to chad criminals as a mental disorder instead of it being their own choice to just ignore a chads horrific crimes.
A freind of mine called it violentia aestus instead.
 

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