Discussion First world normies that complain about living standards are a lot worse than incels that complain about not having a girlfriend.

[Yunoo]

For the average able bodied person in a country like America all of your basic needs are met. They have friends, sex, a job, shelter, food, gf. They also enjoy a lot of luxuries like dining out.

these people complain about things like not being able to afford a house while maintaining their current lifestyle. These people do not NEED a house. They can rent their entire lives and be completely fine.


On the other hand, having a girlfriend and friends is a biological urge. Humans are social creatures. As a human I am biologically driven to seek out a partner, so if I cannot get one it is natural and predictable for me to want to vent and talk about my loneliness.

That is why normies complaining about the economy is worse than an incel complaining about loneliness


So why am I treated more harshly than the guy that complains about the economy? Why am I creepy or entitled for wanting a girlfriend?

Lonely men should be treated with the same level of understanding as those that complain about economic issues

TLDR
humans are biologically driven toward intimacy, sex, pair bonding, and social acceptance, therefore frustration and emotional pain around failing to obtain those things is predictable and natural.

Buying a home in a first world country is a luxury and you can live a good life through renting. However, those that complain about the housing market are treated with understanding.

For this reason, when men complain about not finding a partner they should be treated with the same level of understanding as when people complain about the housing market or long term wealth creation.

 

[OverLoner]

Gonna be honest with you chief lots of people are lacking empathy. Even I am to an extent especially when I get the impression someone has it better than me. I have a hard time feeling bad for my boss who complains about his house taxes going up for example. Oh great you can afford to own a house. I feel so bad you can own something I might never will unless my situation changes drastically.

I've actually never heard a man complain about his dating life in person now that I think about it. Probably because we would be mocked most likely.

 

[nihilum]

humans are biologically driven toward intimacy, sex, pair bonding, and social acceptance.

 

[Pikacel]

Worse is they punch down and shame the less fortunate while demanding pity, it’s hard to empathise with them

 

[She Does Not Exist]

Gonna be honest with you chief lots of people are lacking empathy. Even I am to an extent especially when I get the impression someone has it better than me. I have a hard time feeling bad for my boss who complains about his house taxes going up for example. Oh great you can afford to own a house. I feel so bad you can own something I might never will unless my situation changes drastically.

I've actually never heard a man complain about his dating life in person now that I think about it. Probably because we would be mocked most likely.

Correct on everything, especially empathy, coming from someone who lacks it.

Humans are mostly risk = reward creatures, even when it comes to feelings, if we don't see a reason to do it or a 'goal' then our ability to care or pursue it is minimal if not non-existent.

And if we have SOME foresight and notice nothing we do will help then we 'give up', is not about being 'evil' or 'good' is about your brain telling you were to put your most important resource on, which is energy, mental and physical.

As for you never hearing about anyone complain about relationships IRL is because people subconsciously know it is abnormal to be alone, so they don't talk about it, I've made a fool of myself because of my autism, believing people would care or it was not 'that important'.

But yeah, it is the result you predicted, you will be mocked.