iblamemyself
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I remember a few years back you could be nice to any girl and even have a little flirt and you would be considered a friendly guy (not that it helps with attraction, but that's another topic). If you wanted to express romantic or sexual interest, you would even need to be extra aggressive such as making a compliment on her figure or checking her out aggressively.
But now it seems that every little thing you do is interpreted as flirting anyway, even if you clearly don't do it. I read more and more stories from guys who are "accused" of flirting for the most basic shit like sending emojis, holding a door open or offering/ asking for help.
I can remember it was around 2012 when femoids became unreasonable about real life interactions. Say hi? Oh, he wants my roastbeef. Ask for the time because you forgot to bring your watch? Sneaky way of making a move. Trying to have a casual conversation at a bar? He wants to have sex.
The worst thing is that they often feel offended at the same time and try to punish the man as hard as they can for the imagined advances.
Back when I was in college a plain looking roasty refused to lend me a pen because she thought I just wanted to "break the ice" and it hurt her feminist feefees I guess. I literally had no pen, though, didn't even want to interact with anyone that day. So you can't say "she had the sixth sense and smelled muh patriarchy". Had to ask someone else then which meant that I had to walk across the entire class room, her hateful stare following me. I felt extremely disrespected and alienated and even unsafe because she seemed unhinged to me. Unfortunately, I never got any chance to get revenge on her.
Tl;dr: you can't have casual conversations with femoids anymore because they immediately think that every man has romantic or sexual interests in them, no matter the context of the conversation or the approach.
But now it seems that every little thing you do is interpreted as flirting anyway, even if you clearly don't do it. I read more and more stories from guys who are "accused" of flirting for the most basic shit like sending emojis, holding a door open or offering/ asking for help.
I can remember it was around 2012 when femoids became unreasonable about real life interactions. Say hi? Oh, he wants my roastbeef. Ask for the time because you forgot to bring your watch? Sneaky way of making a move. Trying to have a casual conversation at a bar? He wants to have sex.
The worst thing is that they often feel offended at the same time and try to punish the man as hard as they can for the imagined advances.
Back when I was in college a plain looking roasty refused to lend me a pen because she thought I just wanted to "break the ice" and it hurt her feminist feefees I guess. I literally had no pen, though, didn't even want to interact with anyone that day. So you can't say "she had the sixth sense and smelled muh patriarchy". Had to ask someone else then which meant that I had to walk across the entire class room, her hateful stare following me. I felt extremely disrespected and alienated and even unsafe because she seemed unhinged to me. Unfortunately, I never got any chance to get revenge on her.
Tl;dr: you can't have casual conversations with femoids anymore because they immediately think that every man has romantic or sexual interests in them, no matter the context of the conversation or the approach.