The gravitational pull that a foid has on her orbiters is inherently sexual, and I don't believe that this fact ever escapes the foid; rather, it always factors into how she treats her orbiters, and this can be conducive to sadism at times (when it's not conducive to faux flirting and leading them on).
For example, imagine that you're a foid who just got pumped and dumped by Chad last night. You are traumatized by the fact that he took advantage of you for all that you're worth (your vagina) and gave you nothing in exchange but a fleeting orgasm and a possible STD or pregnancy. While you sit on the toilet and wait for his cum to evacuate your anus, you log onto r/femcels and complain about your inability to achieve anything but "meaningless, casual sex." You fundamentally desire monogamous commitment from a man, but due to your hypergamous nature will only be satisfied with "locking down" an 8+/10 -- not "settling for" a sub8 "moid." This presents a big problem:
Hoggamus, Hoggamus Chad is polygamous
Hoggamus, Hoggamus Becky is monogamous
The only person who actually cares about you is your looksmatch, Beta Billy, and as you check your phone's 100 unread notifications from last night, you notice that Billy sent you many of them. You take this as a blow to your self-esteem: Chad rarely texts you, and when he does merely asks whether you're "dtf?" or (when he's more subtle) whether you "wanna chill?" He never really cares about anything you have to say, and usually ignores you. He's currently ghosting you! Meanwhile, Billy was anxiously asking "what are you doing?" and "are you okay?" while you were getting fucked in every hole last night. Even though he hasn't texted you for several hours now, you know that he's willing to talk to you at a moment's notice and get the oxytocin release of hearing your voice.
You couldn't be less eager to indulge his sexual interest in you at the moment (so as to secure future favors from him), due to Chad being on your mind. But you also feel the need to vent to somebody about Chad -- and who better than Beta Billy? Chad may be too powerful for you to "lock down," but you can certainly domesticate Billy! You respond "sorry, had a long night" and he eagerly starts a voice chat with you.
You begin telling him about how "Chad is such an asshole" and how "he didn't even use a condom during coitus last night!" You notice how Billy becomes speechless and stutters in response to you, and start touching yourself in pleasure. "I told Chad how he'd have to go down on me if I gave him a blowjob, but he lubed up my ass and fucked me there instead! What a literal asshole!" Billy feels a slight tingle in his penis and a strong pit in his stomach. After Becky finishes sharing the salacious details of her ONS with Chad, she flushes his cum down the toilet and hangs up. Billy sits frozen by what he's heard until he develops a stiff erection, which he strokes with shaking hands; he cums the strongest ejaculate he can remember, and becomes a cuckold fetishist.