LDAR Feeling of having missed out on my own development

[packardD]

I should have stayed away from video games during puberty. I spent thousands of hours playing pvp competitive slop instead of getting those 4 hours of extra sleep. Instead of eating that extra meal for nutrients. Instead of doing something active outside while getting sunlight.

I could have had a better jaw. I could have been marginally taller, probably 2 inches taller at most but still. Maybe my penis could have been 0.25-0.5 inches longer.

I should have known about the blackpill way before puberty. Way way before. Damn it.

I am so devastated by this. I can’t even describe how devastated I am thinking about this. Every inch matters. Every centimeter matters. Every millimeter matters.

Now I can only resort to rotting and consuming insane amounts of junk goob slop

 

[Chadrick Star]

Nothing you do as a child can affect your development. Genetics are everything. You couldn't have evaded inceldom by eating vegetables.
Anyone who believes that is coping because they need to believe they weren't doomed from the start.

 

[Sonicfancel]

I could have had a better jaw. I could have been marginally taller, probably 2 inches taller at most but still. Maybe my penis could have been 0.25-0.5 inches longer.

Is all genetics. Doing sports as a teen would not change this.

 

[packardD]

Nothing you do as a child can affect your development. Genetics are everything. You couldn't have evaded inceldom by eating vegetables.
Anyone who believes that is coping because they need to believe they weren't doomed from the start.

Obviously you can’t alter your genes and grow to 7‘ if your parents are 5‘1 and 4‘8. but if you were overweight during puberty for example, fat cels contain estrogens which close growth plates in your bones. Same reason why high T sands are often short and have insane amounts of hair - because in extremely high amounts, testosterone starts converting to estrogen and your growth plates close prematurely. The same reason why thick skin is so prevalent in the MENA region, not only due to the environment but also because it is a dominant testosterone associated trait (testosterone thickens skin). So you are very wrong and vegetables have nothing to do with puberty since they don’t contain any important minerals / nutrients that your body needs to grow. It would have been over regardless in my case I am borderline deformed

 

[packardD]

Is all genetics. Doing sports as a teen would not change this.

I believe it is possible. It is not a matter of exceeding your genetic ceiling. But rather developing properly and fulfilling the potential. Objectively speaking, kids who grow being overweight for a prolonged period of time, often don’t reach their maximum height. They are around 0.5 inches shorter on average. Kids who dont consume hard chewy foods in sufficient amounts during puberty have smaller(narrower) lower jaws (around 3-7% narrower on average because masseter muscle hypertrophy aka chewing leads to tension on the jaw angle causing it to expand outwards aka the gonion flaring kids talk about all the time on TikTok and .org)

 

[packardD]

@wereq @LastGerman

 

[VanGobbel]

what game did you play?

 

[poorenglishcel]

FUUUUUUUUUUK makes me feel bad for playing games and rotting but what else should i do???? Fuck FOMO man

 

[MonkeyInaT34]

In my case, there was nothing I could've done to improve my situation, I was born with several deformities, the most severe ones being: micrognathia, no mewing could've saved my jaw, aswell as saddle nose, never met anyone with a worse nose than mine, and severe brachycephaly, I've only known one person with a flatter and blockier head.

To top it off I stopped growing when I was 15 and I have a near-micropenis, there's nothing I could've done to improve my stats, I was simply born to be a permavirgin rotter.

 

[Cuckoja]

Same, but for me largely my dad didn't leave me alone

 

[Sonicfancel]

I believe it is possible. It is not a matter of exceeding your genetic ceiling. But rather than developing properly and fulfilling the potential

It really depends on the sport. I remember trying to play volleyball, thinking it would "increase my height ," but all I ended up with were injuries.

 

[pauseforever]

I see no reason to regret. Some videogames are designed to make people utterly obsessed with them. More broadly, we live in an anomalous era, and "proper development" is an ideal that we may not be able to achieve in our environment

 

[Mr.Breb]

nah it does improve that much
In my case i had no option for having a teenage. Late development + brutal acne case
All the mental and social development missed

 

[soft]

Some videogames are designed to make people utterly obsessed with them.

Knowing things like these gives a new perspective on inceldom. There are people who want to distract clueless youth and make them waste their time. Just look at gen alpha and brain rot like tiktok. Can you really blame these kids for chasing easy pleasures? Should we blame ourselves for turning out the way we did?

 

[Izayacel]

Big Hit Today from 490 stacked decks , ( Opened around 2k so far ) . Insane luck , the most luck i had stacked deck wise .