Father Part 2

[blackoutwhitein3]

So my dad got triggered cuz I was pacing around in my room listening to music. When I tried to unplug my earbuds I didn’t let him. So I had to hear the typical father-son talk. This was cuz I said he didn’t run things around here. If you want more context, refer to my first father thread. Please read it. After you do, what’s your guys take on this? Keep in mind he slapped on the forehead and told me leave my door open since I keep my door closed while pacing. He said all I do is eat, jerk off, and pace around.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Are you like 14 gtfo

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Are you like 14 gtfo

Nigga, I’m 17. I’m about to put my age on my profile so people won’t keep asking me.

 

[_wifebeater_]

Nigga, I’m 17. I’m about to put my age on my profile so people won’t keep asking me.

Just stop acting like a 14yrs old.

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Just stop acting like a 14yrs old.

Elaborate, my good sir.

 

[FrothySolutions]

I don't have enough context on your dad to speak on him too well. He sounds like he might be a jerk. But on the other hand, he might just be trying to connect with you, but be bad at it. Do you resent him for cheating on your mom? Does your mom resent him for cheating on her, your mom?

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

I don't have enough context on your dad to speak on him too well. He sounds like he might be a jerk. But on the other hand, he might just be trying to connect with you, but be bad at it. Do you resent him for cheating on your mom? Does your mom resent him for cheating on her, your mom?

I don’t want him back here. He didn’t seem to give a shit about my life when I was younger, now all of a sudden, he does?

I don’t want him back here. He didn’t seem to give a shit about my life when I was younger, now all of a sudden, he does?

My mom seems to be fine now, but obviously she wasn’t happy before.

 

[Loooooser]

Elaborate, my good sir.

The way you replied is pretty self explanatory why ppl assume u are 12

 

[FrothySolutions]

I don’t want him back here. He didn’t seem to give a shit about my life when I was younger, now all of a sudden, he does?

My mom seems to be fine now, but obviously she wasn’t happy before.

Has your mom said anything about your feelings about your dad? Does she know how you feel?

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Has your mom said anything about your feelings about your dad? Does she know how you feel?

My mom pretty much wanted him out the house when she found out. Not cuz he cheated, but he was still doing it while he was still kinda sleeping at our former house. And yes, she knows how I feel.

 

[FrothySolutions]

My mom pretty much wanted him out the house when she found out. Not cuz he cheated, but he was still doing it while he was still kinda sleeping at our former house. And yes, she knows how I feel.

What has she said about your feelings?

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

What has she said about your feelings?

She understands. When I told her about him controlling the house, she said she wasn’t gonna let that happen.

 

[FrothySolutions]

She understands. When I told her about him controlling the house, she said she wasn’t gonna let that happen.

Does she think you should break bread with your dad and make good?

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Does she think you should break bread with your dad and make good?

Yes.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Yes.

Well, that doesn't sound like something you can just do. There's still the unresolved feelings of betrayal. There's still the "Why'd you leave in the first place" feeling. And I don't know how you feel about the cheating either, on top of that potentially.

I can't really tell you how to feel or what to forgive, but if this was me, I'd say "Dad, I'm still not over how you left in the first place. I need a little... more. Something else, before I can say that's water under the bridge."