Ok so what are you currently doing or planning on doing to get sex "the safe way"?
There are very few guys on this site that I've talked to that won't pay for sex but they are actually still pursuing sex
Some have told me their parents can arrange a marriage for them
Some are planning on moving to certain countries where you can more easily get a wife
But most, just complain, that's it, they don't plan on doing anything but complaining, and I don't think I'm going out on a limb to say you are part of that group based on what I've seen on you on this site
Its like you have a martyr complex, you don't actually want what you claim to want, what you want is to be able to complain about not having it more than anything, because that makes you feel better, feel special