Story Family trying to sabotage diet/looksmaxxing.

[Zyros]

Did anyone have this happen to them? Its not the first fight I have with family due to food. Not about fat food but about carbs/salty food (funnily they reccomend me to avoid fat while they always try to shove carbs in. I think this is because fat food is the one that is most famous diet wise, like when people think all pokemon are pikachu or all consoles are nintendo). They deem this kind of diet unleathy even tho I sleep better, woulds heal faster and get less sick now. They also say im uglier now that im leaner meanwhile everyone else who is not family told me the opposite, many times without me even asking for an opinion. Like the only ones who say I look worse are close family, and everyone else specially young people thinks the opposite. They also tried numerous times to add carbs/salt based food to my plates without telling me, which was the motive of many of the fights.

I KNOW that my family looks after me and that they would never desire anything bad for me. I KNOW tha tthey do it for my own good and that they are caring. my question is: why in the hell are close family ideals of beauty so backwards specially with facial leanness? It's something that angers me, and I fear that because of this "family has beauty backwards" meme, many incels are losing a lot of opportunities of lookxmaxxing, specially as teens/kids.

 

[LastEvolutionCell]

Actually my mom encouraged me too looksmax

 

[Berok]

my family is the same

 

[Zyros]

Actually my mom encouraged me too looksmax

Yes mine encouraged me to do so in some ways. its just the diet and facial leanness thing that families seem to have it so fucking backwards.

 

[Jockcel]

Yeah, my mother doesn't like my diet and says it's not healthy, but I control what I eat.

 

[Ritalincel]

Over for familycels

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

If your family says it, it's not true. How many times have moms told their ugly sons that they're handsome? Since young people say you look better, believe them instead.

 

[Testiclechincel]

Family is always biased and sometimes outright delusional.
My mother say to me that i am good looking enough to model. in reality i am around the 3.5-5.5 psl, 29, autistic and kv.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Did anyone have this happen to them? Its not the first fight I have with family due to food. Not about fat food but about carbs/salty food (funnily they reccomend me to avoid fat while they always try to shove carbs in. I think this is because fat food is the one that is most famous diet wise, like when people think all pokemon are pikachu or all consoles are nintendo). They deem this kind of diet unleathy even tho I sleep better, woulds heal faster and get less sick now. They also say im uglier now that im leaner meanwhile everyone else who is not family told me the opposite, many times without me even asking for an opinion. Like the only ones who say I look worse are close family, and everyone else specially young people thinks the opposite. They also tried numerous times to add carbs/salt based food to my plates without telling me, which was the motive of many of the fights.

I KNOW that my family looks after me and that they would never desire anything bad for me. I KNOW tha tthey do it for my own good and that they are caring. my question is: why in the hell are close family ideals of beauty so backwards specially with facial leanness? It's something that angers me, and I fear that because of this "family has beauty backwards" meme, many incels are losing a lot of opportunities of lookxmaxxing, specially as teens/kids.

Everyone wants to see you fail.

 

[Deleted member 8499]

when I lived with my parents I was trying to lose weight and my mother would always tell me im very skinny when in fact was skinny fat and probably 20% bodyfat