Venting Family reunion

[BlackPilledNormi]

I just came back from a family reunion amd since my cousins were there I realized one thing, first I need to mention that they have kids and thats the point little kids are so fuckin annoying creatures, they are loud and obnoxious. How can you not rope yourself if you wageslave your ass of just to come and get tortured by them.
As Incel its sometimes pretty hard to find reasons not to rope yourself, but how are parents able to keep this shit going

 

[Pointless]

Yes it's very difficult to come home from your "job" where you pretend to be busy, then you come home to your wife to have sex and get emotional intimacy and watch your children grow and nurture them into adulthood so they can carry your legacy after you pass away. It sounds really unmotivating

 

[RealSchizo]

cant relate to family reunions thats such an american thing to do jfl in my country most relatives absolutely despise each other because of money disputes mostly.

 

[Grodd]

Any sort of family gathering is always shit for me

 

[TheCatMan]

It's all in the parenting. You can tell if parents are good if the kid is behaved sits down and is quiet vs running around like animals. Growing up I took care of my stuff because I was always told I wouldn't get another one. Meanwhile for some kids it looked like they got stuff just to destroy.

 

[DoomThreeKoala]

Brutal

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

It's all in the parenting. You can tell if parents are good if the kid is behaved sits down and is quiet vs running around like animals. Growing up I took care of my stuff because I was always told I wouldn't get another one. Meanwhile for some kids it looked like they got stuff just to destroy.

My parents tried to raise me too, but Im a sperg so I didnt cared.
Also kids just need tons of attention and time even if they're well raised

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Yes it's very difficult to come home from your "job" where you pretend to be busy, then you come home to your wife to have sex and get emotional intimacy and watch your children grow and nurture them into adulthood so they can carry your legacy after you pass away. It sounds really unmotivating

The first part with loving wife and sex yes.
Ut you can have that without having children. And seein children growing up spending your freetime with them instead with whatever you want just to realize that when they hit 16 that they are gonna be an even worse dissapointment then you were got to be very fullfilling. Also try havin sex with your wife while havin an attention greedy brat runnin at you 24/7 when your at home

 

[Pointless]

The first part with loving wife and sex yes.
Ut you can have that without having children. And seein children growing up spending your freetime with them instead with whatever you want just to realize that when they hit 16 that they are gonna be an even worse dissapointment then you were got to be very fullfilling. Also try havin sex with your wife while havin an attention greedy brat runnin at you 24/7 when your at home

Lol you're right. Matter of fact I hate children myself and would never have one. I guess I'm portraying a utopian lifestyle where everything is perfectly aligned with what it is supposed to be if you catch my drift.

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Lol you're right. Matter of fact I hate children myself and would never have one. I guess I'm portraying a utopian lifestyle where everything is perfectly aligned with what it is supposed to be if you catch my drift.

Tld;r I understand, we've been lied to with a romantacized family lifestyle by conservatives. In this case funny enough the liberals get nearer to the truth.

Yeah its what the media told us, or well atleast previous generation, modern media are more likely to use the annoying brat image of children to keep women from getting them. Well I hate the whole liberal propaganda but in this case they are just beein honest about what it means to be a parent of a kid and well thats enough to scare women away.

Thats what redpillers didnt get men never cared about their family, they either needed someone who takes care of them if they get old, they needed an heir to pass their legacy on or they needed them to "sell" them into marriage. Men back then probably didnt even really knew they had a family (also they werent hustlin or smth., dont know if thats trve but I read somwhere that an average peasant in medival times worked 4-5 hours per day) they we're either involved in politics if this was possible for them or participating in other social roles or "clubs"
For example you can see that any country will take a hard hit on birth rates ones the government pays a pension or some other some other social security institution for the old age is created.

The reality is family life is at its best simply as boring as the ldar lifestyle maybe a bit better because you can have sex sometimes (but again that doesnt require kids) at its worst family life is just another form of sexless hell.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Nowadays i barely go to family reunions anymore unless we eat in a buffet restaurant or its direct family