ProudIncelistani
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This is in response to the platitude "You don't need relationships to lead a fulfilling life!". I'll explain why this is wrong from a logical perspective, no emotions needed.
Before we start, i'd like us to agree on these axioms:
Axiom of Asexuality: All Humans Are Aromantic and Asexual. No exceptions. When was the last time you thought "Gee, a relationship would be nice..."? That's right, NEVER.
Axiom of biomedtech: Humans are born from artificial wombs using designer genes for the best quality offspring, not from the sexual process.
Axiom of Fair Laws: The lopsided legal system that favors X gender has been rectified, Feminism and MGTOW/Men's rights are now useless.
Axiom of Biological Equality: There are no mental differences between any of the genders.
This will remain gender neutral, so that all genders (let's not waste time explaining simple facts to SJW's) may be included.
Put yourself in this scenario:
You return from your 8-hour job, and it doesn't matter what it is, you come home, cook yourself dinner, engage in hobbies perhaps, and sleep. You repeat this cycle until you get bored of it all (which obviously you would, I mean come on boredom is why we do actually quite a lot of things), and now you're presented with the following options:
1) Neck yourself to stop this cycle.
2) Get inspired into some activism or something along the lines.
3) Treat yourself to a vacation/ fun experience
4) Get into a relationship.
#1 isn't viable for obvious reasons (as members of r/IncelTears I'd expect you to know ALL of those reasons BY HEART).
#2 Activism, or rather creating an adventure in life for adventure's sake can actually destabilize your conditions of life, putting you in a worse position than your position at the start, so for your (and potentially everyone else's) sake, this is not a viable option. If there is a legitimate cause you wish to contribute to, you MUST contribute to it, but afterward, when your mission has been accomplished, you will once again find yourself bored and looking at these very options.
#3 No one is committed to a vacation or the luxury that surrounds them. While you may enjoy a vacation, you're not willing to 'struggle through thick and thin' for it, it's already happened! Bathing in Luxury will bore you out as well, and once again you shall ponder upon these options presented to you.
#4 is your only choice, now you have someone to truly and constantly care for and receive the same treatment. you now have someone to form more complicated emotions with, and you cannot get bored of them.
But wait!
Can't that type of commitment be formed with friends, pets and/or family?
Friends) The bond between a friend is far weaker than the bond to an SO, where bond means comfort with and knowledge of the other person, as well as dedication to weather out harder times with.
Family) If your relationship with them is bad, this is your priority. Fix is ASAP. But even in a family there are orders of priority in terms of bonding (I.E who's more important? Your distant cousin-in-law or SO?), and even in the Family, there are roles of the relationship and limitations on how they can help you (I.E You Brother can't relate to you the same way your SO can)
Pets) I've seen this before, and as a former pet-owner who has had to grieve the death of my pets (serious), I can tell you that even with the great connection to them, the connection cannot compare to a human SO whom you can talk to and has the mind to understand human thought. (I.E Who's better able to understand Marcus's Meditations, the Quran, and/or Thomas Jech's Set Theory and give good output on it? Your Dog or your SO?)
But wait!
We've gone over relationships, but what about ***?
It strengthens the bond between you and your SO, and makes adultery... actually very dangerous (look up std::list and ignore all C++/C related results), it helps decide who is mature about it, as well a mature person in general. (Consider: Asexuals, would you rather be in a relationship with someone mature who knows how to act properly on the one thing don't like or a [insert gender here]-child?) How does this display maturity? Because *** is not the only taboo, but so are many other topics, such as religion and politics. No one enters a date like "You're a [insert political view] as well?" or "You're a [insert religion here] as well?" but they DO enter dates sometimes as "You're oriented towards [insert gender and/or ****** fantasy here]?" (see the LGBTQAIWTFROFLBBQsin(PI/4)=(2^1/2)/2++ community ), you can see it on practically every hookup/dating site. Maturity and a strong bond here can in many cases surpass religious/political difference the members of the relationship hold. We only see a strong aversion from mature conversation from either the mentally unfit to enter relationships or literally children.
THERE. Damn that was a thinker. Someone Please Get This Onto IT.
Before we start, i'd like us to agree on these axioms:
Axiom of Asexuality: All Humans Are Aromantic and Asexual. No exceptions. When was the last time you thought "Gee, a relationship would be nice..."? That's right, NEVER.
Axiom of biomedtech: Humans are born from artificial wombs using designer genes for the best quality offspring, not from the sexual process.
Axiom of Fair Laws: The lopsided legal system that favors X gender has been rectified, Feminism and MGTOW/Men's rights are now useless.
Axiom of Biological Equality: There are no mental differences between any of the genders.
This will remain gender neutral, so that all genders (let's not waste time explaining simple facts to SJW's) may be included.
Put yourself in this scenario:
You return from your 8-hour job, and it doesn't matter what it is, you come home, cook yourself dinner, engage in hobbies perhaps, and sleep. You repeat this cycle until you get bored of it all (which obviously you would, I mean come on boredom is why we do actually quite a lot of things), and now you're presented with the following options:
1) Neck yourself to stop this cycle.
2) Get inspired into some activism or something along the lines.
3) Treat yourself to a vacation/ fun experience
4) Get into a relationship.
#1 isn't viable for obvious reasons (as members of r/IncelTears I'd expect you to know ALL of those reasons BY HEART).
#2 Activism, or rather creating an adventure in life for adventure's sake can actually destabilize your conditions of life, putting you in a worse position than your position at the start, so for your (and potentially everyone else's) sake, this is not a viable option. If there is a legitimate cause you wish to contribute to, you MUST contribute to it, but afterward, when your mission has been accomplished, you will once again find yourself bored and looking at these very options.
#3 No one is committed to a vacation or the luxury that surrounds them. While you may enjoy a vacation, you're not willing to 'struggle through thick and thin' for it, it's already happened! Bathing in Luxury will bore you out as well, and once again you shall ponder upon these options presented to you.
#4 is your only choice, now you have someone to truly and constantly care for and receive the same treatment. you now have someone to form more complicated emotions with, and you cannot get bored of them.
But wait!
Can't that type of commitment be formed with friends, pets and/or family?
Friends) The bond between a friend is far weaker than the bond to an SO, where bond means comfort with and knowledge of the other person, as well as dedication to weather out harder times with.
Family) If your relationship with them is bad, this is your priority. Fix is ASAP. But even in a family there are orders of priority in terms of bonding (I.E who's more important? Your distant cousin-in-law or SO?), and even in the Family, there are roles of the relationship and limitations on how they can help you (I.E You Brother can't relate to you the same way your SO can)
Pets) I've seen this before, and as a former pet-owner who has had to grieve the death of my pets (serious), I can tell you that even with the great connection to them, the connection cannot compare to a human SO whom you can talk to and has the mind to understand human thought. (I.E Who's better able to understand Marcus's Meditations, the Quran, and/or Thomas Jech's Set Theory and give good output on it? Your Dog or your SO?)
But wait!
We've gone over relationships, but what about ***?
It strengthens the bond between you and your SO, and makes adultery... actually very dangerous (look up std::list and ignore all C++/C related results), it helps decide who is mature about it, as well a mature person in general. (Consider: Asexuals, would you rather be in a relationship with someone mature who knows how to act properly on the one thing don't like or a [insert gender here]-child?) How does this display maturity? Because *** is not the only taboo, but so are many other topics, such as religion and politics. No one enters a date like "You're a [insert political view] as well?" or "You're a [insert religion here] as well?" but they DO enter dates sometimes as "You're oriented towards [insert gender and/or ****** fantasy here]?" (see the LGBTQAIWTFROFLBBQsin(PI/4)=(2^1/2)/2++ community ), you can see it on practically every hookup/dating site. Maturity and a strong bond here can in many cases surpass religious/political difference the members of the relationship hold. We only see a strong aversion from mature conversation from either the mentally unfit to enter relationships or literally children.
THERE. Damn that was a thinker. Someone Please Get This Onto IT.