So... where do I begin? Just so you know, I'm 19 and finished 11th grade this June (well, technically 12th since I had an extra language grade)
In the last school year, I tried getting to know a girl a grade below, and it wasn't bad actually, like we actually had some conversations and whatnot from time to time. Then the school year ended, I wasn't at the ceremony of the school year ending but I thought that I could later invite her to a camp I was going to which was mostly free-of-charge. I figured it would be a good opportunity to get to know her even better than before in school.
I wrote to her a while before the event and then also sent the details... but no response. I waited for days not writing anything else since she supposedly hadn't seen it yet so there was no point... And she never responded. This was over a month ago and she still hasn't responded or seen the messages (according to Messenger but I suspect that it's a bug and that she had seen it and simply ignored me). I went to that camp without her and it was fine but honestly I felt a bit heartbroken. I even promised her before the summer break that I would take her somewhere but... I GUESS NOT!
That was just the first occurrence. The other one happened much more recently and it just annoyed the crap out of me.
So a random girl wrote to me on Instagram that she would like to get to know me. I was skeptical for a bit but then replied positively to her. We even followed each other. We engaged in a little bit of normal conversation, nothing out of the ordinary for a while, talking about the musical instrument I play on.
Then she dropped a pretty big flirt, something along the lines of "I would like to see you play... on me
" and I froze for a bit. I don't think I had such legitimate flirting done on me before.
Anyway, a few days later, I went on vacation but wanted to keep in touch with her so I wrote to her. She saw it but no response. Figured she was busy.
Then I wrote again two days later and then a week later (today in fact) but same thing. She had seen it but didn't respond.
Today she decided to unfollow me and she also DELETED MY FOLLOWING of her (private) profile! I said "SCREW IT" and promptly deleted all of the messaging between us!
I didn't feel heartbroken, just really annoyed and it also goes to show that she might not have been serious from the beginning and some of the things she said were probably also NOT LEGIT (including the flirting from her side)!
These are my experiences with girls in the summer break that I needed to get out of my head.
Not looking too good, fellas for my future, especially considering I'm planning to go to a university with barely any girls. Share your thoughts.
P.S. I apologise if this post bores you to death but I just couldn't condense it to be shorter. Just deal with it, bro.
In the last school year, I tried getting to know a girl a grade below, and it wasn't bad actually, like we actually had some conversations and whatnot from time to time. Then the school year ended, I wasn't at the ceremony of the school year ending but I thought that I could later invite her to a camp I was going to which was mostly free-of-charge. I figured it would be a good opportunity to get to know her even better than before in school.
I wrote to her a while before the event and then also sent the details... but no response. I waited for days not writing anything else since she supposedly hadn't seen it yet so there was no point... And she never responded. This was over a month ago and she still hasn't responded or seen the messages (according to Messenger but I suspect that it's a bug and that she had seen it and simply ignored me). I went to that camp without her and it was fine but honestly I felt a bit heartbroken. I even promised her before the summer break that I would take her somewhere but... I GUESS NOT!
That was just the first occurrence. The other one happened much more recently and it just annoyed the crap out of me.
So a random girl wrote to me on Instagram that she would like to get to know me. I was skeptical for a bit but then replied positively to her. We even followed each other. We engaged in a little bit of normal conversation, nothing out of the ordinary for a while, talking about the musical instrument I play on.
Then she dropped a pretty big flirt, something along the lines of "I would like to see you play... on me
" and I froze for a bit. I don't think I had such legitimate flirting done on me before.Anyway, a few days later, I went on vacation but wanted to keep in touch with her so I wrote to her. She saw it but no response. Figured she was busy.
Then I wrote again two days later and then a week later (today in fact) but same thing. She had seen it but didn't respond.
Today she decided to unfollow me and she also DELETED MY FOLLOWING of her (private) profile! I said "SCREW IT" and promptly deleted all of the messaging between us!
I didn't feel heartbroken, just really annoyed and it also goes to show that she might not have been serious from the beginning and some of the things she said were probably also NOT LEGIT (including the flirting from her side)!
These are my experiences with girls in the summer break that I needed to get out of my head.
Not looking too good, fellas for my future, especially considering I'm planning to go to a university with barely any girls. Share your thoughts.
P.S. I apologise if this post bores you to death but I just couldn't condense it to be shorter. Just deal with it, bro.
