I have thought about this topic for a very long time, months. I just haven't had the adequate words to express. I recently ran into a youtube channel by the name of Monday FA Monday. I know how some view FA's on the forum, but I think this guy is truly brilliant. IMO he has made the black pill digestible to the masses. At any rate, he talks about the entirety of the FA, TFL, Incel phenomena. He uses insightful personal interviews and scientific research to back up his points.
One of his interviews was with a youngcel by the name of Vincent. Long story short, Vincent's life is shit and I think he is very reflective of most guys here. He has an abusive bi-polar mother and an emotionally distant father. He is basically forced by his obsessive drug addict mother to be a prisoner in his own home. He has learned virtually no social skills, and has suffered from PTSD due to his traumatic abuse. His story has in part inspired this thread today.
I just want to throw out the possibility, that perhaps not all of our problem is a physical one. I am definitely not saying that being physically unattractive is not an issue. The blackpill undeniably proves that unattractive men are at the bottom rungs of society in terms of achievement and treatment. One only need to remember that dreadful abc interview of Stew from the 90s to know how true the lookspill is. However, I think there are somethings we are missing as a community. I think personality and social skills do account for some of our problems, but I don't want to position this as some normie argument. Instead, what I am proposing is that potentially there are certain behavioral characteristics that convey weakness and unreliability. Simply put, men who are respectful and agreeable are seen as weak.
The reason IMO that women gravitate towards selfish or deviant men (dark triad) is that their selfishness gives them the distinct ability to horde resources for themselves and consequently their mate/offspring. Even though the world would be objectively better if people shared and were rational, humans are instinctively selfish because we are animals. Every animal has a basic survival instinct that tells them to value themselves. Men who are vain and willing to commit atrocious acts are the epitome of this behavioral instinct. Women sense these selfish men who have a fuck it attitude and naturally they are attracted to them as a consequence of the above. I think due in part to many of our timid personalities, we could in fact be conveying weakness and thus inability to compete and acquire resources. As a consequence, I am proposing that we add the heartpill (emotional health) as a part of blackpill. It is just a suggestion. Let me know what you all think.
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Personality could partial account for some difficulty.
One of his interviews was with a youngcel by the name of Vincent. Long story short, Vincent's life is shit and I think he is very reflective of most guys here. He has an abusive bi-polar mother and an emotionally distant father. He is basically forced by his obsessive drug addict mother to be a prisoner in his own home. He has learned virtually no social skills, and has suffered from PTSD due to his traumatic abuse. His story has in part inspired this thread today.
I just want to throw out the possibility, that perhaps not all of our problem is a physical one. I am definitely not saying that being physically unattractive is not an issue. The blackpill undeniably proves that unattractive men are at the bottom rungs of society in terms of achievement and treatment. One only need to remember that dreadful abc interview of Stew from the 90s to know how true the lookspill is. However, I think there are somethings we are missing as a community. I think personality and social skills do account for some of our problems, but I don't want to position this as some normie argument. Instead, what I am proposing is that potentially there are certain behavioral characteristics that convey weakness and unreliability. Simply put, men who are respectful and agreeable are seen as weak.
The reason IMO that women gravitate towards selfish or deviant men (dark triad) is that their selfishness gives them the distinct ability to horde resources for themselves and consequently their mate/offspring. Even though the world would be objectively better if people shared and were rational, humans are instinctively selfish because we are animals. Every animal has a basic survival instinct that tells them to value themselves. Men who are vain and willing to commit atrocious acts are the epitome of this behavioral instinct. Women sense these selfish men who have a fuck it attitude and naturally they are attracted to them as a consequence of the above. I think due in part to many of our timid personalities, we could in fact be conveying weakness and thus inability to compete and acquire resources. As a consequence, I am proposing that we add the heartpill (emotional health) as a part of blackpill. It is just a suggestion. Let me know what you all think.
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TLDR:
Personality could partial account for some difficulty.
