JFL "Ex-Incel" story from /r/IncelExit (this is why we gatekeep mentalceldom/noeffortcels)

[Deleted member 23944]

Notable portions:

In 2015, I had a genuinely great life for a HS senior. One of the best players on the football team (got recruited by a couple of D3 colleges), I had a 3.9 GPA, I had been hitting the gym hard since sophomore year and I had a good-looking body standing at 6'2. Looking back, I can't believe I didn't notice how fucking great my life was.

I'm guessing he forgot to mention he was white as well.

Among my female friends, one of them used to always ask me to go to the gym/study with her and I brushed it off unknowingly (again looking back I was retarded). My lack of self-esteem and body dysmorphia definitely played a role, and I used to always have imposter syndrome where I'd assume girls weren't interested or were joking when they'd show interest. At a house party once, a girl straight up tried to kiss me and I pulled away cause I assumed she was joking (I know this sounds like a LARP but it happened and that's the closest i've ever been to a kiss in my life). Except for my weird rejecting of girls, my life was pretty set and I remember I was a happy, worry-free teenager.

Body dysmorphia
Lack of self-esteem
Rejecting girls for weird reasons

Healthy and back at school, I stopped hanging out and keeping up with my friends, especially the girls. As far as social events, i'd flake on everything because why bother? All girls wanted the Chads, I better stay at home I thought. As I rejected invites, they dried up more and more until I was basically only seeing my friends in school and chatting online. I'd hear about them going out, hooking up, taking their girlfriends wherever; and I'd feel that was normal: They get the girls and I was supposed... actually destined to be alone.

Chad only! Sub8 theory buyer? @Ropemaxx

The summer before college I was a complete shut-in. I gained 30lbs and a porn addiction was starting to grow on me. These were inevitable for anyone at home all the time, the vices seem easy when you have nothing going for you. I ruined whatever looks I had, stopped going to the gym cause why bother and my study habits got real bad. My first three years of college fulfilled the incel idea that was planted my senior year of high school. I was overweight, unathletic, INVISIBLE to women whenever I'd go out and I had no female friends. I mostly pushed away any girl who tried to be nice, and I never made a move on anyone.

Got overweight because "it's over." Pushed away girls, didn't try to talk to them during his supposed physical prime.

There's a mighty strong belief incels put in your head- whereupon if all women hate you then why bother asking them out cause you'll be rejected. As a matter of fact, like a good number of incels, I have never been rejected in my life. Not that I'm Lachowski or anything, I just have never tried. I've never asked a girl out, I've never flirted, said a compliment or smiled at a girl, approached, or anything of the sort. I took myself out of the game, so I'd never get hurt. I put up the walls to protect myself, but all I get in the end is unbearable loneliness.

NEVER TRIED, NEVER ASKED OUT A WOMAN, NEVER BEEN REJECTED, NEVER FLIRTED/APPROACHED/SMILED, OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT.

TL;DR This guy is a perfect microcosm of the phenomenon of the high-tier normie/chadlite "incel" with body dysmorphia, some mental issues, and 0 effort.

People like him make people think this forum is full of people with BDD, people who don't try, people with mental issues, etc.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

Who cares tbh if he's a retard it's his fault

 

[Pennywise]

This was written by @Sans

 

[Deleted member 23682]

This dude will end up slaying in college. He's just a youngcel who was never a true incel

 

[radishman]

Tall, straight A's, athlete literally pushed foids away as they came onto him... hmmm can't relate.

 

[legocelkhv]

Proof the average .co member looks like this

 

[UglySlav]

cba to read the reddit thread but if hes khhv then his life isnt THAT better than ours. sure he enjoys privileges like being treated better in society and not being a victim of lookism.
but mental issues can be a real bitch and if hes still khhv his life is still pretty shit.

I think the worst feeling is the feeling of wasting something and missing out on something. this dude missed out on love and sex and hes wasting his genetics. you know how shit that feels that you can GET something but youre too retarded to do it. id feel like shit jf i was in that position.

 

[Deleted member 19236]

Another day, another .co chad

 

[Deleted member 23944]

cba to read the reddit thread but if hes khhv then his life isnt THAT better than ours. sure he enjoys privileges like being treated better in society and not being a victim of lookism.
but mental issues can be a real bitch and if hes still khhv his life is still pretty shit.

I think the worst feeling is the feeling of wasting something and missing out on something. this dude missed out on love and sex and hes wasting his genetics. you know how shit that feels that you can GET something but youre too retarded to do it. id feel like shit jf i was in that position.

This guy will have a good life. It was all his doing rejecting girls, never trying, and doing weird shit. He just needs to get over that fact that he messed up.

Jfl at trying to pull the "because he missed out on teen love his life is over forever" shit.

 

[Deleted member 140]

 

[Deleted member 23682]

cba to read the reddit thread but if hes khhv then his life isnt THAT better than ours. sure he enjoys privileges like being treated better in society and not being a victim of lookism.
but mental issues can be a real bitch and if hes still khhv his life is still pretty shit.

I think the worst feeling is the feeling of wasting something and missing out on something. this dude missed out on love and sex and hes wasting his genetics. you know how shit that feels that you can GET something but youre too retarded to do it. id feel like shit jf i was in that position.

I can agree, but we have to remember that this dude just finished high school, and is 6'2 and athletic. He has plenty of time for redemption in college. It's much better to be a "mentalcel" at 18 as opposed to 28

EDIT: apparently this guy is through a few years of college, damn he fucked up. But he can still redeem himself.

 

[shii410]

"gained 30 lbs and a porn addiction"

fuck this guy. imagine being as blessed by life as he was and still becoming a total fucking degenerate. then acting like you made some great virtuous decision by "leaving the incel community" that made you morally superior to incels, when all you did was get off of your lazy ass and put in the basic effort required to succeed on tutorial mode

 

[UglySlav]

This guy will have a good life. It was all his doing rejecting girls, never trying, and doing weird shit. He just needs to get over that fact that he messed up.

Jfl at trying to pull the "because he missed out on teen love his life is over forever" shit.

i didnt say his life is over but as it stands now its not good and he missed out on some prime jb pussy.
if he dosent get his shit together and stay mentally inept i dont see him having such a good life. depends how he looks if hes like high tier normie lots of girls will ditch him for chad but he still will get pussy eventually and he DOES lifemog us im not saying he dosent.

I can agree, but we have to remember that this dude just finished high school, and is 6'2 and athletic. He has plenty of time for redemption in college. It's much better to be a "mentalcel" at 18 as opposed to 28

EDIT: apparently this guy is through a few years of college, damn he fucked up. But he can still redeem himself.

he can easily but it all depends on his mental state

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Stopped reading when he said that he's 6,2ft. Enough said really.

 

[Deleted member 24876]

See inkwells this is what happens when you dont respect women

 

[Deleted member 18435]

His advice is basically "just cope more bro". We're literally doing that already. Everyone always thinks they're some kind of enlightened figure. Delusional retards.

 

[Ropemaxx]

Chad only! Sub8 theory buyer? @Ropemaxx
Got overweight because "it's over." Pushed away girls, didn't try to talk to them during his supposed physical prime.

Great find tbh
"As a matter of fact, like a good number of incels, I have never been rejected in my life. Not that I'm Lachowski or anything, I just have never tried. I've never asked a girl out, I've never flirted, said a compliment or smiled at a girl, approached, or anything of the sort. I took myself out of the game, so I'd never get hurt. I put up the walls to protect myself "

this applies to a large number of people on this forum sadly

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

stopped reading here: "my lack of self-esteem and my body dysmorphia"

obvious female larper.

 

[Deleted member 23944]

stopped reading here: "my lack of self-esteem and my body dysmorphia"

obvious female larper.

Wrong, there are some legitimate people like that here. I've seen it first hand when someone posted their picture breaking forum rules about their "1/10" face. Although it's rare.

 

[RichCel]

What a faggot.

 

[Deleted member 16608]

Stop reading at 6'2.

 

[FlamingCel]

I dont know why he would have low self esteem

 

[HyperVersager_4EVER]

Stop reading at 6'2.

 

[ihaveno1]

Stopped reading at “looking at my good looking body standing at 6’2”

 

[cryptic__egg]

Literally a chadlite, he was never an incel

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Stopped reading at “looking at my good looking body standing at 6’2”

I didn't even read

 

[Deleted member 23944]

I didn't even read

Based.

 

[ihaveno1]

I didn't even read

I regret my decision of skimming through that post

 

[shii410]

Wrong, there are some legitimate people like that here. I've seen it first hand when someone posted their picture breaking forum rules about their "1/10" face. Although it's rare.

I think he was more referring to the writing style and how those sound like terms that women use. women are just more likely to apply those types of labels to themselves, while guys here usually just say "I'm a lonely virgin". but "low self-esteem" and "body dysmorphia" are definitely still terms that have meaning and I can definitely imagine incels using them in certain contexts

 

[Deleted member 23944]

I think he was more referring to the writing style and how those sound like terms that women use. women are just more likely to apply those types of labels to themselves, while guys here usually just say "I'm a lonely virgin". but "low self-esteem" and "body dysmorphia" are definitely still terms that have meaning and I can definitely imagine incels using them in certain contexts

His writing style comes back as European male.

A female would LARP as someone who wasn't as well off as him.

 

[ItsOver4cel]

Chads.co seems closer to reality every day

 

[shii410]

His writing style comes back as European male.

A female would LARP as someone who wasn't as well off as him.

yeah I wasn't agreeing, just saying what I interpreted the sentiment as.

I have never seen a woman do a convincing LARP tbh. if the poster was a woman it'd probably be easy to tell

 

[Dformedcreature]

"At a house party once, a girl straight up tried to kiss me and I pulled away cause I assumed she was joking"

Okay, this is straight up mental retardation.

 

[Sleeper]

JFL if you think failed normies will ever be in the same league as you and it's why i legitimately fucking hate them because no matter how low they go, even if they sink to our level in the social ladder, a little effort and they can just bounce back. it might not matter to some, but because of faggots like this, a standard is set upon all of us, especially the lowly KHHV's. if he can do it so can you right? nevermind this cunt had girls talking to him, good grades, good at sport and had friends and EVEN after lowering himself to a low level, had all of that waiting for him.

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

I think the worst feeling is the feeling of wasting something and missing out on something. this dude missed out on love and sex and hes wasting his genetics. you know how shit that feels that you can GET something but youre too retarded to do it. id feel like shit jf i was in that position.

But he tried to push away women who tried to start up a conversation with him. He didn't have to do shit to get women, basically he is a prime example of volcel

 

[sub8male]

But he tried to push away women who tried to start up a conversation with him. He didn't have to do shit to get women, basically he is a prime example of volcel

Exactly. Look foids ain’t try to start a conversation with us.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

Chad’s.co

 

[Pennywise]

For real?

I'm actually just joking. Don't mind me I'm just being a clown

 

[nazianime]

HUGE BLACKPILL

IRL proof that 6'2, 3.9gpa, football player chad/chad lite can be a drooling social retard and still have women hitting on him.

 

[Deleted member 22531]

This was written by @Sans

LMAO

 

[Deleted member 25223]

On the second paragraph and I'm already angry.
>"6'2 jock"
I don't think I will read more.

 

[Deleted member 23944]

On the second paragraph and I'm already angry.
>"6'2 jock"
I don't think I will read more.

Good choice. It gets worse.

 

[Haywire]

HUGE BLACKPILL

IRL proof that 6'2, 3.9gpa, football player chad/chad lite can be a drooling social retard and still have women hitting on him.

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looks is what lures them in certainly. i have seen foids lose their mind over tall blond men irl. still cant forget that shit.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Tall, straight A's, athlete literally pushed foids away as they came onto him... hmmm can't relate.

 

[BlkPillPres]

His advice is basically "just cope more bro". We're literally doing that already. Everyone always thinks they're some kind of enlightened figure. Delusional retards.

I'm looking at your avatar (plankton from spongebob) and I'm only just realizing that he was an incel, he was extremely small, nobody likes him and everyone picks on him (and looks down on him), his wife is literally a robot he created to love him, etc

Spongebob is the incel in denial character, a guy living alone with his pet cat, working a dead end low wage job, always trying to stay positive

 

[anon2719]

This is why it is always good to gatekeep

 

[Deleted member 23981]

How can you be an incel if you havent even had women tell you you're ugly, or make fun of your race

 

[ReallyRice]

HAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHHAHA
If it's real I'm glad this RETARDED Chad pissed away a couple of his good years. Maybe he'll die of cancer soon too, would make things even more balanced.

 

[Deleted member 21230]

I'm looking at your avatar (plankton from spongebob) and I'm only just realizing that he was an incel, he was extremely small, nobody likes him and everyone picks on him (and looks down on him), his wife is literally a robot he created to love him, etc

Spongebob is the incel in denial character, a guy living alone with his pet cat, working a dead end low wage job, always trying to stay positive

If you think about it almost nobody in spongebob is in a relationship, except for spongebob's parents ofc

 

[Dregster]

Who cares tbh if he's a retard it's his fault

@Insomniac and @LastGerman in a nutshell.