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Ever lost male friends because they got girlfriends?

Dry Spell

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I can't even count how many friends I lost after they got a girlfriend and all their attention went to her.

I guess this is to be expected and if I had a gf, I would probably do the same thing and neglect my friends too.
 
Yup, even lost my best friend 2 years ago to a femoid.
 
No, but I did end a friendship because I could tell his girl didn't like me, and I wanted him.to be happy. Pretty sure he has a child now. Woman was ugly as sin I can't lie, but he seemed happy and I didn't want to ruin that. It was his opportunity to find a reason to live for.
 
The point of males friednships is to establish social value in order to get gf. After that, the friendship is lost. It's all about sex.
 
Yeah. Lost my best friend of four years to some stupid bitch who claims she is depressed all the time and shes 15 while my friend is 19. It’s fucked up. He ceased contact with me. Still haunts me.
 
Anon said:
The point of males friednships is to establish social value in order to get gf. After that, the friendship is lost. It's all about sex.

Absolutely untrue.
 
yep friend of 3 years :(
 
Anon said:
Porcreating is our naturla role.

As is socialization in communities and collaboration for group objectives. Saying that you get nothing out of friendship but SMV is either a massive cope or an indicator that you've never had a true friend, which is sad but plausible.
 
blickpall said:
As is socialization in communities and collaboration for group objectives. Saying that you get nothing out of friendship but SMV is either a massive cope or an indicator that you've never had a true friend, which is sad but plausible.

Friends are worthless anyway if you don't get laid. I have seen subhumans hang out together and they are just coping.
 
Anon said:
Friends are worthless anyway if you don't get laid. I have seen subhumans hang out together and they are just coping.

Getting laid isn't the only thing that provides validation in this life. Being a good friend, and having good friends, is fulfilling. If having sex is your #1 goal and you use other people to push yourself towards that goal and gain nothing else from them, sure, I can see how you can call friendship cope. However, I have a friend I've been tight with for 20 years now, and none of that shit applies.
 
Lost many friends this way.
 
I don't have friends.
 
Happened to me but mostly it just means a temporary shift of attention and any worthwhile friendship will recover after the rose-tinted glasses fade away eventually.
 
blickpall said:
Getting laid isn't the only thing that provides validation in this life. Being a good friend, and having good friends, is fulfilling. If having sex is your #1 goal and you use other people to push yourself towards that goal and gain nothing else from them, sure, I can see how you can call friendship cope. However, I have a friend I've been tight with for 20 years now, and none of that shit applies.

Girls are more intersting than friends. Hoes before bros.
 
Anon said:
Girls are more intersting than friends. Hoes before bros.

And you're saying this from experience, I presume?
 
blickpall said:
And you're saying this from experience, I presume?

IMO heterosexual male friends are the only trustworthy form of true empathy and altruistic companionship without further motives and underlying biological imperatives.
 
coldmachinery said:
No, but I did end a friendship because I could tell his girl didn't like me, and I wanted him.to be happy. Pretty sure he has a child now. Woman was ugly as sin I can't lie, but he seemed happy and I didn't want to ruin that. It was his opportunity to find a reason to live for.

That's pretty noble of you and I understand why you did it. Even though I think your actions were a bit beta and submissive, it doesn't reflect poorly on you that you would "step aside" to let his relationship flourish.

modus_coperandi said:
blickpall said:
And you're saying this from experience, I presume?
IMO heterosexual male friends are the only trustworthy form of true empathy and altruistic companionship without further motives and underlying biological imperatives.

This.
Most guys are not in direct competition for the same girls because the girls have already rejected 80% of boys.
Being friends with other heterosexual males is absolutely one of the most PURE forms of affection.


Also if a femoid has no female friends and only wants to hang out with guys she is likely a total bitch
 
Anon said:
blickpall said:
As is socialization in communities and collaboration for group objectives. Saying that you get nothing out of friendship but SMV is either a massive cope or an indicator that you've never had a true friend, which is sad but plausible.
Friends are worthless anyway if you don't get laid. I have seen subhumans hang out together and they are just coping.

There's other forms of validation besides sexual.
Sexual validation is just the strongest and most validating of such validations.
 
Dry Spell said:
There's other forms of validation besides sexual.
Sexual validation is just the strongest and most validating of such validations.

All other forms of validation are COPE
 
lol...no...

i never had male friends
 
Anon said:

I guess whatever works for you. I just feel like you might still be missing out on something.

modus_coperandi said:
IMO heterosexual male friends are the only trustworthy form of true empathy and altruistic companionship without further motives and underlying biological imperatives.
Dry Spell said:
Most guys are not in direct competition for the same girls because the girls have already rejected 80% of boys.
Being friends with other heterosexual males is absolutely one of the most PURE forms of affection.

All of this.
 
Had enemies that acted like a friend, not sure if that counts.
 
Anon said:
Friends are worthless anyway if you don't get laid. I have seen subhumans hang out together and they are just coping.

I wish I had incel friends to hand out with IRL 2bh. It's hard to be all alone in the world.
 
theson said:
Anon said:
Friends are worthless anyway if you don't get laid. I have seen subhumans hang out together and they are just coping.
I wish I had incel friends to hand out with IRL 2bh. It's hard to be all alone in the world.

Too bad, an Incel IRL meetup would get shut down by protesters (Antifa)
 

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