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there would still be so many barriers to consider when it comes to dating/lasting relationships:
a) Sexual Needs:
You won't find a virginal GF nowadays, it's simply statistically impossible after high school (but most likely even younger) - this in turn means that she already knows what she wants and that she won't accept failure. And in sex (especially the first time) so many things can get wrong: You might not get an erection, you might not be able to successfully orgasm or orgasm too fast. And even if nothing goes wrong in an incredibly bad manner it might still not be enough (especially when you are compared with far more experienced men).
Before getting a GF you would need sexual experiences with other women, these women would be whores, but the problem is that whores are either completely brutal in their judgement of men or say that everything was perfectly ok to get a loyal costumer by bolstering the self-esteem of a lonely individual - and then there is still the stigma associated with men fucking whores. Sex is also something that requires enormous amounts of practice to be remotely sufficient and can be physically taxing - it unironically requires enormous amounts of stamina/discipline/etc. and the older you get the higher the demands for previous experiences become and the harder it becomes to actually physically perform (especially when you masturbated very often with a death grip or consumed fucked up porn in younger years) - every day it becomes harder to still be able to make it even if a unicorn appeared.
This becomes apparant when you read reports of virginity loss (often accompanied with sexual dysfunction due to shame/inexperience/nervous behavior), threads by escortmaxxers or simply when you look at your own performance with masturbation over the years.
b) Parents:
You would have to impress the family too. Otherwise permanent scrutinization/critique occurs until she starts seeing that there are far better options available. You have to spend time with the family and when the father has the wrong mentality he will make it a living hell for you, you constantly have to walk around egg shells and every mistake can mean your undoing (at dinner/at holidays/etc.) - never underestimate how often parents talk with their kids about their respective boy-/girlfriend or even marital partner and what unkind words they choose.
Nothing more than complete and utter defamation/inciting. The parents of the girl would most likely take a disliking to you (because you are ugly) and because they think that their girl deserves better they would criticize you whenever you turn your back on them until she ends up believing that shit - even if you did all the shit tests (like dressing up fancily/acting like a submissive people-pleaser/feigning interest in everything the family tells you). If you have the wrong interests/jobs they will tell her that you aren't a real man, a loser or other shit like that.
c) Friends:
If you think that her friends wouldn't constantly trashtalk about you and tell her that she deserves better you have no idea. Simps and women alike would do this.
A lasting relationship/marriage is impossible nowadays. When you aren't literally a male model, you live under permanent criticism and everything works against you - and when you tell somebody that they can do better all the time they will end up believing that, that's even if you can satisfy her sexual needs (when she literally fucked with people with decades of more experience) or even surpass by some miracle the treshold for looks beforehand. There are so many barriers to consider - it's insane (almost like a minefield).
a) Sexual Needs:
You won't find a virginal GF nowadays, it's simply statistically impossible after high school (but most likely even younger) - this in turn means that she already knows what she wants and that she won't accept failure. And in sex (especially the first time) so many things can get wrong: You might not get an erection, you might not be able to successfully orgasm or orgasm too fast. And even if nothing goes wrong in an incredibly bad manner it might still not be enough (especially when you are compared with far more experienced men).
Before getting a GF you would need sexual experiences with other women, these women would be whores, but the problem is that whores are either completely brutal in their judgement of men or say that everything was perfectly ok to get a loyal costumer by bolstering the self-esteem of a lonely individual - and then there is still the stigma associated with men fucking whores. Sex is also something that requires enormous amounts of practice to be remotely sufficient and can be physically taxing - it unironically requires enormous amounts of stamina/discipline/etc. and the older you get the higher the demands for previous experiences become and the harder it becomes to actually physically perform (especially when you masturbated very often with a death grip or consumed fucked up porn in younger years) - every day it becomes harder to still be able to make it even if a unicorn appeared.
This becomes apparant when you read reports of virginity loss (often accompanied with sexual dysfunction due to shame/inexperience/nervous behavior), threads by escortmaxxers or simply when you look at your own performance with masturbation over the years.
b) Parents:
You would have to impress the family too. Otherwise permanent scrutinization/critique occurs until she starts seeing that there are far better options available. You have to spend time with the family and when the father has the wrong mentality he will make it a living hell for you, you constantly have to walk around egg shells and every mistake can mean your undoing (at dinner/at holidays/etc.) - never underestimate how often parents talk with their kids about their respective boy-/girlfriend or even marital partner and what unkind words they choose.
Nothing more than complete and utter defamation/inciting. The parents of the girl would most likely take a disliking to you (because you are ugly) and because they think that their girl deserves better they would criticize you whenever you turn your back on them until she ends up believing that shit - even if you did all the shit tests (like dressing up fancily/acting like a submissive people-pleaser/feigning interest in everything the family tells you). If you have the wrong interests/jobs they will tell her that you aren't a real man, a loser or other shit like that.
c) Friends:
If you think that her friends wouldn't constantly trashtalk about you and tell her that she deserves better you have no idea. Simps and women alike would do this.
A lasting relationship/marriage is impossible nowadays. When you aren't literally a male model, you live under permanent criticism and everything works against you - and when you tell somebody that they can do better all the time they will end up believing that, that's even if you can satisfy her sexual needs (when she literally fucked with people with decades of more experience) or even surpass by some miracle the treshold for looks beforehand. There are so many barriers to consider - it's insane (almost like a minefield).
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