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It's Over Even if a unicorn showed interest in ugly men

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there would still be so many barriers to consider when it comes to dating/lasting relationships:

a) Sexual Needs:
You won't find a virginal GF nowadays, it's simply statistically impossible after high school (but most likely even younger) - this in turn means that she already knows what she wants and that she won't accept failure. And in sex (especially the first time) so many things can get wrong: You might not get an erection, you might not be able to successfully orgasm or orgasm too fast. And even if nothing goes wrong in an incredibly bad manner it might still not be enough (especially when you are compared with far more experienced men).
Before getting a GF you would need sexual experiences with other women, these women would be whores, but the problem is that whores are either completely brutal in their judgement of men or say that everything was perfectly ok to get a loyal costumer by bolstering the self-esteem of a lonely individual - and then there is still the stigma associated with men fucking whores. Sex is also something that requires enormous amounts of practice to be remotely sufficient and can be physically taxing - it unironically requires enormous amounts of stamina/discipline/etc. and the older you get the higher the demands for previous experiences become and the harder it becomes to actually physically perform (especially when you masturbated very often with a death grip or consumed fucked up porn in younger years) - every day it becomes harder to still be able to make it even if a unicorn appeared.
This becomes apparant when you read reports of virginity loss (often accompanied with sexual dysfunction due to shame/inexperience/nervous behavior), threads by escortmaxxers or simply when you look at your own performance with masturbation over the years.

b) Parents:
You would have to impress the family too. Otherwise permanent scrutinization/critique occurs until she starts seeing that there are far better options available. You have to spend time with the family and when the father has the wrong mentality he will make it a living hell for you, you constantly have to walk around egg shells and every mistake can mean your undoing (at dinner/at holidays/etc.) - never underestimate how often parents talk with their kids about their respective boy-/girlfriend or even marital partner and what unkind words they choose.
Nothing more than complete and utter defamation/inciting. The parents of the girl would most likely take a disliking to you (because you are ugly) and because they think that their girl deserves better they would criticize you whenever you turn your back on them until she ends up believing that shit - even if you did all the shit tests (like dressing up fancily/acting like a submissive people-pleaser/feigning interest in everything the family tells you). If you have the wrong interests/jobs they will tell her that you aren't a real man, a loser or other shit like that.

c) Friends:
If you think that her friends wouldn't constantly trashtalk about you and tell her that she deserves better you have no idea. Simps and women alike would do this.

A lasting relationship/marriage is impossible nowadays. When you aren't literally a male model, you live under permanent criticism and everything works against you - and when you tell somebody that they can do better all the time they will end up believing that, that's even if you can satisfy her sexual needs (when she literally fucked with people with decades of more experience) or even surpass by some miracle the treshold for looks beforehand. There are so many barriers to consider - it's insane (almost like a minefield).
 
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It's very hard for sure, esp the sexual performance and experience required to lock down a partner - and yes, as cels, the only way is to obtain it through some form of sex work. I have seen many normans lose their Beckys due to sexual underperformance. And foids who stay with thugs because the sex was satisfying, despite literally everything else being pure garbage (domestic violence, severe substance abuse, cheating, etc).
 
It's very hard for sure, esp the sexual performance and experience required to lock down a partner - and yes, as cels, the only way is to obtain it through some form of sex work. I have seen many normans lose their Beckys due to sexual underperformance. And foids who stay with thugs because the sex was satisfying, despite literally everything else being pure garbage (domestic violence, severe substance abuse, cheating, etc).
Yes, sex is an art in itself as I have read on the Internet/heard by others.
It's not. At least look at the stats before saying things like this.
Show me the stats. From my personal experience in school I would find it unlikely that there are any female virgins after high school. Not even as a joke.
 
Well, this is depressing...
 
Well, this is depressing...
This was unironically what I was thinking about in the last few days, in every evening. I was unironically thinking about what would realistically happen if by some wonder a woman showed interest in me while looking at her family/social circle/previous life experience/etc. I realise that I have unironically nothing to offer - in sexual terms, personal terms and everything else; I assume how her surroundings would react to me (considering experience from my own family) and the result was a catastrophe.
 
So roping is the only option
 
This was unironically what I was thinking about in the last few days, in every evening. I was unironically thinking about what would realistically happen if by some wonder a woman showed interest in me while looking at her family/social circle/previous life experience/etc. I realise that I have unironically nothing to offer - in sexual terms, personal terms and everything else; I assume how her surroundings would react to me (considering experience from my own family) and the result was a catastrophe.
As an older cel, I am still trying to ascend and spent the last ten years with that firm goal in mind.

I see many youngcels on the internet LDARing and not growing themselves - I'm not just talking about looksmaxx or going to the gym. I'm talking about developing a sense of who we are, shaped by experiences, joys, sadness, expertise, education and being well versed, as far as a cel can be, with people and the world.

People can sense this easily, just as easy as they can judge our ugly faces or short height.

It's impossible to develop this self-content (and thus being able to offer meaningful things to our eventual/imaginary femoid companion/s) without opportunities, and opportunities arise much easier with good education, networking and moneymaxx.

So I say to youngcels, before anything else, be well read and well educated, and start moneymaxxing, because money gives you the time and the opportunity to grow yourself in meaningful ways. Ways which will hopefully one day help you ascend.

The alternative is bad cope and LDAR, leading to slow deaths or rope. Don't LDAR. And watch your vices less they become too severe.
 
This was unironically what I was thinking about in the last few days, in every evening. I was unironically thinking about what would realistically happen if by some wonder a woman showed interest in me while looking at her family/social circle/previous life experience/etc. I realise that I have unironically nothing to offer - in sexual terms, personal terms and everything else; I assume how her surroundings would react to me (considering experience from my own family) and the result was a catastrophe.
Same here. I'm sexually inexperienced, socially awkward, and my interests are considered "taboo topics". Every time I start talking to women about fascism or Nazism or anything that threatens their social justice agenda, they shut the conversation down immediately. Even my interest in science doesn't seem appealing to foids anymore. I was attempting to build a machine learning model that could predict what your chances of ascension are based on collected data, but I abandoned the idea and sank in deep depression before I could get anything done. Moreover, I'm anti-SJW and anti-neoliberalism, both of which are social suicide these days. Meaning, even if I find a girl that's willing to be with me, her parents might object due to my views.
 
Brutal. It only gets worse the older you get. 29 years old and it's fucking beyond over for me.
 
Same here. I'm sexually inexperienced, socially awkward, and my interests are considered "taboo topics". Every time I start talking to women about fascism or Nazism or anything that threatens their social justice agenda, they shut the conversation down immediately. Even my interest in science doesn't seem appealing to foids anymore. I was attempting to build a machine learning model that could predict what your chances of ascension are based on collected data, but I abandoned the idea and sank in deep depression before I could get anything done. Moreover, I'm anti-SJW and anti-neoliberalism, both of which are social suicide these days. Meaning, even if I find a girl that's willing to be with me, her parents might object due to my views.
Brutal, it's almost like looking at a mirror image of myself - and extremely interesting project with machine learning you had in mind tbh.

The same thing with me on a political basis: In my early teenage years I discovered libertarianism - then gradually went into the third position (which unironically improved my life by a small degree by telling me that I need to gymmaxx/do work-out). These views are most of the time only expressed online. But if I said anything about my beliefs offline I would be socially dead. Nowadays I am against neoliberalism primarily, but I am mostly hating society as a whole with no real political ideology behind it except purely personal contempt.

The same thing with me also on the basis of other interests: I am mostly interested in zoology and many women feel disgust when I talk about it. I was once nearly thrown out of a place for relaxing in school because I wanted to talk with a friend about dendrobatids which a woman found so disgusting that she reported me for grossing her out (talked about how they ate invertebrates to acquire their poisons like the mantellids). Many women (even an autistic woman with the same interests) told me that I was too obsessed about them and needed to get a life. My other interests (like toxicology/forensics/hereditary diseases/parasitology/etc.) also gross people out.

I also have no idea how to flirt or even how to get a real relationship. I mostly see stuff and listen to the experiences of others and then extrapolate.
Brutal. It only gets worse the older you get. 29 years old and it's fucking beyond over for me.
As an older cel, I am still trying to ascend and spent the last ten years with that firm goal in mind.

I see many youngcels on the internet LDARing and not growing themselves - I'm not just talking about looksmaxx or going to the gym. I'm talking about developing a sense of who we are, shaped by experiences, joys, sadness, expertise, education and being well versed, as far as a cel can be, with people and the world.

People can sense this easily, just as easy as they can judge our ugly faces or short height.

It's impossible to develop this self-content (and thus being able to offer meaningful things to our eventual/imaginary femoid companion/s) without opportunities, and opportunities arise much easier with good education, networking and moneymaxx.

So I say to youngcels, before anything else, be well read and well educated, and start moneymaxxing, because money gives you the time and the opportunity to grow yourself in meaningful ways. Ways which will hopefully one day help you ascend.

The alternative is bad cope and LDAR, leading to slow deaths or rope. Don't LDAR. And watch your vices less they become too severe.
Tbh, you are doing god's work, hope it works out for you, man.
 
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It's not. At least look at the stats before saying things like this.
brave .co dissident brutally destroys my bro @Lebensmüder with facts and logic

in germany only 25% of foids leave high school as a virgin i would say
 
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