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Does Dating in 2024 even make sense?

TheJester

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So a lot of YouTubers have already spoken about how the current Dating Timeline is actually broken, but i wanted to make a post about the fundamental aspect of "Why even date".

And I mean EVERYONE, all men, Sub5s, Normies and yes even Chad and Tyrone.

You know, the main reason someone like me goes on a date with a women is to establish a LTR (Long Term Relationship) - but that does not appear to be possible. Especially from watching a lot of :redpill:Content, theres certain factors that just make it worthless:

1. The modern women seems undateable! Their attitudes are oppressive and toxic. Their demands are getting ridiculous: 6 figures, 6'0+, handsome, fit, caring, protective.

2. No commitment! Even if you have a girlfriend, it will likely only last for a short time, as due to Hypergamy and Social Media, as well as Dating Apps, the women has always better options. Especially when shes in her 20s!

Thats also a reason why Chad 'Pumps and Dumps' and goes on to the next girl!

3. The financial cost! It is very expensive. Women want a certain 'Instagram Lifestyle' which means ypu have to basically be a millionaire in order to settle down with her.

Now in the option that you date a girl, but she neither wants to provide sex, nor a LTR, yet wants you to pay her - what is the point?

4. Mistrust! As an Incel, I have a high level of mistrust towards women, from several rejections and bullying. I also know of men who lost their entire livelyhood to women. This and the fact a rise of Women that only go out - even with Subhumans - is only due to the fact that she wants to live of the Simpconomy, but not commit towards a LTR!

5. Boredom! Gen Z Women and even the upcoming Gen Alpha girls, seem to be a complete nerve-wreck due to heavy Social Media exposure. They tend to drop men off quickly. Its not rare a girl finds even a LTR to a loving Chad getting boring rather fast. So how will any Normie Sub8 be able to attract her interest?

An Incel wants foremost sex, but as we see even Escortmaxxing does not make one happy :cryfeels:. What I always wanted is a monogamous, traditional LTR - but even if I was a Rich 8/10 aspects such as 'Monogamous'; 'Traditional' and 'Long Term' do not exist in the modern World of 2024 - while 10 years ago, they still did.

Furthermore with a fall in birth rate, the chances to date younger women become even scarer, while the demands and expectations will only increase to the point even the 20% of top men will get into trouble and wont find a commited women for a LTR, let alone for LIFE!
 
Dnr, and that question doesn't even matter if you are truly subhuman. You don't get to just choose to date.
 
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You're right. It's a bad deal even for HTNs. The juice isn't worth the squeeze but it doesn't matter, I'm still thirsty.
 
1, 2 and 5 are correct. 3 is a silly exaggeration that being perpetually online puts in your head.

The solution is to go abroad. Globalisation is the main, underlying problem (females massively expanding their potential pool of mates). Globalisation is the solution (men have to do likewise, but more so). Girls used to select their mate from the small group of men they interacted with in day to day life, in addition to usually being wary of guys they didn't know and having to worry about "slut shaming". Now, they pick their mates from the hundreds of thousands of men online, the dozens of men who "slide in their DMs" and the thousands of men they swipe on Tinder.
 
So a lot of YouTubers have already spoken about how the current Dating Timeline is actually broken, but i wanted to make a post about the fundamental aspect of "Why even date".

And I mean EVERYONE, all men, Sub5s, Normies and yes even Chad and Tyrone.

You know, the main reason someone like me goes on a date with a women is to establish a LTR (Long Term Relationship) - but that does not appear to be possible. Especially from watching a lot of :redpill:Content, theres certain factors that just make it worthless:

1. The modern women seems undateable! Their attitudes are oppressive and toxic. Their demands are getting ridiculous: 6 figures, 6'0+, handsome, fit, caring, protective.

2. No commitment! Even if you have a girlfriend, it will likely only last for a short time, as due to Hypergamy and Social Media, as well as Dating Apps, the women has always better options. Especially when shes in her 20s!

Thats also a reason why Chad 'Pumps and Dumps' and goes on to the next girl!

3. The financial cost! It is very expensive. Women want a certain 'Instagram Lifestyle' which means ypu have to basically be a millionaire in order to settle down with her.

Now in the option that you date a girl, but she neither wants to provide sex, nor a LTR, yet wants you to pay her - what is the point?

4. Mistrust! As an Incel, I have a high level of mistrust towards women, from several rejections and bullying. I also know of men who lost their entire livelyhood to women. This and the fact a rise of Women that only go out - even with Subhumans - is only due to the fact that she wants to live of the Simpconomy, but not commit towards a LTR!

5. Boredom! Gen Z Women and even the upcoming Gen Alpha girls, seem to be a complete nerve-wreck due to heavy Social Media exposure. They tend to drop men off quickly. Its not rare a girl finds even a LTR to a loving Chad getting boring rather fast. So how will any Normie Sub8 be able to attract her interest?

An Incel wants foremost sex, but as we see even Escortmaxxing does not make one happy :cryfeels:. What I always wanted is a monogamous, traditional LTR - but even if I was a Rich 8/10 aspects such as 'Monogamous'; 'Traditional' and 'Long Term' do not exist in the modern World of 2024 - while 10 years ago, they still did.

Furthermore with a fall in birth rate, the chances to date younger women become even scarer, while the demands and expectations will only increase to the point even the 20% of top men will get into trouble and wont find a commited women for a LTR, let alone for LIFE!
No it doesn't make sense, let's be real
 
You're right. It's a bad deal even for HTNs. The juice isn't worth the squeeze but it doesn't matter, I'm still thirsty.
I must be the only person here who wouldn’t settle with an obese fat feminist bitch?
 
At what year made sense for me? Brutal
 
I must be the only person here who wouldn’t settle with an obese fat feminist bitch?
Who said I would settle? I'm just thirsty. I wish I could stop being thirsty, but I am. Doesn't mean I'm buying the cow or would even want to. MSTOW, as much as it sucks, is better than most alternatives, certainly than the ones that might be open to me.
 
"dating" is ONE of many mating rituals.

courtship used to be the norm before birth control.

bride kidnapping, in central asian societies;

and arranged marriages (bride-buying) in east asia.

and so on.

"Dating" to be successful and effective as a mating ritual necessitates 3 things:
--- birth control
--- foids in jobs
--- men in jobs (making 3x as much as foids)

Remove one of those pillars and "dating" ceases to be viable.
Obviously, in our society it was the latter pillar that was removed.

What we have now is a system of orgy-breeding (foids becoming single moms with random hookups or short marriages) supported by state-enforced cuckoldry, that is, males being forced to subsidize the foid and its offspring through taxes, alimony, child-support, tariffs etc. that maintain the welfare state.

An alternative is Marxism-Rodgerism, where each male owns the product of his own labor (no tax-cuckoldry), foids are kept locked in breeding facilities; and men may chose to breed with stacies by paying only the nominal cost of breeding, which is about as much as one would pay for a puppy or a kitten.
 
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Sub 8 males aren't in the dating market because they don't get to date anyways.
 

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