LifeFuel Enjoying non sexual things

[Caterpillar]

My life is the hardest when I go on fap binges and fantasize about girls every day. But after I've done nofap for a few days I feel more detached from girls. And I'm able to enjoy non sexual things more. Things like food, video games, exercising etc. Have you guys experienced this too?

 

[Cuyen]

I find sexuality randomly

 

[Blacktarpill]

I find sexuality randomly

tbh

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

For me it's the opposite, the longer I go without masturbating, the harder it is for me focus on other things.

 

[Inceldo]

No i just get insanely horny if i dont fap

 

[Insomniac]

D R U G S

 

[Monogamist]

I can't enjoy anything because I just can't see a future for myself. I'm a neet and couldn't ever get a job. I'd need a Basic Income by the government, so I don't need to find a job and could move out of home, but I doubt that'll ever happen. Life is just too cruel.

 

[Gengar]

I find sexuality randomly

 

[Michael15651]

For me it's the opposite, the longer I go without masturbating, the harder it is for me focus on other things.

Same, but It’s also hard for me to focus in general

 

[Uther]

I think this site overall puts too much emphasis on spreading 'blackpills'. I think by now we all know the blackpill and what it implies, furthermore, I have noticed that some here use the verb 'cope' with a negative tone. I am of the opinion that 'cope' is, for people such as us, all we can hope for, and therefore we should in fact focus on coping, that is, finding and sharing ideas for new hobbies, music, video games, books. We should distract ourselves with quality art, literature, drama, comedy, games, learning, perhaps even sports (although I doubt most of us have the proper corporeal constitution for such hobbies). Perhaps we should not only immerse ourselves in other people's creations but try to create ourselves for our own enjoyment's sake!

I think that organizing ourselves into a international club, gathering some funds via membership fees, and doing some group activities like debating, studying going to the theater, making friends and connections with incels in your vicinity, helping each other. By organizing ourselves into real life group we might increase out overall political and financial power. That's all I can think of off the top of my head.

 

[Caterpillar]

we should in fact focus on coping, that is, finding and sharing ideas for new hobbies, music, video games, books. We should distract ourselves with quality art, literature, drama, comedy, games, learning, perhaps even sports (although I doubt most of us have the proper corporeal constitution for such hobbies). Perhaps we should not only immerse ourselves in other people's creations but try to create ourselves for our own enjoyment's sake!

That's helpful but venting is necessary too. Otherwise the frustration will bottle up.

 

[Uther]

That's helpful but venting is necessary too. Otherwise the frustration will bottle up.

Agreed.

 

[Salustio]

I think this site overall puts too much emphasis on spreading 'blackpills'. I think by now we all know the blackpill and what it implies, furthermore, I have noticed that some here use the verb 'cope' with a negative tone. I am of the opinion that 'cope' is, for people such as us, all we can hope for, and therefore we should in fact focus on coping, that is, finding and sharing ideas for new hobbies, music, video games, books. We should distract ourselves with quality art, literature, drama, comedy, games, learning, perhaps even sports (although I doubt most of us have the proper corporeal constitution for such hobbies). Perhaps we should not only immerse ourselves in other people's creations but try to create ourselves for our own enjoyment's sake!

I think that organizing ourselves into a international club, gathering some funds via membership fees, and doing some group activities like debating, studying going to the theater, making friends and connections with incels in your vicinity, helping each other. By organizing ourselves into real life group we might increase out overall political and financial power. That's all I can think of off the top of my head.

Completely agree. Coping is normal for an incel.

Now it’s time to cope harder than MCTOWs.

 

[Involuntarily]

I think this site overall puts too much emphasis on spreading 'blackpills'. I think by now we all know the blackpill and what it implies, furthermore, I have noticed that some here use the verb 'cope' with a negative tone. I am of the opinion that 'cope' is, for people such as us, all we can hope for, and therefore we should in fact focus on coping, that is, finding and sharing ideas for new hobbies, music, video games, books. We should distract ourselves with quality art, literature, drama, comedy, games, learning, perhaps even sports (although I doubt most of us have the proper corporeal constitution for such hobbies). Perhaps we should not only immerse ourselves in other people's creations but try to create ourselves for our own enjoyment's sake!

I think that organizing ourselves into a international club, gathering some funds via membership fees, and doing some group activities like debating, studying going to the theater, making friends and connections with incels in your vicinity, helping each other. By organizing ourselves into real life group we might increase out overall political and financial power. That's all I can think of off the top of my head.

Very good post my dear incel. But if they won't donate to the site, why would they donate to membership fees?

 

[FinnCel]

D R U G S

Best cope

 

[KingChemist]

Yea the copes are good. My emotions always gun me down eventually because I feel bad about rotting on my own in my bed.