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Blackpill Empathy ≠ Sympathy Misunderstanding

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Empathy - the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Sympathy - feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else's misfortune.

This is related to high functioning autistics.

Normtards state we can't feel empathy & this may be true but they confuse it with sympathy believing we can't feel bad for someone in a bad situation, devoid of emotions like an android or Mr.Spock.

If you have an extraverted NT that derives dopamine hits & charges up from being at a loud crowded concert or sportsball game/party they won't understand why someone would prefer to be alone reading a book in quiet, tinkering with something around a tool bench, taking in a visual novel.

If you're naturally inclined to be introverted & are not popular around your peers, being bullied, highly unlikely you're invited to parties & have friends, if by some miracle you go to one you'll be on your own as a wallflower & think it's one big waste of time either jealous of the others in their groups enjoying themselves or not understanding why anyone goes through this due to lack of dopamine hits from no validation & not being allowed to be you. People generally behave differently when cornered 1 on 1 compared to in a group. They put on a mask to fit in with the rest, everyones actively running a stageplay off the cuff, the ones allowed to be themselves are the most attractive, wealthy, powerful or intimidating types that the rest fall into line somewhat around like a military rank hierarchy.

How can we emphasize with these ppl when our experiences throughout life are completely different, they were in groups, accepted, supported. We were ostracized, ridiculed, ignored.

They've hit their milestones, we missed ours & if by some will of conviction we try to play catch up to improve our social skills we're seen as weird, creepy, strange, an oddity, freak.

How can we improve upon something we suck at when it's expected that we've become skilled at it & are instantly met with negative energy if attempting it.

They've always been a part of the group aware of that loser all by himself over there to be laughed at.

We're the loser on the outside looking in.

We can feel sympathy for someone going through some shit moreso than those punks, we've likely been that victim in one way or another & the virtue signallers were the bully or the bystander that dare not intervene for fear of dropping their own value within' the group yet now feel compelled to pretend to give a shit for good goy points amongst their peers.

Chances are you learned early on that if you made a scene when having problems it either gave you more problems or no one simply gave a shit so you don't overreact to anything to the point of numbness or fear of being in the spotlight.

Tard autists of course went the other way realising that if they act up they'll get their own way from embarrassed parents or that inconveniencing the general population warrants placating them to an extent, out of sight & out of mind of ppl.

Normies get their self worth externally from others which is why they try so hard to keep up with maintenance of image & follow the same shit. Notice how an above average in the looks department guy suddenly loses their support network if they develop an illness like Cancer or becomes facially disfigured, it will drop a foids value but not to the extent of a guy.

A loner has to develop self worth from within' through copes or some such shit.

There are exceptions to the rule like an independent loner normie that others want around but they see others as a burden or beneath them beating to the rhythm of their own drum. Usually cast as the stoic here in a movie.

Socially annoying autist that somehow is full of confidence & not shy at all, probably spoilt as a kid & miraculously not bullied.

Generally though normies are sheep latching onto the group hierarchy & autists are isolated either wanting to be away from ppl forever or wish to be accepted into a group.

If autists lack empathy then normies lack sympathy.

the child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth,”

Why ppl go ER, you think school shooters were popular happy ppl?
 
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If you're naturally inclined to be introverted & are not popular around your peers, being bullied, highly unlikely you're invited to parties & have friends,
Brutal, I hate how these fuckers get to live a better life...
 
Being born introverted and high in neuroticism is a death sentence.
 
Being born introverted and high in neuroticism is a death sentence.
true.

autism is highly correlated with high rates of virginity... it's something that is not paid enough attention too
 
Society creates ERcels. That's a fact.
 
Being born introverted and high in neuroticism is a death sentence.

Only if you have a cock & balls.
Society creates ERcels. That's a fact.
NotForMe1
 
Empathy is some bullshit concept invented by social-psychologists in the 1960s. You can't read people's minds, JFL.
 
Everyone needs to know the difference. Good post.

Bonus:
less =/= fewer
magazine =/= clip
machine gun =/= assault rifle
dct =/= automatic transmission
introverted =/= shy
 

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