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malakai
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I know ER threads are like beating a dead horse, but this is something I feel that Numales and fems don’t understand.
I’m tired of the “Elliot never even asked s girl out, sat in his room blah blah” let’s get some things straight.
This kid was obviously a introvert. Very meek. But he actually did have the balls to do things way out of his comfort zone, let’s look at some of the feats ER did despite being depressed and having his hopeless outlook on life.
- Walked in the middle of the night, to parties and pubs just of the intent to put himself out there
- actually did try new meet ups, hobbies,
- went as far as to befriend a PUA/mentor his dad hooked him up with who attempted to help him with women and his life
For those who criticise him for not cold approaching, sure. He didn’t go out of his way to even talk to girls, that Is a valid criticism. But he put himself out there on dating websites, meet ups ect
So that argument that he didn’t try isn’t valid. For a kid with cripplingly low self-esteem, he made the best of what he had and tried numerous self improvement tips, I’m not going to repeat myself in here but his manifesto lists the myriad of methods he tried before his descent. Lifting, designer clothes, just to name a few.
So yes, ER did “try”
I’m tired of the “Elliot never even asked s girl out, sat in his room blah blah” let’s get some things straight.
This kid was obviously a introvert. Very meek. But he actually did have the balls to do things way out of his comfort zone, let’s look at some of the feats ER did despite being depressed and having his hopeless outlook on life.
- Walked in the middle of the night, to parties and pubs just of the intent to put himself out there
- actually did try new meet ups, hobbies,
- went as far as to befriend a PUA/mentor his dad hooked him up with who attempted to help him with women and his life
For those who criticise him for not cold approaching, sure. He didn’t go out of his way to even talk to girls, that Is a valid criticism. But he put himself out there on dating websites, meet ups ect
So that argument that he didn’t try isn’t valid. For a kid with cripplingly low self-esteem, he made the best of what he had and tried numerous self improvement tips, I’m not going to repeat myself in here but his manifesto lists the myriad of methods he tried before his descent. Lifting, designer clothes, just to name a few.
So yes, ER did “try”