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I don't know why. Maybe I'm just clingy and obnoxious, but there's always been a clear trend in my life of becoming friends with someone, usually by being introduced to them by someone else. To them quite clearly ignoring and rejecting all my proposals of doing something together or even just talking.
Friends are a great cope. When I'm comfortable with someone I'm very low inhib, I can talk lots and I don't feel restricted in any sort of way. I guess I'm like a normie in that sense.
But it's starting to be clear to me that I'm doing something very wrong. With foids personality is a huge meme, if you don't make the looks threshold there's no such thing as personality being a part of the equation. You've been ruled out before you had the chance to show it. But the same doesn't apply with male friends, at least not to the same extent.
Even on discord, which I have barely opened for the past few days, people are ignoring me. I message them, and message them again later, and again later. Eventually it's been three or four days and there's a "wall", or say 4-5 messages with several hours/days space in between them that go unanswered, and I just don't know what to do.
If I give up on messaging these people, it's very likely that we will never talk again. And I think I'm just going to let that happen at this point. This forum is a great cope for me, and I can talk with the people here.
Does this happen to you guys as well? it's genuinely such a terrible feeling when you realize that YOU have to be the problem for this to have occured so many times, and during such a long period of time.
Friends are a great cope. When I'm comfortable with someone I'm very low inhib, I can talk lots and I don't feel restricted in any sort of way. I guess I'm like a normie in that sense.
But it's starting to be clear to me that I'm doing something very wrong. With foids personality is a huge meme, if you don't make the looks threshold there's no such thing as personality being a part of the equation. You've been ruled out before you had the chance to show it. But the same doesn't apply with male friends, at least not to the same extent.
Even on discord, which I have barely opened for the past few days, people are ignoring me. I message them, and message them again later, and again later. Eventually it's been three or four days and there's a "wall", or say 4-5 messages with several hours/days space in between them that go unanswered, and I just don't know what to do.
If I give up on messaging these people, it's very likely that we will never talk again. And I think I'm just going to let that happen at this point. This forum is a great cope for me, and I can talk with the people here.
Does this happen to you guys as well? it's genuinely such a terrible feeling when you realize that YOU have to be the problem for this to have occured so many times, and during such a long period of time.
