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LifeFuel Don't let being incel take away the ability to find enjoyment in life

Samurai

Samurai

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I get how much being incel sucks, I know how even strangers insult us and reject us, even treating us differently even when they're being "polite" and NO I am not saying hobbies will make you ascend

However

There are some fun things in life. Whether it's the gym, sports, collecting, software development, writing, filmmaking, theology, etc, there's something for everyone out there that can be lifefuel and a good cope.

The only hobby I do not recommend becoming obsessed with is videogames as it can make you very sedentary which will be bad for your posture and health. Play in moderation. I'd advise abstaining from politics to the point it is consuming hours of your day too.

John 15:18 If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.
 
The only hobby I do not recommend becoming obsessed with is videogames as it can make you very sedentary which will be bad for your posture and health. Play in moderation. I'd advise abstaining from politics to the point it is consuming hours of your day too.
I feel called out.
 
I feel called out.
It's a common thing among guys like us, but the best thing we can do is to try and escape that. Watching Europa the last battle for the 20th time is not going to help your life.
 
Muay thai and BJJmaxxing to beat the shit out of normies and chads (in MMA)
 
Muay thai and BJJmaxxing to beat the shit out of normies and chads (in MMA)
I always liked kickboxing and karate, but I should probably just start focusing on BJJ instead of Karate.
 
I always liked kickboxing and karate, but I should probably just start focusing on BJJ instead of Karate.
Hell no stand-up striking is infinitely more effective irl. The only time you're going to use bjj is on a 1v1 with no weapons and normies don't like to 1v1 or not fight dirty
 
What enjoyment is there?

- Most incels are on minimum wage

- Can't find a female to date

- Can't move out of their parents homes

- Can't afford to do anything other than browse the internet

This isn't a 'incel' problem much anymore as its becoming a average male problem.
 
What enjoyment is there?

- Most incels are on minimum wage

- Can't find a female to date

- Can't move out of their parents homes

- Can't afford to do anything other than browse the internet

This isn't a 'incel' problem much anymore as its becoming a average male problem.
Sounds like laziness. Just because you're on minimum wage and live with your parents doesn't mean you can't have hobbies. I didn't list anything that's expensive or even greatly time consuming.
 
I think ultimately everything will lose its appeal
Copes r bound to fail for some people
 
I think ultimately everything will lose its appeal
Copes r bound to fail for some people
Definitely to some, that's when you have to try and spark your interest again, or find something else. Most people don't lose interest in hobbies they once loved.
 
Good point. I enjoy working out, fucking escorts… and sleeping.

Sleeping us underrated cope. I bought really good large bed and matress. I put on clean sheets often and bought AC to keep perfect temperature in the room. :feelscomfy:
 
Sounds like laziness. Just because you're on minimum wage and live with your parents doesn't mean you can't have hobbies. I didn't list anything that's expensive or even greatly time consuming.

So you like to collect sticks and call it a hobby. Its a cope but if it works for you.
 
I get how much being incel sucks, I know how even strangers insult us and reject us, even treating us differently even when they're being "polite" and NO I am not saying hobbies will make you ascend

However

There are some fun things in life. Whether it's the gym, sports, collecting, software development, writing, filmmaking, theology, etc, there's something for everyone out there that can be lifefuel and a good cope.

The only hobby I do not recommend becoming obsessed with is videogames as it can make you very sedentary which will be bad for your posture and health. Play in moderation. I'd advise abstaining from politics to the point it is consuming hours of your day too.

John 15:18 If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.

Lifefuel brocel
 
Another thing is you're probably not missing out that much if you're not Chad. For 80% of men if they ever get a girlfriend it's just some low IQ bitch nagging and weightmaxxing every year. There is no love or romance, everything is a meme nowadays and females are incapable of love.
 
So you like to collect sticks and call it a hobby. Its a cope but if it works for you.
Please name one hobby I listed that cost more than 25 dollars a month
 
I’d rather kill myself if continue to wageslave with no pussy
 
Please name one hobby I listed that cost more than 25 dollars a month

How old are you? 35+ as a sub-5 life has beaten you down so much that
you can barely function.

My current hobbies are photo editing, music ( in which no female wants to start a band after seeing pictures)
gaming, although live in a area where there is no decent public transport.
 
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Definitely to some, that's when you have to try and spark your interest again, or find something else. Most people don't lose interest in hobbies they once loved.
personally my only cope now is coom....used to read, do boxing, play guitar...i think the best cope is having a new foid every night....but i believe this cope would fail eventually too
 
personally my only cope now is coom....used to read, do boxing, play guitar...i think the best cope is having a new foid every night....but i believe this cope would fail eventually too
that is expensive and you could get a disease. go back to your former hobbies or take up a different combat sport and instrument perhaps?
 
I get how much being incel sucks, I know how even strangers insult us and reject us, even treating us differently even when they're being "polite" and NO I am not saying hobbies will make you ascend

However

There are some fun things in life. Whether it's the gym, sports, collecting, software development, writing, filmmaking, theology, etc, there's something for everyone out there that can be lifefuel and a good cope.

The only hobby I do not recommend becoming obsessed with is videogames as it can make you very sedentary which will be bad for your posture and health. Play in moderation. I'd advise abstaining from politics to the point it is consuming hours of your day too.

John 15:18 If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.
So I signed here but I had/have my doubt if I'm an Intel.

47 years old and never ever have had sex, even no paid sex, so if I understand it correctly I am a full Incel as never having be able to have sex is the fundament of being Incal, is that right?

But as OP mentioned, I did learn to have some joy in my life and that seems to not be "accepted" by many here?

I would not cheer on people to commit suicide. I do think they have the right tho.

I am def. NOT one who is in favour of ppl going on a violent (killing) spree. (I strongly reject it).

As OP said it can be a nice place here sometimes. When getting older I realised that.

And I also have the impression many people here would be much more positive if they could earn some money without doing a lot of work, they will think instantly different. And maybe even motivated to go to sleep on time because they feel they have something nice to do next day. A goal, even if it's just some grey stuff. It gives you skills.

So, what am I?

Now, I promise the post I will place here will be more coherent, better formulated and will check them carefully to make them grammatically correct. Now I type on a shity phone with my thick fingers and am a bit stoned and tired so l write without caring about it
 
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So I signed here but I had/have my doubt if I'm an Intel.

47 years old and never ever have had sex, even no paid sex, so if I understand it correctly I am a full Incel as never having be able to have sex is the fundament of being Incal, is that right?

But as OP mentioned, I did learn to have some joy in my life and that seems to not be "accepted" by many here?

I would not cheer on people to commit suicide. I do think they have the right tho.

I am def. NOT one who is in favour of ppl going on a violent (killing) spree. (I strongly reject it).

As OP said it can be a nice place here sometimes. When getting older I realised that.

And I also have the impression many people here would be much more positive if they could earn some money without doing a lot of work, they will think instantly different. And maybe even motivated to go to sleep on time because they feel they have something nice to do next day. A goal, even if it's just some grey stuff. It gives you skills.

So, what am I?

Now, I promise the post I will place here
You're welcome here my friend. Plenty of us on here have hobbies we find enjoyable, but some here indeed don't act in their best interest.
 
So I signed here but I had/have my doubt if I'm an Intel.

47 years old and never ever have had sex, even no paid sex, so if I understand it correctly I am a full Incel as never having be able to have sex is the fundament of being Incal, is that right?

But as OP mentioned, I did learn to have some joy in my life and that seems to not be "accepted" by many here?

I would not cheer on people to commit suicide. I do think they have the right tho.

I am def. NOT one who is in favour of ppl going on a violent (killing) spree. (I strongly reject it).

As OP said it can be a nice place here sometimes. When getting older I realised that.

And I also have the impression many people here would be much more positive if they could earn some money without doing a lot of work, they will think instantly different. And maybe even motivated to go to sleep on time because they feel they have something nice to do next day. A goal, even if it's just some grey stuff. It gives you skills.

So, what am I?

Now, I promise the post I will place here

Essentially we learned a little late that society lied to us. Not everyone is equal and a lot of people are
set up for failure. They then spend a lot of money trying to hush those who find out later.
 
No pussy = no life
 
You're welcome here my friend. Plenty of us on here have hobbies we find enjoyable, but some here indeed don't act in their best interest.
Thanks man! Feels good.

Is there a like function here? Tomorrow on PC things here will become more clear for me. Used to work on PC. Phones make me still anxious.
 
Thanks man! Feels good.

Is there a like function here? Tomorrow on PC things here will become more clear for me. Used to work on PC. Phones make me still anxious.
you can quote the reply without typing anything and press post, which demonstrates approval of the message
 
Hard to enjoy anything knowing you'll never fulfill your biological purpose
 
No pussy = no life
Until you decide to not care anymore.
Why keep feeling sad about what will not happen to you?

I don't want to sound preachy, it's my own personal experience. Complaining so many years and feeling a complete 0, a nobody just for that single fact. A lot of wasted time I did not use to find the other things that may make life better

How many here are also flat broke and how many from you broke guys (with all respect) do genuinely feel they are incels and will never enjoy life, with or without financial problems and how many admit,or doubt, if they would feel the same if they have a small steady income?

Call me out if you think I talk bull shit, I will not be offended because I will take it as a lesson and respect who you are and try to understand you.
 
What enjoyment is there?

- Most incels are on minimum wage

- Can't find a female to date

- Can't move out of their parents homes

- Can't afford to do anything other than browse the internet

This isn't a 'incel' problem much anymore as its becoming a average male proble.
 
I get how much being incel sucks, I know how even strangers insult us and reject us, even treating us differently even when they're being "polite" and NO I am not saying hobbies will make you ascend

However

There are some fun things in life. Whether it's the gym, sports, collecting, software development, writing, filmmaking, theology, etc, there's something for everyone out there that can be lifefuel and a good cope.

The only hobby I do not recommend becoming obsessed with is videogames as it can make you very sedentary which will be bad for your posture and health. Play in moderation. I'd advise abstaining from politics to the point it is consuming hours of your day too.

John 15:18 If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.
Real shit
 
100 procent agree on your last sentence.
 
Based message.
 
Playing Clash Royale and watching porn nonstop are my main copes.
 
that is expensive and you could get a disease. go back to your former hobbies or take up a different combat sport and instrument perhaps?
why disease? use condom,,its not a porn forum and i prolly cannot elaborate,,,fucked mentality jfl
 
Until you decide to not care anymore.
Why keep feeling sad about what will not happen to you?

I don't want to sound preachy, it's my own personal experience. Complaining so many years and feeling a complete 0, a nobody just for that single fact. A lot of wasted time I did not use to find the other things that may make life better

How many here are also flat broke and how many from you broke guys (with all respect) do genuinely feel they are incels and will never enjoy life, with or without financial problems and how many admit,or doubt, if they would feel the same if they have a small steady income?

Call me out if you think I talk bull shit, I will not be offended because I will take it as a lesson and respect who you are and try to understand you.
You joined today and say shit like this ? Gives off infiltrator vibes

@Fat Link @LeFrenchCel @PLA1092
 
Until you decide to not care anymore.
Why keep feeling sad about what will not happen to you?

I don't want to sound preachy, it's my own personal experience. Complaining so many years and feeling a complete 0, a nobody just for that single fact. A lot of wasted time I did not use to find the other things that may make life better

How many here are also flat broke and how many from you broke guys (with all respect) do genuinely feel they are incels and will never enjoy life, with or without financial problems and how many admit,or doubt, if they would feel the same if they have a small steady income?

Call me out if you think I talk bull shit, I will not be offended because I will take it as a lesson and respect who you are and try to understand you.
Just own nothing and be happy bro

Tbh I think many of us want a better life but we can't.

You're talking about getting money, but there aren't many ways of getting easy free money, and getting a job to get some financial stability is hard if not impossible if you don't have the looks, the non-autisticness or the relations.
 
Indeed....

Can only afford the internet? Learn stuff!

Living in you're mommies basement? Save money for emergencies or big ticket items or for land elsewhere....

Basically, take whatever cards you got dealt, and maximizemaxx them.
 
my mom is giving me antidepressants but i dont need them anymore i was more happy before them
 
I think ultimately everything will lose its appeal
Copes r bound to fail for some people

Relationships and people lose their appeal too especially if you're not worshipped by them for just existing (Chad).
 
Happiness is impossible without a girlfriend.
 
Relationships and people lose their appeal too especially if you're not worshipped by them for just existing (Chad).
Better gene naturally gets held in higher regard
 
Happiness is impossible without a girlfriend.
What's so great about having to give some stupid bitch "emotional comfort" everytime she decides to cry to feel "depressed" about some stupid shit?
 
You are welcome here brother. Yes you are an incel by the sound of it. Hope you like it here :feelsautistic:
 
There is nothing to enjoy.

I rot in my room
Failing university
Wanting to die more and more every day

Soon I’ll fucking end it all.
 
There is nothing to enjoy.

I rot in my room
Failing university
Wanting to die more and more every day

Soon I’ll fucking end it all.
Please don't my friend. God loves you.
 

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