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Experiment Does being Incel=Virgin?

Does being an incel=being a virgin? ESCORTS DO NOT COUNT.

  • Yes, being an incel requires you to be a virgin.

    Votes: 56 65.1%
  • No, you can be an incel even though you have had sex with a woman.

    Votes: 30 34.9%

  • Total voters
    86
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For the sake of discussion, escorts do not count.
Being a virgin means that you have never been validated, it means that girls considered you subhuman enough to not see you as a potential sexual partner.
It also means that you haven't truly experienced life as you've missed out on a vital part of life that all animals want to partake in.
Being a non-virgin means that at least one girl saw you as a potential partner which could potentially mean that there are many more girls out there that will find you attractive.
 
invisible has had sex but i would consider him incel, he's done 1000's of approaches & failed 100% of the time
 
Incel is a virgin to me. If you managed to get consexual sex before but never again you fall under the category of failed normie. There might be some rare exceptions
 
If you want a gf but can't get one, you're an incel.
 
If you pressed No , out out out
 
Not all virgins are incels, but all incels are virgins.
 
invisible has had sex but i would consider him incel, he's done 1000's of approaches & failed 100% of the time

+1

This forum is pretty aspie.

"HURR DURR I am a 5 year old boy. I am incel despite not having approached a girl before"

"I am 50 years old, was rejected by1000s of women, but got sex once from drunk single mum when I flew to Mozambique in 1995. Therefore the boy above who has never tried can call himself incel whereas I can't"

That's where this forum stands because fucking

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Black and White thinking
 
incel in my eyes are guy who never had free consensual sex with a women, fucking hookers won't magically void incel stigma since you can't get laid without giving whore money and forcing her to have sex with you (while in reality you are so hideous she would never even look at you at the street and prob laugh at you after you get out of her rented room)
 
Just lol at non virgin incels aka fakecels.
 
I was on a pua forum years ago and there was a guy who literally did over 10,000 approaches. He got a small handful of lays.

The issue isint whether or not a guy is a virgin its how much effort it is to get laid. Approaching 500 women to get a date is not normal.
 
If you're 3/10 as a young man and gets sex with some ugly chick after 1000 approaches, and then gets older and your looks fade to a 2/10, so you can't get anything anymore, you're way more of an incel than decent looking guys who don't have sex because they don't even try or have high standards.
 
ehhh, i dont have a problem with escortcels but as a truecel virgin id rather just stay this way than pay for affection.
 
ehhh, i dont have a problem with escortcels but as a truecel virgin id rather just stay this way than pay for affection.

No one has a problem with escortcels, escortcels are just virgins that cope by paying whores.
I might try it one day.
 
Only virgins can be incels.
 
It is not black and white.

In order for virginity to be involuntary, you need to try and hustle.

Being virgin and claim incel doesnt make you one, just so you know. Now, if you are 18yo and already lost your virginity and had a gf, then you are not an incel.

But lets say you are 32yo who lost your virginity at age 28 after a life time of rejections and trying, you are obviously incel.

Take Faceandlms for example, an oldcel who tried more than this whole forum COMBINED, had a facial surgery to looksmaxx, literally traveled to US to meet with a girl , only to get ghosted and meet up with an incel instead.

and you, 18yo basement dweller who spam hyperbole "kill the stacey" threads over and over again, are more incel than him because you are virgin ? gtfo

and this is coming from a 27yo KHHDV who has gone through a life time of rejection.
You're a 10/10 Chad who slays left and right. Your country enters a war and you get sent to fight only to return disfigured in the face and with no legs. Now you find yourself unable to get any female attention, are you an incel now?
 
So being incel is a state of being that encompasses the inability to attract AND/OR maintain a partner according to you?

If an virgin incel gets a girlfriend and loses his virginity but the next day is dumped, is he still an incel?
 
yes it is more about INABILITY to get a gf/sex rather than being a virgin.
your LOOKS matter a lot obviously
your age matters

take weed for example, faker than a 3 dollar bill. 19yo GL kid who isnt even virgin claims to be incel. Make no mistake even if he was virgin, i was still gonna call him a fakecel/volcel.

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A 39yo ugly dude who had sex once with a drunk landwhale is not an incel ?
Yes I agree with you I just wanted to know what you thought. Involuntary celibate; someone who, for various reasons, cannot enter into a sexual and/or romantic relationship even though they desire such a thing. Various reasons is the key word.
 
Noo if you dont even try or never ask a girl out you will stay virgin even if they show you interest. Trust me i know where im talking about
 
yes it is more about INABILITY to get a gf/sex rather than being a virgin.
your LOOKS matter a lot obviously
your age matters

take weed for example, faker than a 3 dollar bill. 19yo GL kid who isnt even virgin claims to be incel. Make no mistake even if he was virgin, i was still gonna call him a fakecel/volcel.

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A 39yo ugly dude who had sex once with a drunk landwhale is not an incel ?
mogs me
 
eh this is where we disagree a little bit

looks >>>>>>>>>>>> brains when it comes to inceldom

I've seen so many "shy" "highinhib" mentalcels escape when they followed the advices people gave them.

To be honest, I see most "mentalcels" here as volcels rather than incels.
How are mentalcels volcel if their chemical arrangements are even further from their control? I consider myself mentalcel as well as lookcel, however with a haircut, shaving or keeping stubble, clearing my face, and a couple surgeries I might be able to ascend a couple levels in the looks scale. But I will always be stuck with this brain and can never be normal.

What advice do mentalcels get? I'll try it to determine if I'm a truecel or not.
 
Yea, virgins are incel with the exception of escorts.
 
Truecel yes. Incel no.

As for the incel definition is really does depend on their age. An 18 year old student who lost his virginity freshman year of college and still claims incel because he hasn't fucked again by junior/senior year is still not incel. Must be way over graduation to qualify. If you lost it by your early 20s and you're nearing 30 without any relationships since that one event, yes, you are incel. Not truecel, but an incel nonetheless.
 
Virgin here. I think you can be incel if the bitch you had sex with dumped you and you can't find another.
 
dude are u running a script that notifies you whenever i write weed ? it doesnt take more than 5 min for you to drop by whenever i mention you
I got people..
 
Just because you lost your virginity early in life doesn't mean you can't develop either a mental disorder, physical impairment, etc. that will make you incel later in life.
 
19 votes saying no. 19 fakecels
 
I disagree - if your face turns into deadpool or the thing and no one wants to touch you, hire you, interact with you - then you can still be incel.
 
Just because you lost your virginity early in life doesn't mean you can't develop either a mental disorder, physical impairment, etc. that will make you incel later in life.
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Just because you lost your virginity early in life doesn't mean you can't develop either a mental disorder, physical impairment, etc. that will make you incel later in life.
I disagree - if your face turns into deadpool or the thing and no one wants to touch you, hire you, interact with you - then you can still be incel.
Exactly. Truecels are natural-born but even an otherwise handsome guy can potentially end up an incel if something unfortunate happens. I was a good-looking kid in my teens with no shortage of female admirers, a sweet life of slaying lay ahead.....and then my skin went nova and morphed me into the fucking Elephant Man, game over.
 
Take Faceandlms for example, an oldcel who tried more than this whole forum COMBINED, had a facial surgery to looksmaxx, literally traveled to US to meet with a girl , only to get ghosted and meet up with an incel instead.
Wow. Where did you gather this info about FaceandLMS? Do you have a link?
 
yes it is more about INABILITY to get a gf/sex rather than being a virgin.
your LOOKS matter a lot obviously
your age matters

take weed for example, faker than a 3 dollar bill. 19yo GL kid who isnt even virgin claims to be incel. Make no mistake even if he was virgin, i was still gonna call him a fakecel/volcel.

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A 39yo ugly dude who had sex once with a drunk landwhale is not an incel ?

What the fuck? Weed isn't a virgin?????????
 
i think it depends. if someone got lucky once in like 39 years i feel that they qualify as an incel. they have tried very hard to escape, escaped, but then can't do it anymore due to looks or whatever have you. such as faceandlms

it's a very touchy topic because it depends on situations, but 99% of the time an incel is a virgin.
 
such cases are probably very rare.
for example imagine a guy who started puberty later than anyone else in his friends circle, and had the face & body of a 12 year old boy until his early 20s, probably experiencing extreme harassment and bullying through most of his life.
someone like that would probably leave HS and enter adult life with no social circle, no social skills, very limited life experience and multiple mental disorders, just like anyone else on this forum. he might develop a good looking face later (maybe even good enough to meet someone on a dating site) but with no friends and no social skills his life is pretty much fucked unless he makes up for it with a good career. and the chances of that happening with all that mental baggage are slim at best.

i think that's the case with most "fakecels" posting here
 
A virgin can be both a future Chad or an Incel.
 
You don't have to be a virgin to be an incel, but only if happened a long time ago and you're unable to do it again.
 
Escorts don't count.
 
Just because you lost your virginity early in life doesn't mean you can't develop either a mental disorder, physical impairment, etc. that will make you incel later in life.
girls are less judgmental at the early ages.
 
I'd evaluate on a case by case basis, but in general I'd say yes.

If you had sex when you were 16 then never did again and you're like 47, you could probably qualify as an honorary incel. Crying because you had a dry spell for a year or two and you're a fakecel until proven otherwise.
 

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