Does being extremelly high inhibition make you a volcel?

[Total Imbecile]

People here say that you shouldnt call yourself incel if you have never asked a girl out, and as it happens Ive never approached a girl in my life

On the flip side I know for a fact that I will get rejected even if I do attempt to approach

This is due to being very ugly, there is no debating this, my high inhibition probably stems directly from me being sub4

My question is, do most people here think Im volcel because of this rather than incel? I consider myself incel tbh, keep in mind Im a KHV at 21 without any female friends

 

[Virginp0wers2]

how do you know for a fact if youve never asked. You calling yourself ugly isnt valid logic unless youve tried tinder / okcupid for ratings.

( also getting rejected irl is brutal 0/10 wouldnt recommend)

 

[Cynistic]

I know its over so I dont even bother with approaching.
Only truecels feel the same.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I am scared of rejections and this is why I never tried

 

[Deleted member 3155]

No. Not approaching makes sense when you know you'll get rejected anyway.

 

[Deleted member]

lol, no. voting "yes" on that poll is legit supporting the moronic personality theory argument. females approach males they find attractive themselves so you don't need to do anything except be good looking to get laid.

 

[Tellem--T]

I am scared of rejections and this is why I never tried

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No. Not approaching makes sense when you know you'll get rejected anyway.

 

[_incelinside]

lol, no. voting "yes" on that poll is legit supporting the moronic personality theory argument. females approach males they find attractive themselves so you don't need to do anything except be good looking to get laid.

Maybe for 7+ males. The 5-6 males are in a grey area where they could succeed by putting in the effort and approaching.

 

[Total Imbecile]

No. Not approaching makes sense when you know you'll get rejected anyway.

This is pretty much my logic, 100% I would get rejected. I dont even have friends (only MALE acquaintances) so thinking that a girl would go out with me is lol worthy

I guess you could argue were less incel than someone whos made 100s of approaches but not wanting to be brutally rejected and hurt is just natural

 

[Deleted member]

Maybe for 7+ males. The 5-6 males are in a grey area where they could succeed by putting in the effort and approaching.

if, by "success", you mean getting together with a female that doesn't find you attractive, sure.

 

[_incelinside]

if, by "success", you mean getting together with a female that doesn't find you attractive, sure.

If the goal is to escape and get with a female which should be everyone's goal here tbh

 

[Crustaciouse]

You don't have to ask out a female to know that they find you disgusting.

 

[Cynistic]

You don't have to ask out a female to know that they find you disgusting.

 

[ItheIthe]

High inhib is legit.

I was once so high inhib that I would literally get red and sweaty at the thought of doing mundane things such as blowing my nose, sharpening a pencil, or closing the blinds in school because I hated drawing attention to myself.

 

[KV3]

Depends. In some circumstances it makes you mentalcel and in some volcel.

 

[whogivesafucc]

I've never even had a conversation with a girl in my life. I'm just too fucking scared, I never even look at them. It's pointless anyway, she'll just call me a weirdo creep and spit in my face or some shit.

I inhibitionmog everyone on this planet, the only time I can be normal is on the internet.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

Post your pick here so we can see if you are a TRUECEL.

 

[Total Imbecile]

Post your pick here so we can see if you are a TRUECEL.

My dick is likely below avg, its fits in my hand + some more over. Guys in porn regularly have dicks that require two hands to handle

 

[TheRealChincel]

You can’t choose to be high inhib, so no.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

My dick is likely below avg, its fits in my hand + some more over. Guys in porn regularly have dicks that require two hands to handle

Your face is more important than your dick.

 

[Total Imbecile]

Your face is more important than your dick.

So why are you asking me about my dick then lmao

 

[KilluminoidBR]

So why are you asking me about my dick then lmao

Post your PICK

PICTURE

 

[Total Imbecile]

Post your PICK

PICTURE

Fuck Im retarded, misread it as "dick"

 

[Its_OVER]

You don't have to ask out a female to know that they find you disgusting.

 

[Martialartscel]

I used to think that you must keep trying and getting rejected to be an incel.

Now my thinking is that if your body and mind are craving sex and intimacy and you abstain because you're afraid or believe it's hopeless, what does it matter if you're right or not? You're still suffering and are not having your needs met. No one is behaving like that naturally - if you're so afraid or dejected that you're willing to waste away your sexual prime, it's because society has made you feel that way. If girls reject guys who are more attractive than you, why would you add to your suffering by trying and failing. Fuck that.

 

[blackpill_incel]

No. Not approaching makes sense when you know you'll get rejected anyway.

My advice to everyone saying this: try a lot like I used to and after getting 0 validation and all rejections, then you have permission to rot in peace

 

[Deleted member 3155]

No. Not approaching makes sense when you know you'll get rejected anyway.

My advice to everyone saying this: try a lot like I used to and after getting 0 validation and all rejections, then you have permission to rot in peace

I'm autistic and low status so I don't need to try to know that it's over.

 

[grayjedi90]

No

Let's play a game 

>be me
>27 years old
>no friends or girlfriend
>a bit below average looking probably low tier normie level but complete mentalcel with no social skills

Imagine you are me and go "socializing" to bars, clubs or discos. What could you accomplish there? You have no social skills and friends so speaking to strangers doesn't matter if women or men is a pain in the ass for you. Even if you speak to someone you don't know what to talk about and people will end the conversation fast and dislike you. At best you make yourself look like an awkward guy. In the worst case you will look like a complete fool trying to socialize.

 

[Bernard]

I voted yes, but on second thought I guess no. If your legit subhuman there isn´t really any point. If you´re a normie though, I think approaching girls can make all the difference, and some drugs can temporarily fix high inhibition and social anxiety

 

[BeyondHope]

Maybe in the 90s but nowdays inhibition doesn't matter.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

if, by "success", you mean getting together with a female that doesn't find you attractive, sure.

The fuck are you talking about? Have you ever left your house before? 4-6/10's get laid and sex constantly. Lol at thinking that girls arent attracted to guys in that range. Just lol at mentalcels who think girls are going to approach them, no, YOU are going to have to approach.

 

[kvn]

I always consider trying and failing much more preferable to not trying at all. The only exception is anythin that has to do with people because based on living in my brain for 25 yrs i know for a fact i would fail anyway.

High inhib is just your brains logical reaction to the fact you have no chance of success.

 

[VLÖ]

The fuck are you talking about? Have you ever left your house before? 4-6/10's get laid and sex constantly. Lol at thinking that girls arent attracted to guys in that range. Just lol at mentalcels who think girls are going to approach them, no, YOU are going to have to approach.

As a personal who actually has left the house, I can say that is complete bullshit lmao. A womyn will make it VERY clear she's interested in you, any "approaching" you do is merely symbolic and doesn't actually mean anything. Just saying "Hi" as an attractive guy is enough to be called an "approach".

If you're ugly/she's not interested in you, she'll most likely just stare at her phone and not even bat an eye at you.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

As a personal who actually has left the house, I can say that is complete bullshit lmao. A womyn will make it VERY clear she's interested in you, any "approaching" you do is merely symbolic and doesn't actually mean anything. Just saying "Hi" as an attractive guy is enough to be called an "approach".

If you're ugly/she's not interested in you, she'll most likely just stare at her phone and not even bat an eye at you.

Yeah, if you mean saying hi and following it up with a conversation, if they're inetrested they'll carry on from there. The mentalcels on here cant even do anything as simple as that.

 

[Deleted member]

The fuck are you talking about? Have you ever left your house before? 4-6/10's get laid and sex constantly. Lol at thinking that girls arent attracted to guys in that range. Just lol at mentalcels who think girls are going to approach them, no, YOU are going to have to approach.

have you ever been in any social circles? normies DEFINITELY don’t “sex constantly”. they’re all servants to their female because they’re expendable and they know it. females use sex solely as a carrot at the end of a stick to drive the mule in these kinds of relationships. this of course means that sex is a monthly, if that, activity for most of these normies that you believe “sex constantly”.

don’t worry, little buddy. i’m sure that lots of females are attracted to you, they’re just too shy to open up (even though they aren’t shy at all in the presence of Chad for some reason). be confident, remember to hold frame and just approach.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

have you ever been in any social circles? normies DEFINITELY don’t “sex constantly”. they’re all servants to their female because they’re expendable to the female and they know it.

don’t worry, little buddy. i’m sure that lots of females are attracted to you, they’re just too shy to open up (even though they aren’t shy at all in the presence of Chad for some reason). be confident, remember to hold frame and just approach.

COPE. Lmao, HAVE YOU ever been in any social circle? My normie friends and acquaintances with girlfriends fuck them or fuck girls at parties. How would you know they arent have sex and are all "servants" unless you're literally stalking them around 24/7. This "sub 8's or 7's" aren't attractive to females shit is retarded. As long as you're 4-6 you can get sex and girlfriends. You dont understand that girls find guys in the 4-6 range attractive and will give them small signals, but they arent going to approach them, the guys in that range have to approach 90% of the time

 

[Deleted member]

COPE. Lmao, HAVE YOU ever been in any social circle? My normie friends and acquaintances with girlfriends fuck them or fuck girls at parties. How would you know they arent have sex and are all "servants" unless you're literally stalking them around 24/7. This "sub 8's or 7's" aren't attractive to females shit is retarded. As long as you're 4-6 you can get sex and girlfriends. You dont understand that girls find guys in the 4-6 range attractive and will give them small signals, but they arent going to approach them, the guys in that range have to approach 90% of the time

you don’t need to stalk anyone. you can just observe how they interact with their female to see who is the dominant one in the relationship.

so, you believe that females find guys in the 4-6 range genuinely attractive, but they don’t approach them or make it obvious they find them attractive like they do for Chad. please tell me, what do you believe the reason behind this to be, if not lack of attraction?

 

[Deleted member 1039]

you don’t need to stalk anyone. you can just observe how they interact with their female to see who is the dominant one in the relationship.

so, you believe that females find guys in the 4-6 range genuinely attractive, but they don’t approach them or make it obvious they find them attractive like they do for Chad. please tell me, what do you believe the reason behind this to be, if not lack of attraction?

It's pretty simple dude. They're attracted to them, just not enough to want to approach them. If guy approaches and they like his personality and aren't holding out for a better looking guy, he's in. I've seen my sub 7 acquaintances do this.

 

[Blackpill101]

I'm both high inhibition and ugly in terms of looks. A literal truecel.

 

[NeverSubmit]

I told you guys before approaching women is a scam created by PUA's. If a woman is attracted to you she is going to initiate interest in you and all you really have to do is reciprocate that interest.

 

[Deleted member]

It's pretty simple dude. They're attracted to them, just not enough to want to approach them. If guy approaches and they like his personality and aren't holding out for a better looking guy, he's in. I've seen my sub 7 acquaintances do this.

that means they're not attracted to them. you're either attracted to someone, or you're not. there is no such thing as someone being attracted to you but not enough to talk to you or something, that just means they're not attracted to you. your argument is completely incoherent so i'm going to cut it off here. i hope you get better soon.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

that means they're not attracted to them. you're either attracted to someone, or you're not. there is no such thing as someone being attracted to you but not enough to talk to you or something, that just means they're not attracted to you. your argument is completely incoherent so i'm going to cut it off right here. i hope you get better soon.

Are you fucking stupid? Do you know how many incels on here are attracted to women but won't approach or talk to them. Girls don't approach or talk to every single guy they find attractive. Keep coping retard. Your argument makes no sense.

 

[jackbud]

Eh, possibly. I think, if you don't have 100% proof of your incel status you shouldn't be complaining yet.

 

[BlackPill47]

Being high-inhibition can make you a volcel, but I do not believe that never approaching an FHO makes one a volcel though.