Does anyone else here suffer from social anxiety?

[punpun1]

I don't know where it came from but university started yesterday and I was having fucking panic attacks throughout the class seeing everyone huddled in their own groups while I was all by myself. My Apple watch kept beeping at me about my heart rate. I don't know which came first: my inceldom or my social anxiety. I'm a graycel so I can't upload the screenshots. I've been trying to "put myself out there" but I still have 0 friends and I saw the 4/10 tall guy take the one girl I was interested in. She was smiling ear to ear and they were hugging each other looking in each other's eyes and I just awkwardly said "hi" and "gotta get to class" when I speedily walked away from that nightmare fuel. How was your first day of uni?

 

[fatecel]

 

[fatecel]

I get nervous talking to people over the phone now….

 

[punpun1]

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LMAO. I do feel so fucking retarded. To be fair, I went hikikomori for a bit and that completely screwed over my social skills.

 

[IceMan2000]

"Social anxiety" is just a natural response when normies treat you like shit for being ugly/non NT so you naturally avoid them over time and never get any good opportunities to properly socialize. Its a self perpetuating cycle.

Chads conveniently never have any social anxiety.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

"Social anxiety" is just a natural response

Yeah. I wasn't born shy.

 

[guessthatsit]

Yeah. I wasn't born shy.

"Social anxiety" is just a natural response when normies treat you like shit for being ugly/non NT so you naturally avoid them over time and never get any good opportunities to properly socialize. Its a self perpetuating cycle.

Chads conveniently never have any social anxiety.

 

[DutchCel01]

Yes. It stems from lack of positive reinforcement when you are a child and teenager trying to make friends and be social (imo)

 

[JKlancecaster069]

Yes social interaction makes me quite uncomfortable so I avoid it.

 

[Rapistcel]

I don't know where it came from but university started yesterday and I was having fucking panic attacks throughout the class seeing everyone huddled in their own groups while I was all by myself. My Apple watch kept beeping at me about my heart rate. I don't know which came first: my inceldom or my social anxiety. I'm a graycel so I can't upload the screenshots. I've been trying to "put myself out there" but I still have 0 friends and I saw the 4/10 tall guy take the one girl I was interested in. She was smiling ear to ear and they were hugging each other looking in each other's eyes and I just awkwardly said "hi" and "gotta get to class" when I speedily walked away from that nightmare fuel. How was your first day of uni?

I'm scared of everything

 

[Ellsworth]

Social and all types of anxiety, yes.

 

[XtremeMax]

Yes I hate going outside and I can't talk to anyone. I have no irl friends.

 

[The_word_made_flesh]

I'm a total autist dork I rarely socialize in public mostly just online really ,I have a few friends but not many .I put on a brave face in public but inside am panicing

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Yes. It stems from lack of positive reinforcement when you are a child and teenager trying to make friends and be social (imo)

Your opinion is correct about social anxiety, do you think CHAD has social anxiety? Of course not, he’s too busy getting his dick sucked by Becky and Stacy.

 

[FreeCipher]

I get nervous talking to people over the phone now….

Yes social interaction makes me quite uncomfortable so I avoid it.

Socializing seems like a foreign practice that others can do that I cannot.

Yes. It stems from lack of positive reinforcement when you are a child and teenager trying to make friends and be social (imo)

Definitely this

 

[all this time]

I get nervous talking to people over the phone now….

i do too yet irl i can easily talk to normies because im dissociated from them, but idk where i ended up getting traumatized from calls but i hate taking phone calls , part of it is because i know people wpuldnt be disrespectful over the phone if we were face to face i have to punch myself to take calls

 

[GrandWizard_137]

Yes. Since childhood.

 

[heartbound]

I was mocked and rejected from the group as early as I can remember, so it feels normal to withdraw. Even communicating online raises my blood pressure, which is part of the reason I waited so long to get an account. Hell, even Omegle, anonymous and all, was terrifying.

 

[SilentScream]

Social anxiety does not exist. It's part of the mental-illness-hoax. That's a very basic blackpill honestly.
Children are ugly and/or different (weird) and get bullied, ostracized, resulting in withdrawal. Prolonged exclusion and bullying leads to "social anxiety" as an adaptive trait to protect you from other people (logic: If you avoid everyone, nobody can hurt you).

Regarding the mental illness propaganda. Pharmacy wants you to believe it's a sickness so you pop pills for it. That's obviously not going to work. There is exactly one 'cure' and it's positive social interactions: People being nice to you. 99% of people with social anxiety are abused and bullied and they would flourish if they ever had an actual sense of belonging and community. Nobody enjoys living in complete isolation. We simply lack supportive friends and family.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

I don't know where it came from but university started yesterday and I was having fucking panic attacks throughout the class seeing everyone huddled in their own groups while I was all by myself. My Apple watch kept beeping at me about my heart rate. I don't know which came first: my inceldom or my social anxiety. I'm a graycel so I can't upload the screenshots. I've been trying to "put myself out there" but I still have 0 friends and I saw the 4/10 tall guy take the one girl I was interested in. She was smiling ear to ear and they were hugging each other looking in each other's eyes and I just awkwardly said "hi" and "gotta get to class" when I speedily walked away from that nightmare fuel. How was your first day of uni?

I used to but not anymore. I guess its part of growing. You could go to thERapy tho, it could help

 

[Sungnodius]

I used to but not anymore. I guess its part of growing. You could go to thERapy tho, it could help

It does help somewhat.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

yes

 

[Autistic Uggo]

Fakecel if you feel comfortable around human beings.

 

[drowningindenial]

"Social anxiety" is just a natural response when normies treat you like shit for being ugly/non NT so you naturally avoid them over time and never get any good opportunities to properly socialize. Its a self perpetuating cycle.

Chads conveniently never have any social anxiety.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I feel nothing

 

[ULTRAMAN]

i was very amused by the explanation of psychology regarding social anxiety because psychologists explain it as “wrong thoughts” of the person. of course psychologists are lying to you. they are not wrong thoughts, when i tried to integrate i always occupied the inferior place and suffered all kinds of intimidation. social rejection exists and psychology is playing dumb trying to blame you saying that you are the one who does not want to integrate. obviously chad if he joins any group he will always be the leader and will be respected by the majority and will never be intimidated, except by another chad who wants to take his place. that will never happen to us.

 

[Pufff]

Social anxiety does not exist. It's part of the mental-illness-hoax. That's a very basic blackpill honestly.
Children are ugly and/or different (weird) and get bullied, ostracized, resulting in withdrawal. Prolonged exclusion and bullying leads to "social anxiety" as an adaptive trait to protect you from other people (logic: If you avoid everyone, nobody can hurt you).

Regarding the mental illness propaganda. Pharmacy wants you to believe it's a sickness so you pop pills for it. That's obviously not going to work. There is exactly one 'cure' and it's positive social interactions: People being nice to you. 99% of people with social anxiety are abused and bullied and they would flourish if they ever had an actual sense of belonging and community. Nobody enjoys living in complete isolation. We simply lack supportive friends and family.

 

[justuseless]

It gets better with age

 

[Wrath88]

Nereden geldiğini bilmiyorum ama üniversite dün başladı ve ben tek başımayken herkesin kendi gruplarına toplandığını görünce ders boyunca panik atakları geçirdim. Apple saatim kalp atış hızım hakkında bana sürekli bip sesi atıyordu. Hangisinin önce geldiğini bilmiyorum: inceldom mu yoksa sosyal anksiyete mi. Gri hücreliyim bu yüzden ekran görüntüleri yükleyemiyorum. "Kendimi ortaya koymaya" çalışıyorum ama hala 0 arkadaşım var ve 4/10 boyundaki adamın ilgimi çeken tek kızı aldığını gördüm. Kız kulaktan kulağa gülümsüyordu ve birbirlerine sarılmışlar, birbirlerinin gözlerinin içine bakıyorlardı ve ben sadece garip bir şekilde "merhaba" ve "derslere gitmeliyim" derken o kabus yakıtından hızla uzaklaştım. Üniversitedeki ilk günün nas

I am ugly (my jaw is set back and I have shitty skin) and on top of that I have a congenital AVPD and high inhibition problem, very very high.

Now let me try to solve your problem, if you are suspicious about social anxiety, you are probably not really anxious because social anxiety continues from early adolescence to old age, meaning you experience it constantly. It blocks your feelings, thoughts, and behaviors socially in every way, so you cannot express yourself comfortably.

There are degrees of anxiety, usually high, medium and low. I don't know what level you are at, but do you feel like you are avoiding social situations, experiencing stress and distress, or constantly feeling like people are watching you?