Venting Does anybody else finds relationships scary?

[guessthatsit]

Imagine you got in a relationship and the foid is more experienced than you (let's be real that WILL be the case for us) so now you have to be on guard 24x7 and scan for hints that she might be cheating on you/ talking to her etc. I see normie men doing everything right and they still get tricked by their gfs so seeing this kind of stuff scares me very much.

 

[nirvana]

Only enter a relationship with the mentality that she is not yours, it's just your turn to enjoy her, otherwise you will end up disappointed and deeply hurt. Easier said than done, and it's not like I have any experience with this kind of thing, but that's what I see myself doing.

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

U would need to try to not get attached and dont be loyal to her. Always chat with other foids if u can and let them know maybe not verbally that u are in relationship, that would signal that u are desired and even when you lose your girlfriend you have some options. Of course if you are clingy with it and girlfriend would see that u are doing it only to make her jealous, she would try to revenge cheat on u or mirror your behaviour. Thats some redpill shit but i think it would work the best.

 

[Karlicel]

Dont have kids with non virgins foids.
Due to telegony your kids are not even yours but the result of the sperm from previous chads.
In Short Dating, Sex and Relationships are not worth it in 2026 if you arent a teen or such a chad you can fuck virgin lolis.

 

[Blaulicht]

Imagine you got in a relationship and the foid is more experienced than you (let's be real that WILL be the case for us) so now you have to be on guard 24x7 and scan for hints that she might be cheating on you/ talking to her etc. I see normie men doing everything right and they still get tricked by their gfs so seeing this kind of stuff scares me very much.

Foids can’t be inexperienced because they start to get pumped and dumped as soon as they hit puberty.

The rest has always been like that. Foids will leave you as soon as they get the slightest bit of attention from chad. Normie men are just to cucked to see it.
Imagine how brutal it must be to spend all your time and energy into some foid who will leave you for a woman beater because he’s taller than you, or more attractive, or has more money …

 

[Todd Thundercock]

U would need to try to not get attached and dont be loyal to her. Always chat with other foids if u can and let them know maybe not verbally that u are in relationship, that would signal that u are desired and even when you lose your girlfriend you have some options. Of course if you are clingy with it and girlfriend would see that u are doing it only to make her jealous, she would try to revenge cheat on u or mirror your behaviour. Thats some redpill shit but i think it would work the best.

Once you get to this mindset with females, it's too much trouble and getting escorts is the wiser decision.

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

Once you get to this mindset with females, it's too much trouble and getting escorts is the wiser decision.

But if that was a case, every incel would use escorts and be atleast somewhat happy, my point is atleast for a while u can feel better about yourself and not be a faggot slave in relationship.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

I see normie men doing everything right and they still get tricked by their gfs so seeing this kind of stuff scares me very much.

I've seen so many moggers get cheated, manipulated and robbed by their gfs or wives
Let them have it

 

[Todd’s Pay Pig]

Once you get to this mindset with females, it's too much trouble and getting escorts is the wiser decision.

Relationshits are useless in todays world unless you’re Chad and snapped up some relatively attractive bitch way back in highschool when you were both young 18 year olds in your prime.

You can then put in your 10-15 years with her, possibly spread your genes with her by breeding her (if that’s your thing) all before she inevitably gets bored of you and divorce rapes you and takes the kids and the house that you built and paid for so she can fuck a Chad half your age in your bed.

Bitch: “We’ve grown apart”

Guy: Yeah, right you lying bitch. You just want to go fuck other guys!

So worth it even if you’re a Chad?

I’ll let everyone else decide.

That said pump n dump is the wisest course of action in today’s world or fucking whores like you did for a while there grotty boy as even the so called “normal” supposedly mentally healthy women are polyamorous, toxic, mean spirited, entitled, narcissistic, feminist cunts and the rest are BPD’s!

There’s no shelter here.

Or as Saruman might put it:

“There will be no dawn for men”.

 

[Neurotic]

Don’t forget about all the normie men who will constantly try to ego and humiliate you

 

[ogercel]

Yes im scared as modern foids are home wreckers

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

I think they’re dumb because foids are dumb

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

I have more chance of winning a lottery.

 

[anglocelticcel]

Kinda honestly, also as I’m not right in the head

 

[Domery]

Nah.

 

[Grodd]

I have more chance of winning a lottery.

 

[OverLoner]

Hard to fear something that will never be mine. Instead I get mogged in public everyday I work. Saw a couple teenagers making out as I was cleaning up my department one day. Just another thing I will never have.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Dont have kids with non virgins foids.
Due to telegony your kids are not even yours but the result of the sperm from previous chads.
In Short Dating, Sex and Relationships are not worth it in 2026 if you arent a teen or such a chad you can fuck virgin lolis.

 

[Caichan]

That’s a problem I never considered, will never get there. But yes I could imagine it being horrible.

 

[Kshatriya]

What is truly scary is that you wont have any idea on what to do because lack of previous experience, so you have to put on a façade with the risk of being discovered

 

[Barlog]

Yes bro i sleep with the light on because of it

 

[Mango]

Even if I betabuxx and get some local girl from my ancestral third world shithole, It just seems like a PITA.

I have to send money back home, co sign on a new Mercedes lease every few years, buy her a new designer bag every time she gets bored of her current one, $60k house remodel because she got “inspiration for our home” on instagram, take her on vacations every year…. The best I’ll get in return is some pity starfish sex while she secretly goes out and has the time of her life with Chad. Then she’ll monkeybranch and I get taken to the cleaners in the divorce court.

Literally no point

 

[DeformedDysgenicCel]

Knowing that females are evil, i'd say yes. Not only you lack experience, but you lack the most important thing to keep the female in the relationshit: looks.

 

[autisticsoy]

yes and because of this and autism and relationship that by a miracle occurred would never last long

 

[Yunoo]

Imagine you got in a relationship and the foid is more experienced than you (let's be real that WILL be the case for us) so now you have to be on guard 24x7 and scan for hints that she might be cheating on you/ talking to her etc. I see normie men doing everything right and they still get tricked by their gfs so seeing this kind of stuff scares me very much.

That’s one of the many reasons why I find the idea of being in a relationship exhausting