Discussion Do your parents think you're gay because you've never had a girlfriend?

[Kourageous Kanga]

my family thinks I'm a pedophile and the other thinks I'm shy and don't try hard enough

10/10 shitpost

 

[Friezacel]

Nowadays he knows that I am for so called white Sharia and he wen't on a brutal blue pill rage over this.

How did he find out ?

 

[TooSomething]

How did he find out ?

Because told him, straight up when we've had another discussion about me being single, still.

I dropped the BP on him and told him my ideal solution to the foid question.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Idk, what’s more likely is that they think I can never get a gf bc of how I look

Also:

Trucel trait: No one has ever asked if/why you don’t have a girlfriend.

 

[glutty]

they don't care if i get a girlfriend or not

 

[ezio6]

trucel trait

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

my mom just stopped asking when im gonna give her any grandchildren

 

[Runt171]

My parents think I am, but they don't want to say it. Instead, other members of my family told me bluntly. I have a somewhat effeminate appearance, and since I've never had a girlfriend, people often think I'm gay. I've even been attacked in the street because they thought I was gay
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When I was 16 my dad thought I was gay because of it

He asked me If I was gay And I said yes just to troll him and I was barely holding myself from laughing or showing that I was just fucking with him
He was so disappointed but he was trying to act like he didn’t care it was funny asf

Im pretty sure when I told him I was joking like 15 mins later he said “Thank fuck “ or something along the lines of that

I dont even blame him tbh

 

[Solid State]

My parents just thought that I was highly unlikely to ever find a partner, gay or not.

 

[fedded]

Nah but they probably think i'm pathetic

 

[outerdarkness]

Idk, what’s more likely is that they think I can never get a gf bc of how I look

Also:

Might be the same for me, my parents never
brought it up to me and I never brought it up with them.

Not sure if it matters where people are from? I’m from the Midwest and we tend to be less blunt and not talk about people’s personal life.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Might be the same for me, my parents never
brought it up to me and I never brought it up with them.

I apologize if my reply is too long, you don't have to read it, it's a bit of a ramble.

I brought it up first time like 6 years ago. Then 5 years ago (I was 23 then) I told her look, I want a gf one day and that I want to get surgery (I was coping then) so I can feel more secure.

She said ok let's go see some surgeons. I ended up talking to 5, turns out I can't be "fixed" (due to how my facial muscles and nerves are placed and some dimensions).

I of course always wanted a gf and even at 18 wanted to ask my mom for surgery but I never felt comfortable about asking about it.

Over the years she then went on to keep on repeating "relationships are overrated" and other stuff like "it'll be a lot more work for you" (it always felt like she was trying to talk me out of it because she knows I can't get a gf, so it's better to not even try. I never did try because I know as a 1/10 and 5'4 and autistic, there's no point).
What I'm trying to say is I brought it up first and she always came from the other direction trying to dissuade (I strongly assume) me in a "veiled" way

28 is my age but given my height, frame and inexperience I feel more like 18-20

Not sure if it matters where people are from? I’m from the Midwest and we tend to be less blunt and not talk about people’s personal life.

Probably matters a bit I think. I'm not even sure, I'm in Central Europe and often people are not very direct. But I was always a very dependent person in an autistic way, I'm 28 and still live at home, I need certain support like a child also because of my extreme social anxiety

 

[Emba]

my dad calls me gay jokingly i think

That sucks

 

[sub5chud]

Yes