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Serious Do you think male-female friendship is possible?

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By friendship I don't mean just casual chatting or acquaintances.
Many non-incel men have that.

I am talking about a man having a true close friendship with a woman.

Do all of them secretly want to fuck her? Why would he be friends with her if not to fuck her in the end?
I keep noticing that men like that are almost always secretly wanting to sleep with the girl.

One friend I know, ethnic, short and ugly, is friends with a girl and talks with her everyday. She is short like him. He has a crush on her, he told me she seems 'nerdy' and 'cool' and whatever. He gives her attention and follows her around all the time

Meanwhile one of these days a friend of mine saw her at a restaurant. She was not alone, there was another man in the table with her: Chad
They were on a date, it was a holiday in my country for that.

Too late for my friend unfortunately. Chad got her already.
 
friends as in "we can hang out occasionally" - yes, friends as in "I can totally rely on her and confide in her" - hell no
 
if you are a soyjak yes
 
Friendship no because the female shall eventually get pissed off if you don't orbit her.
 
Only if she's too ugly/too slutty to fuck. Both will turn you off INSTANTLY
 
Of course! As the leader of the soy redditors I have many female friends. I'm a 45 year old late bloomer and I'll have a girlfriend one day if I just be a good person!

[SATIRE]

Actually I do think it is possible but only if the dude already has a wife or girlfriend
 
By friendship I don't mean just casual chatting or acquaintances.
Many non-incel men have that.

I am talking about a man having a true close friendship with a woman.

Do all of them secretly want to fuck her? Why would he be friends with her if not to fuck her in the end?
I keep noticing that men like that are almost always secretly wanting to sleep with the girl.

One friend I know, ethnic, short and ugly, is friends with a girl and talks with her everyday. She is short like him. He has a crush on her, he told me she seems 'nerdy' and 'cool' and whatever. He gives her attention and follows her around all the time

Meanwhile one of these days a friend of mine saw her at a restaurant. She was not alone, there was another man in the table with her: Chad
They were on a date, it was a holiday in my country for that.

Too late for my friend unfortunately. Chad got her already.
No, all foids in the end will somehow friendzone you or distance themselves for no reason
 
If you enjoy being cucked then yes
 
The fact that the word "friendzone" exists should be proof enough that male-female friendships do exist. Are they ever good friendships? No, but they do exist, although I see at more as an acquaintanceship most of the time.

Also, they exist only for normies. Not incels, and not chads (they usually want to fuck the chad/his male friends).
 
The man will develop romantic feelings in the situation. She won't. So he will be a cuck, basically. It's not rocket science.
 
The foid will have to put out at some point, otherwise it's just not natural (unless she's ugly, fat, or too old). Muslims were admittedly right on this.
 
If "platonic" means "absolutely zero physical attraction," then... the odds are pretty slim.
 
Just because you have attraction, doesn't meant that you can't be friends.
 
It sure is possible, but by no means common.
 
I have a friend who's best friend is this bitch that he met at a summer camp in middle school who has since become a Discord e-girl and he wanted to marry her but she told him she only dates white guys.
 
By friendship I don't mean just casual chatting or acquaintances.
Many non-incel men have that.

I am talking about a man having a true close friendship with a woman.

Do all of them secretly want to fuck her? Why would he be friends with her if not to fuck her in the end?
I keep noticing that men like that are almost always secretly wanting to sleep with the girl.

One friend I know, ethnic, short and ugly, is friends with a girl and talks with her everyday. She is short like him. He has a crush on her, he told me she seems 'nerdy' and 'cool' and whatever. He gives her attention and follows her around all the time

Meanwhile one of these days a friend of mine saw her at a restaurant. She was not alone, there was another man in the table with her: Chad
They were on a date, it was a holiday in my country for that.

Too late for my friend unfortunately. Chad got her already.

I definitely have female friends, although I notice my female friendships typically gravitate to tomboys/more masculine adjusted females as I simply treat them like my male friends. Some of them have boyfriends, although I couldn’t really care less as I’m either acquainted with them too or they’re not mentioned much. Besides that I’m acquainted well with some female family members since there’s obviously no attraction.
 
The man will develop romantic feelings in the situation. She won't. So he will be a cuck, basically. It's not rocket science.
And why is that?

Because is males are at a disadvantage when it comes to dating and romance and whatnot.
Soyciety will not recognize this.
 
By friendship I don't mean just casual chatting or acquaintances.
Many non-incel men have that.

I am talking about a man having a true close friendship with a woman.
I think it's possible if the female is motivated enough and wants to use the male for something, like to help her with stuff like academics, career advancement, handyman work, etc.. In that case she might be his true friend even if she has 0 sexual interest in him and never even holds hands with him. This is all assuming the guy isn't ugly...4 or 5 out of 10 or higher. She can and will drop him very quickly though as soon as she extracted what she wants from him.

Gay guys can be good friends with women and often are, but that's different of course.
 
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